My home is a mess

Fruball

Cat501 wrote: »

thank you - does anyone know what this blindness could mean, is it the kidneys? via pm of course:(

I've got no idea hun, sorry. It doesn't sound good though

I hope DS is ok - does he know that his Dad might not pull thru? xx

Cat501

Frugal wrote: »

I've got no idea hun, sorry. It doesn't sound good though

I hope DS is ok - does he know that his Dad might not pull thru? xx

he does now Fru - beginning to wonder if I should have "paved the way" a bit more:( seems ok just now - DS that is....x

Cat501

The news is, his body is shutting down and the family have been called in, DS undecided about whether to go.

eta he doesn't want to. Think he can't face everyone's grief if he does. I hope they'll understand. Problem is, I want to go but I really can't though he says I can

!!!! !!!! !!!!:(

Rummer

I would go, this is the last opportunity you will have. Huge hugs to you and your family, he will take great comfort from people who care for him being there.

soupdragon10

Cat I really feel for you - and only you and your DS can know what is right for both of you. At least your DS has had recent positive contact with his dad and has these times to look back on.

Thoughts are with you both, take care of one another. Hugs xxxx

jpscloud

Just posting quickly to say so sorry Cat, try not to feel bad whatever you choose to do. There aren't words really... just so sorry.

Fruball

Cat501 wrote: »

The news is, his body is shutting down and the family have been called in, DS undecided about whether to go.

eta he doesn't want to. Think he can't face everyone's grief if he does. I hope they'll understand. Problem is, I want to go but I really can't though he says I can

!!!! !!!! !!!!:(

I thought that might be the case.

I'm sorry, Cat.

Cat501

I'm going to go guys. Thank you so much for the support xxxx

YORKSHIRELASS

sonastin wrote: »

YL - if it wasn't for the mention of kids, I'd be worrying that I had a split personality and you were my alter ego. Certainly sounds like we've got the same fella although mine was tucked up in bed at that time this morning so no bigamy risk! He's not getting the "the bathroom really needs cleaning" hints. Even when I say it following his "I'm bored at home all day. What am I supposed to do while you're at work all day" moans. At least he has started doing the washing up now though ;-)

Oh that is so funny. Is there really another fella out there as bad as mine, really ?????????

Cat dont beat yourself up hun. When my hubbys Dad was poorly he had promised to go and see him one night on his way home from work. Anyway hubby had had a crap day at work and was tired so he just came home with the intention of seeing his Dad the next day. His Dad died at 11pm that night. Hubby felt terrible and it was a long time before he got over it, but he wasnt to know and it wouldnt have made any difference. Losing someone is never easy, whatever the circumstances. If it helps a little I am sure there are lots of people thinking of you and your DS right now.

jacci45

Thinking of you and your DS Cat.....xxx