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Double Trouble - Nothing by halves

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  • shaun40400
    shaun40400 Posts: 4,134 Forumite
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    :think: Errrrm... is now a good time to mention that some people also keep spending diaries / income forecasts / income & outgoing spreadsheeds and debtpayment logs :whistle: Some even keep dreamboards with pictures of their little n large goals on .... including bells, whistles n coloured ribbons :o

    I am just sooooo sad :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: Think I'd best go crawl in a corner somewhere & hang my head with the shame of it all :p

    Angel xxx

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    WAS DEBT FREE & STILL BAAARRRRRKING :cool:
    hello my name is shaun,,,and im not so addicted to farmville,still addicted to football:o:o

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  • Hopeful1
    Hopeful1 Posts: 2,076 Forumite
    :rotfl: @ Shaun's reply!!!

    I think it's fair to say GhA, that this debt busting can become a little obsessive and sometimes we obviously all need to step away from the MSE forum before we get sectioned :p
    One step at a time ;)
  • You are all so wonderful you have made me laugh so much and I am really jealous of your dreamboard GA
    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    I have had the bestest news tonight the little girl who went for adoption 15 months ago is coming to see us with her adoptive mother next week I have hoped for this for so long and I am over the moon - words can't describe how I feel although I know that it is also going to be quite difficult and just pray that it goes well and that it is the first meeting of many :happyhear

    DTxx
  • Hopeful1
    Hopeful1 Posts: 2,076 Forumite
    You are all so wonderful you have made me laugh so much and I am really jealous of your dreamboard GA
    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    I have had the bestest news tonight the little girl who went for adoption 15 months ago is coming to see us with her adoptive mother next week I have hoped for this for so long and I am over the moon - words can't describe how I feel although I know that it is also going to be quite difficult and just pray that it goes well and that it is the first meeting of many :happyhear

    DTxx

    It's always good to know we're not all mad on our own! I know my 'real' life doesn't involve talking about a lot of the things that are 'normal' in my 'virtual' life! I tried running the flylady thing past a few friends recently...I could tell from their reaction that I most definitely wouldn't be able to share the whole colour coded shopping list thing without them calling adult mental health :rotfl:

    What lovely, lovely news about your previous foster child coming to visit. I'm sure it will be emotional but hopefully positive at the same time :A
    One step at a time ;)
  • My virtual friends have added a whole new depth to my life (is that sad?) probably but I don't have many close friends in the real world that I can share things with and it is such a relief to be able to share these things and it has really helped me through some tough times. I also feel that I know some of you so much better than my real friends and I have to say those of you that I have met in real life have always lived up to if not exceeded my expectations - OK soppy talk over but I do really love you xx

    DTxx
  • Hopeful1
    Hopeful1 Posts: 2,076 Forumite
    My virtual friends have added a whole new depth to my life (is that sad?) probably but I don't have many close friends in the real world that I can share things with and it is such a relief to be able to share these things and it has really helped me through some tough times. I also feel that I know some of you so much better than my real friends and I have to say those of you that I have met in real life have always lived up to if not exceeded my expectations - OK soppy talk over but I do really love you xx

    DTxx

    Awwww we all love you too! I must admit I look forward to reading the few threads that I'm subscribed too. Some, like yours, feel very 'homely'. I learn so much and find the lives of others so intriguing. It's also a little company for sad singletons like myself :o The best of a virtual world is that you only have to talk to the people you like :p
    One step at a time ;)
  • My virtual friends have added a whole new depth to my life (is that sad?) probably but I don't have many close friends in the real world that I can share things with and it is such a relief to be able to share these things and it has really helped me through some tough times. I also feel that I know some of you so much better than my real friends and I have to say those of you that I have met in real life have always lived up to if not exceeded my expectations - OK soppy talk over but I do really love you xx
    DTxx

    I can only agree with that DT, like you - I don't really have any "real life" friends to call on. I've just not seemed to be able to make any nice new ones here yet (and it's been nearly 4 years :eek:)
    Hopeful1 wrote: »
    It's always good to know we're not all mad on our own! I know my 'real' life doesn't involve talking about a lot of the things that are 'normal' in my 'virtual' life! I tried running the flylady thing past a few friends recently...I could tell from their reaction that I most definitely wouldn't be able to share the whole colour coded shopping list thing without them calling adult mental health :rotfl:

    That's why I have dogs :rotfl:You can say what you like, as it's all gibberish to them unless you mention the "food" word :p

    I have had the bestest news tonight the little girl who went for adoption 15 months ago is coming to see us with her adoptive mother next week I have hoped for this for so long and I am over the moon - words can't describe how I feel although I know that it is also going to be quite difficult and just pray that it goes well and that it is the first meeting of many :happyhear
    DTxx

    That's lovely news about your previous foster child, I'm sure it will be a beautiful & poignent (sp) visit - feel proud gal, cos you helped her get there :A

    You are all so wonderful you have made me laugh so much and I am really jealous of your dreamboard GA
    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    DTxx

    :o Awww, shucks guys .... but, but, it even has a "homemade" jigsaw picture on it .... which I am filling in £1k at a time as I clear down the debts / mortgage ... ... Well I like seeing the picture emerging ... and seeing my totals going down :o

    *slinks off quietly before someone decides to call the whitejackets in* :rotfl:

    Angel xxx
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  • Hopeful1
    Hopeful1 Posts: 2,076 Forumite
    Oooo a jigsaw....now I like the sound of that... :rotfl: Funny enough I've used home made jigsaws as rewards with children. It's based on the principle of a puzzle piece for each good behaviour with the rewar being completion of the pic of a Fave tv character (just an example) Now David Beckham appearing on my fridge might just work for me :p
    One step at a time ;)
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    My virtual friends have added a whole new depth to my life (is that sad?) probably but I don't have many close friends in the real world that I can share things with and it is such a relief to be able to share these things and it has really helped me through some tough times. I also feel that I know some of you so much better than my real friends and I have to say those of you that I have met in real life have always lived up to if not exceeded my expectations - OK soppy talk over but I do really love you xx

    DTxx

    I feel soppy too about my dfw friends :kisses3:
    :think: Errrrm... is now a good time to mention that some people also keep spending diaries / income forecasts / income & outgoing spreadsheeds and debtpayment logs :whistle: Some even keep dreamboards with pictures of their little n large goals on .... including bells, whistles n coloured ribbons :o

    I am just sooooo sad :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: Think I'd best go crawl in a corner somewhere & hang my head with the shame of it all :p

    Angel xxx

    I **love** the idea of a dreamboard! And let me tell you, when I was working 13 or 14 hours a day to pay the debt off, I had the coloured squares chart, and I had a listing of every single piece of money I saved from a bill or earned from extra work, whether it was an Amazon sale, an ebay sale, mystery shopping, surveys, bingo, matched betting, a focus group, the odd competition, freebies, bogofs, vouchers, anything and everything. You carry on with what you're doing!
    I can only agree with that DT, like you - I don't really have any "real life" friends to call on. I've just not seemed to be able to make any nice new ones here yet (and it's been nearly 4 years :eek:)

    That's why I have dogs :rotfl:You can say what you like, as it's all gibberish to them unless you mention the "food" word :p

    :o Awww, shucks guys .... but, but, it even has a "homemade" jigsaw picture on it .... which I am filling in £1k at a time as I clear down the debts / mortgage ... ... Well I like seeing the picture emerging ... and seeing my totals going down :o

    *slinks off quietly before someone decides to call the whitejackets in* :rotfl:

    Angel xxx

    Its difficult to make friends in a new place - I do want to, but finding the energy is horrendously difficult....

    Loving talking to the dogs and the hm jigsaw, I'm very impressed :kisses3:
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Hello DT

    have been frantically catching up. Brilliant news about the little girl coming on a visit. I know you hoped for this at the beginning.

    I love everyones plans for colour coded lists, and have looked with envy when people did coloured boxes etc. but I always forget to keep them updated. So very envious GA of your jigsaw, but I get fed up.

    Take care of you DT.

    P.S what are you doing for your birthday?
    Debts at LBM - Mortgages £128497 - non mortgage £27497 Debt now £[STRIKE]114150[/STRIKE][STRIKE]109032[/STRIKE] 64300 (mortgage) Credit cards left 0



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