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emsywoo123

john9to5 wrote: »

I don't tend to pander to any posters on here anymore, you have all made someone feel like crap tbh today and i hope you are all happy , so give yourselves a little pat on the back and get on with it as i said previously please just leave this thread and me alone !

I knew it! You're 12 and bored and a grim little troll!! Whoop whoop. Or too dumb to know how old you are. and yeah, that comment was horrible, but hey kiddo, so are you. Just seen your post about the offer to take on another posters child, here's hoping you do naff off MSE.

onlyroz

Please don't feed the troll.

mountainofdebt

The point is, OP, assuming your initial rant was for real it has come across as its not fair and I will scream and scream and scream until I'm sick.

The rules are there for a purpose and assuming that you and your partner are genuine, you will climb over any hurdle placed in your way and the first hurdle for you is your age - or lack of it.

What does worry me though is that although you claim to be mature enough to adopt a child (and heck I'm more than twice your age and I don't think I could cope with emotional baggage an adopted child brings) your posts show a distinct lack of maturity.

So go away mature and then, when the authorities deem you old enough, hopefully you will be mature enough to bring a child up.

Oh and one last word of advice - liars have to have good memories.

mummyplus3

TBH op, I doubt any of the adoption agencies would accept you anyway, if this is the type of behaviour you deem as mature enough to be ready for a baby then i for one am rather glad you are unable to have them at this point in your life. I think it might be wise for you to quit whilst your behind, and do some soul searching and some honest reflecting on whether you are ready to be a dad.

pigpen

Torry_Quine wrote: »

Actually you did but of course deleted the post when people objected. :eek:

That one was quoted I'm sure..

Torry_Quine

pigpen wrote: »

That one was quoted I'm sure..

The link is in post 56 so yes it is there for all to see.

McKneff

To be honest, I think its time the mods did actually close this post.

belfastgirl23

I think the reason people are concerned is that your post smacks of 'I want a baby and I want it now' which does feel a bit like a teenager who wants an ipod or a new car. Maybe this isn't how you intended it but really a year is not a long time to wait for something so important.

lostinrates

belfastgirl23 wrote: »

I think the reason people are concerned is that your post smacks of 'I want a baby and I want it now' which does feel a bit like a teenager who wants an ipod or a new car. Maybe this isn't how you intended it but really a year is not a long time to wait for something so important.

In fact a year is not much longer than the traditional way! (and i you include trying and pregnancy it can be well over a year!)

john9to5

belfastgirl23 wrote: »

I think the reason people are concerned is that your post smacks of 'I want a baby and I want it now' which does feel a bit like a teenager who wants an ipod or a new car. Maybe this isn't how you intended it but really a year is not a long time to wait for something so important.

I can completly see that point What the post was meant to do was not about me lol, I wanted people to debate on wether they thought the age in which you can adopt should be lowered/highered that was all, I think the thread has turned into a monster and not what it was intended to be. Although it is not I want one now and I will get it no matter what, I see hopefully getting a child in the next few years, I say hopefully as I dont know, but I do believe if its meant to be its meant to be, Just trying to think about everything and cover all angles thats all