oh packed his stuff and left tonight what do i do now?

Darlyd

Ask his parents to have a word with him find out what is wrong with him. Don't go chasing... Go from there ...

Padstow

I admire you chloo for having the strength not to contact him. Forty years on I still cringe at the fool I made of myself when a relationship ended with no explanation.

chloo

hello i just wanted to give an update and to thank each of you that responded to my post thank you.

i text him on saturday quiet a breif but to the point text saying we needed to talk. he text back and said yes we do we text a little bit more e.g small talk how are you ect!

on sunday he came over to the flat he said he had made a massive mistake, and only walked out as he couldnt bare to see me hurting (i dont understand either i think its a bloke thing lol!!!) so we have decided to give it another go but i asked him not to move back in for the time being and he said thats fine and he also thinks its a good idea not to live together for about 2/3 months just so we can get back on track.

i am currently looking at flat/house shares although as much as i love him we both agree that living together is weird expensive and we didnt spend much time together as a couple it was more like we were stuck in a rut.

so he came over last night we had dinner chatted cuddled watched the apprentice and had a brilliant time all in all i feel it was one of the nicest evening we have had in a long while (about 10 weeks)

i think we are doing the right thing and i hope we can be a lot stronger now!

i asked him how he feels now and he said he loves me more now than in the last few weeks of living together lol!!! but thats really good i think!!

bit of bad news tho in our break i spent arount £200 on clothes and beauty bits but i did get a good deal on the h&m website lol!! so now im off to have a look through my stuff to see what i can ebay or car boot!!!

thank you all very much for your help

xxx