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Upset after hen night

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  • White_Sapphire
    White_Sapphire Posts: 1,707 Forumite
    It's possible that the one who apologised was led by the other two, in which case she is a very weak person, although not as nasty. Do you really want such a flake in your life? Even if you think that this person might be worth hanging onto away from the others you would need tothink very hard aboutseparating her from them, asit seems the three spendalltheir time together, and even if you didn't see those two they wouldstill be a small part of your life by association.

    Personally Iwould email thisgirl back and graciously accept her apology, but stress that she has hurt you too deeply for you tobe abletotrust her again.

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  • LEJC
    LEJC Posts: 9,618 Forumite
    I would acknowledge the email and thank her for replying...however you still have to remember that she is possibly only appologising as a reply to your first email....sadly she never bothered to get on her computer and email you morning after to appologise....

    You need to remember that her email appology is purely on the back of the mail you sent...

    I wouldnt re instate her invite to the wedding perhaps you could say that you appreciate her taking the time to respond to your mail but it will take time to rebuild the friendship...and you'll hope to hear from her after the wedding...that way if she truly wants reconsiliation then it has to be her who contacts you....
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  • Abbafan1972
    Abbafan1972 Posts: 7,177 Forumite
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    I agree with the others, I wouldn't reinstate the invite just on the back of a feeble apology by email. Because by letting them come to the wedding, I don't think that anything will change.
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  • Stephb1986_2
    Stephb1986_2 Posts: 6,279 Forumite
    Anyone can say their sorry it doesn't mean that they mean it. Just remember how they've treated you

    Steph xx
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
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    Well done you for sending it, that must have been tough. I agree with the others, you don't need or want her there. Good luck with everything xx
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