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BF wants to clear my debt...

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  • Is that personal experience there SS? :D
    Bank Balance: In the black for the moment.
    Sainsburys Loan: Cleared July 2010
    Credit cards: AMEX Airmiles Card: direct debit set to clear balance monthly
  • Is that personal experience there SS? :D

    Oh yes! :p :rotfl:
  • But i heard you was a bad boy, did i say heard? i meant read:p
  • I'm a id1ot i didn't read ur post right, your still bad:rotfl:
  • Paula_anne wrote:
    I'm a id1ot i didn't read ur post right, your still bad:rotfl:

    But bad is good right? :D
  • Ok yeah, haven't spoken for ages soz to hear about your fishing tackles/gear.
  • Yeah things are ok, glad all is well with you love.;)
  • Kevicho
    Kevicho Posts: 3,216 Forumite
    Why dont you let him pay the debts on the condition you save upo that money to pay him back or invest in something for both your futures?
  • Brassic
    Brassic Posts: 557 Forumite
    Ooooh, I like the idea of investing in something for your futures - tha's a nice way round it, or if you're planning on kids - set up a trust fund or Index Tracker or whatever Martin suggests is best ;) for them ;)
    Debts @ lightbulb moment (13/06/2006) - £59,842.23 :eek: All commercial debts now clear!!! :T Debts April - £20,000 to family (incl extra £10k borrowed for house deposit). DFD - Aug 2014
    Proud to be dealing with my debts
    Goal of the month - £500 on groceries for family of 5 - Apr 2011 - £620! :( May - £454.85 so far.
  • the thing i have with this is whether people would be giving the same advice if it was a woman offering to be paying of the blokes debt

    i somewhat suspect people would be alot more cautious...or am i to synacle (sp)

    Will
    SShhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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