I feel like a new woman.

thistledome

Incyder wrote: »

The problem there is, the married ones can't usually do the overnight and prostitutes generally want £100 an hour which is not very MSE.

You could find a bored couple who want a third person for swinging. The small ads in men's mags contain such people I believe.

They can provide accommodation too, so very MSE.:money:

Otherwise as others have said, just go to a dating site and find a female who's got the same idea as you. There will be some, you'll just have to find them.

ciderwithrosie_2

thistledome wrote: »

You could find a bored couple who want a third person for swinging.

No, he tried that with Barry & Rona :rotfl:

Incyder

Yeah, swingings not all its cracked up to be, they don't do fish and chips or walks by the sea. :T

ciderwithrosie_2

Incyder wrote: »

Yeah, swingings not all its cracked up to be, they don't do fish and chips or walks by the sea. :T

But you would get your sausage battered :eek:

naughty-yet-sorta-nice

Rikki wrote: »

When my marriage broke up I did miss opposite sex company and I the thing I missed the most was a hug. I would never entered into casual sex but that's just me. I respect me.

thats how i feel right now, have had plenty of offers but its not what i want!

Incyder

naughty-yet-sorta-nice wrote: »

thats how i feel right now, have had plenty of offers but its not what i want!

Exactly. There is more to life. Sex on its own solves nothing. :j

ciderwithrosie_2

But if you want a nice lady to have intelligent conversation with, walks on the beach, share a bag of chips and possibly yourself then how can you not get close to that person and categorically say you wouldn't want anything more from the relationship? and wouldn't it make it all a bit pointless - to me when you say in the past it's been too much hassle etc it just means you've not met the right lady yet.

ciderwithrosie_2

But then what do I know, I can't sort my own life out :beer:

margaretclare

Everyone is different really, but i found out that the ones who were being all moral and self respecting were the ones more than likely to jump into bed on the first night of meeting.

Depends entirely on whom. Not available, never have been available, to jump into bed with just anybody. And I don't eat chips.

margaretclare

Incyder wrote: »

Thanks. It seems some of the posters here think that the whole issue is about sex. It's not. In fact that would have no more than 25% worth of value to the whole set up.

So what's the remaining 75%? You say no 'blabbering' i.e. no conversation. What else is there?