Dont Be Put Off By Advice

kenshaz

When someone puts OP,does that mean ''ordinary poster'' ?:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

MortgageMamma

No it means Original poster. Not even funny.

AndrewSmith

The two of you should stop beating about the bush and declare your undying love for one another.

Holy !!!!!! you sound exactly like any married couple I have ever met.

You should start a new thread:

The Ken & Lisa Show

Great entertinment value, better than Eastenders.

:mad: :mad: :mad:

kenshaz

:blushing: Andrew I am already married to a beautiful intelligent person ,why should I give that up.I am glad that you are enjoying the show ,I have been trying to stay backstage ,but an encore keeps being requested by the girl from Lancashire.

AndrewSmith

kenshaz wrote:

Andrew I am already married to a beautiful intelligent person ,why should I give that up.

Let nothing get in the way Ken if this is the case.

Hear out my point though Ken,

You must stop taking over threads and using them as a sounding block for your own opinions unless the content of your post is directly related to the OP (original posters) point.

I concur 100% that this is a public arena and should be used as such but make a respectful suggestion that if you have issues or points to raise, which you obviously have, that you start a new thread where the subject matter of your concerns will be openly discussed in a proper and adult manner instead of the whole thread being diluted by a number of conflicting issues? as I have said previously, when you are not bickering with other posters you do have valuable input to the forum.

Thank You

kenshaz

I do not need lectures from you.
Now take my point. I am totally impartial and I do not sell from this site it is pleasure not business,I therefore have no bias.
I am entitled to a view and I resent that being seen as bickering by those who sell mortgages.
I have attempted to ignore personal comments by brokers,but I must now defend my corner ,I have reported some abuse ,those I considered of a personal nature and they have been removed,borderline abuse has been ignored ,as I wish to retain a sense humour.This post is not aimed directly at you ,but is a general defense against a clique mentality.

AndrewSmith

kenshaz wrote:

I do not need lectures from you.
Now take my point. I am totally impartial and I do not sell from this site it is pleasure not business,I therefore have no bias.
I am entitled to a view and I resent that being seen as bickering by those who sell mortgages.

As am I impartial and have explained previously my motives for using this site, for reasons of recreation not business. It is not just brokers that are commenting on the 'bickering'.

As you say yourself I am free to post my opinion, but I always do so in a respectful manner merely citing observations. I am not going to be drawn into an argument.

I have attempted to ignore personal comments by brokers,but I must now defend my corner ,I have reported some abuse ,those I considered of a personal nature and they have been removed,borderline abuse has been ignored ,as I wish to retain a sense humour.This post is not aimed directly at you ,but is a general defense against a clique mentality

I appreciate that you are not directing this comment at me as I can assure you I am the last person to be interested in being part of a 'clique'.

My comment re: starting your own thread is merely a suggestion of how you can draw better attention to the concerns or issues you have without them being diluted in the middle of another thread.

It is not an attack on you Ken, calm down old chap.

MortgageMamma

Kenshaz why then have you made personal attacks against me? At the risk of sounding less mature than I actually am, you actually started this by having a go at me and trying to undermine me with your persistent attacks. Be careful you don't say anything that could be construed as libellous, because I am serious when I say I won't take anymore of your personal attacks.

AndrewS. Really you should know better than to post something like that, you know how it feels to be attacked by this forum user, even though he only did it the once to you. Imagine getting that consistently? How would you feel? The last thing I needed was a statement like that to make me feel even worse.

I don't know why I bother helping on this site if this how I am going to be spoken about.

kenshaz

Not worthy of a response.

AndrewSmith

kenshaz wrote:

Not worthy of a response.

To whom are you directing that comment Ken?