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O S Daily Friday 6th May 2011

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  • Loulou2010
    Loulou2010 Posts: 13,245 Forumite
    not a word :(
    "I have learnt that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one"
    "You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”
    Maya Angelou
  • Bitsy_Beans
    Bitsy_Beans Posts: 9,640 Forumite
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    Loulou2010 wrote: »
    not a word :(

    Oh dear :( Shame he's not even been in touch about DS. Any idea where he might be?? Have you got contact numbers for any of his friends?
    I have a gift for enraging people, but if I ever bore you it'll be with a knife :D Louise Brooks
    All will be well in the end. If it's not well, it's not the end.
    Be humble for you are made of earth. Be noble for you are made of stars
  • Loulou2010
    Loulou2010 Posts: 13,245 Forumite
    yeah i text a few of them yesterday and they said he hadnt been in touch and they would let me know if he does. no idea where he is tbh. cant blame him for disappear though
    "I have learnt that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one"
    "You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”
    Maya Angelou
  • NoahsPennilessMummy
    NoahsPennilessMummy Posts: 1,444 Forumite
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    you are too soft on him Lou.....ok things have been difficult recently but a grown man does not just walk out and leave his family for a few days with no word:mad:
    he needs to have a serious word with himself and grow a pair.
    It is not fair on you or DS
  • Bitsy_Beans
    Bitsy_Beans Posts: 9,640 Forumite
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    NoahsPennilessMummy wrote: »
    you are too soft on him Lou.....ok things have been difficult recently but a grown man does not just walk out and leave his family for a few days with no word:mad:
    he needs to have a serious word with himself and grow a pair.
    It is not fair on you or DS

    I second this. Things have been difficult but really you need support not someone who is going to !!!!!! off when the going gets tough. Otherwise why bother saying your wedding vows to one another.
    I have a gift for enraging people, but if I ever bore you it'll be with a knife :D Louise Brooks
    All will be well in the end. If it's not well, it's not the end.
    Be humble for you are made of earth. Be noble for you are made of stars
  • NoahsPennilessMummy
    NoahsPennilessMummy Posts: 1,444 Forumite
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    exactly Bitsy.....life is not one big laugh all the time....we all hit difficult and hard times now and again and part of being a family is to stick together through the tough times and support each other through it.
    He needs to be holding the family together at the moment and not walking off like some huffy teenager:o
  • Loulou2010
    Loulou2010 Posts: 13,245 Forumite
    trust me i have been really difficukt and awkward and am the reason for tihs
    "I have learnt that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one"
    "You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”
    Maya Angelou
  • NoahsPennilessMummy
    NoahsPennilessMummy Posts: 1,444 Forumite
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    that is your depression talking Lou:o:o
  • Bitsy_Beans
    Bitsy_Beans Posts: 9,640 Forumite
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    Loulou2010 wrote: »
    trust me i have been really difficukt and awkward and am the reason for tihs

    Regardless of "who's to blame" (which quite frankly I don't believe is ALL you) there is no point running away from the issue. To move forward you have to be looking forward and supporting one another. You have an illness, you are not being difficult or awkward for the hell of it, you can't help it. Would he do a runner if you had cancer? Heart disease? Just because your illness isn't visible like a wound you are still as poorly as the cancer patient.
    I have a gift for enraging people, but if I ever bore you it'll be with a knife :D Louise Brooks
    All will be well in the end. If it's not well, it's not the end.
    Be humble for you are made of earth. Be noble for you are made of stars
  • Loulou2010
    Loulou2010 Posts: 13,245 Forumite
    its all just a sorry mess. i think he is doing because i did it to them when ds was a tiny baby
    "I have learnt that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one"
    "You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”
    Maya Angelou
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