I feel like a new woman.

Incyder

Well as I said in the opening post, I'm trying to avoid all the mundane/hassle that will come, as you know, with a full on commited relationship. Ive done that and it really is not fun and quite wearing.
Yes, the chips will be on me, I'm not that tight.

Its seems that the attitude from some 'ladies' here is I'm of no use if not offering to lavish them with expence and gifts !! What next, do you want me to pay your electric bill aswell ?
Sorry, that isn't what I am looking for.

Rikki

gardner1 wrote: »

bag of chips and decent b&b could be pricey in some places

why not try the chips approach and go straight to the passion in dark alley;)

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

There are a few city pubs that turn out women who after a few drinks would go for that I'm sure.

pigpen

jetta_wales wrote: »

Lol yeah because there's no women in the world that want casual relationships or even just sex with non of the commitments are there? No only a man would ever want that.

Oh get a grip!

I have plenty of grips thank you..

And other than the dirty slappers that are benchwarmers in the skanky pubs at kicking out time .. I would say such anomalies to morality were primarily men.. or excuses for.

3-4 days a month... nah... I have yet to encounter any woman who would want that.. though if you are then maybe you should pm our details over to whats-his-face and it coud be mutually beneficial..

The women I know that are happy with 'casual relationships' want holidays and long weekends and meals in the week.. 3-4 bed dates a month is not an option... they want sex, lots of it and no strings..

Lifesaver

The OP sounds like my ex - he's an ex for a reason!

What a prize. :doh:

Rikki

scooby088 wrote: »

When i was just out of a relationship i used online dating as a way of meeting women for casual sex, the women wanted the same thing. Nothing wrong with no ties and all the hassle of feelings and emotion getting in the way.

When my marriage broke up I did miss opposite sex company and I the thing I missed the most was a hug. I would never entered into casual sex but that's just me. I respect me.

jetta_wales

Incyder wrote: »

Well as I said in the opening post, I'm trying to avoid all the mundane/hassle that will come, as you know, with a full on commited relationship. Ive done that and it really is not fun and quite wearing.
Yes, the chips will be on me, I'm not that tight.

Its seems that the attitude from some 'ladies' here is I'm of no use if not offering to lavish them with expence and gifts !! What next, do you want me to pay your electric bill aswell ?
Sorry, that isn't what I am looking for.

Women just like being unpleasant sometimes hence why I usually get on better with guys.

I met my other half playing Gears of War, no posh restaurants involved at all more a sniper or shotgun and him getting peeved when I pulled out the chainsaw lol.

jetta_wales

pigpen wrote: »

I have plenty of grips thank you..

And other than the dirty slappers that are benchwarmers in the skanky pubs at kicking out time .. I would say such anomalies to morality were primarily men.. or excuses for.

3-4 days a month... nah... I have yet to encounter any woman who would want that.. though if you are then maybe you should pm our details over to whats-his-face and it coud be mutually beneficial..

The women I know that are happy with 'casual relationships' want holidays and long weekends and meals in the week.. 3-4 bed dates a month is not an option... they want sex, lots of it and no strings..

Oh look the claws are out now lol shal we fight with our hand bags too?

Lol get over yourself, everybody's different and wants different things at different times in their lives for many different reasons. I've only ever been in a FWB situation once but that was with an ex and it was nice while it lasted till he wanted more again which would not have worked out just like it hadn't first time around.

If you're the sort of person who thinks anybody who wants something you don't approve of is a slag then that's your closed mindednes and not their problem.

vixarooni

If you were ripped i would take a bag of chips and a B&B! If you aren't ripped then you would need to offer more. There has to be some return ha!

You obviously just need to find the right person, i'm not looking for a serious relationship again, but i would want a bit more out of a non serious relationship than that and i'm sure a lot of girls are too.

scooby088

Rikki wrote: »

When my marriage broke up I did miss opposite sex company and I the thing I missed the most was a hug. I would never entered into casual sex but that's just me. I respect me.

Everyone is different really, but i found out that the ones who were being all moral and self respecting were the ones more than likely to jump into bed on the first night of meeting.

I dont do it now as i am with someone, but if the need should arise again in the future i will do it.

jetta_wales

vixarooni wrote: »

If you were ripped i would take a bag of chips and a B&B! If you aren't ripped then you would need to offer more. There has to be some return ha!

Hahaha I like that.