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Double Trouble - Nothing by halves

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  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    DT, Greying has the rights of it - and I think you're getting it, aren't you - just doing the basics, paying attention to the important things of life. Take care - I hop on a fair bit still, I'm checking up on you, you know :D:D:D

    :kisses3:
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Ummm, is it really sad that I actually quite like that idea :o

    I notice a lot of us seem to be in the "be kinder to ourselves" mindset this year ... in whatever format that takes with each person.

    When I started my new diary ... I felt like I also needed to do "stuff" for me but kept worrying that it would detract from the debt busting. But after reading a few other diaries .... I realised that if I didnt allow just a little time or money just for me - I'd fizzle out again, like I've done before. I think we all need a little something to help us on our journeys :A

    Hope your energy catches up with you again soon DT, mines still only making a half-hearted effort to keep up with me :rotfl:

    Angel xxx

    OK that's two people I am officially worried about :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: actually I am quite fond of coloured pens myself ;)

    Yes GA I think the temptation is to get all out to debt bust because we just want rid but that is a recipe for a few months down the line saying sod it and having a big blow out

    Energy is still lacking and now OH has taken himself off to bed so I am in charge ooh he has just got up I can feel a cappuccino coming on :T:T:T

    Just keep hanging on in there GA that's about as much as I can do at the moment

    DTxx
  • Karmacat wrote: »
    DT, Greying has the rights of it - and I think you're getting it, aren't you - just doing the basics, paying attention to the important things of life. Take care - I hop on a fair bit still, I'm checking up on you, you know :D:D:D

    :kisses3:

    Ooh KC you sneaked in there whilst I wasn't looking :j

    I like the fact that you are checking on me missing you already as they say in the good ol US of A :D

    DTxx
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    You're a sweetheart, a major contributor to your community, but I just want to know you're okay in yourself :kisses3:
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Hopeful1
    Hopeful1 Posts: 2,076 Forumite
    Ummm, is it really sad that I actually quite like that idea :o

    :T No, not sad at all! Jump on board the OCD bus :rotfl:
    OK that's two people I am officially worried about :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: actually I am quite fond of coloured pens myself ;)

    Errr, excuse me, not just coloured pens, DT....coloured card. A different colour for each week :p with whole punched corners secured with purple ribbon......only the best for old fussy pants here :D (Just in case you were wondering, this week is lilac) It will obviously make shopping a far more enjoyable event :p

    Being kinder to ourselves is definitely the way forward. It would be too much of a battle to survive long term otherwise.
    One step at a time ;)
  • Purple ribbon now your are talking my language I am known as the purple lady in Uganda :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    I do think you need a new hobby though I am very worried now mainly because I could never ever find the time to do anything like that :o

    Anything that makes shopping more enjoyable has to be worth a go :T

    DTxx
  • shaun40400
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    sneaky new diary :D
    i have to agree with you Dt your oh is a 2 in a million (im number 1 :cool:)
    as are you all!!!!!!!!!!!

    have to get my act together and sort out my outgoings eth and maybe a new diary

    though the idea of colored pens and cards sounds to confusing for little wooly me :D
    s xx
    WAS DEBT FREE & STILL BAAARRRRRKING :cool:
    hello my name is shaun,,,and im not so addicted to farmville,still addicted to football:o:o

    BAAAARRRRRRRRRRKING er insanely so :o
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    Hello your wooliness!

    DT, I'm with you - I can't even make myself keep a spending diary, but I'm with you too, Hopeful - shopping has to feel good, or you (erm, I) can make some dreadful mistakes :)
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Hopeful1
    Hopeful1 Posts: 2,076 Forumite
    Karmacat wrote: »
    Hello your wooliness!

    DT, I'm with you - I can't even make myself keep a spending diary, but I'm with you too, Hopeful - shopping has to feel good, or you (erm, I) can make some dreadful mistakes :)

    Yes, you can include me in dreadful spending mistakes!!! I can't cope with a spending diary either, but I really need to tighten up on my spending. Since a change in circumstances I can only rely on my money and anything else i get has to be seen as a bonus. I've had to borrow to move and replace my car so there's a HUGE strain on my finances now. I am a stubborn devil and won't let it/people get me down (which is hard at times :o). I function far better with a plan and always have my little ones for motivation. So wish me luck, 'cause i've gotta stick with it now,otherwise it will be a waste of pretty card and ribbon...i hate waste :p
    One step at a time ;)
  • OK that's two people I am officially worried about :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: actually I am quite fond of coloured pens myself ;)

    Just keep hanging on in there GA that's about as much as I can do at the moment
    DTxx
    shaun40400 wrote: »
    though the idea of colored pens and cards sounds to confusing for little wooly me :D
    s xx
    Karmacat wrote: »
    Hello your wooliness!

    DT, I'm with you - I can't even make myself keep a spending diary, but I'm with you too, Hopeful - shopping has to feel good, or you (erm, I) can make some dreadful mistakes :)
    Hopeful1 wrote: »
    Yes, you can include me in dreadful spending mistakes!!! I can't cope with a spending diary either, but I really need to tighten up on my spending. Since a change in circumstances I can only rely on my money and anything else i get has to be seen as a bonus. I've had to borrow to move and replace my car so there's a HUGE strain on my finances now. I am a stubborn devil and won't let it/people get me down (which is hard at times :o). I function far better with a plan and always have my little ones for motivation. So wish me luck, 'cause i've gotta stick with it now,otherwise it will be a waste of pretty card and ribbon...i hate waste :p

    :think: Errrrm... is now a good time to mention that some people also keep spending diaries / income forecasts / income & outgoing spreadsheeds and debtpayment logs :whistle: Some even keep dreamboards with pictures of their little n large goals on .... including bells, whistles n coloured ribbons :o

    I am just sooooo sad :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: Think I'd best go crawl in a corner somewhere & hang my head with the shame of it all :p

    Angel xxx
    ~ On the Road to Making Dreams Happen ~
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    52 Week Challenge £ 0.00 / £1,378

    Debt Owed £23,200 / £19,251 - Mtge Owed Bal £140,000 / £130,940 - Total Debt Balance Owed : £163,200 / £150,191
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