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  • pendulum
    pendulum Posts: 2,302 Forumite
    The police are the least of your worries, the most important thing is having nothing more to do with him, as he's obviously not wired up in the head correctly. It seems you got back with him or tried to at least twice when you shouldn't have, don't let there be a third.
  • shellsuit
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    He's theatened you and even p!ssed on you and you keep on going back for more., yet you're more worried about this password business??

    Stay away from him, don't contact him and ignore him if he contacts you.

    That's the only advice I have apart from if this story is true, you have given enough info for him to find it if he digs deep enough.
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  • joeblack066
    joeblack066 Posts: 1,757 Forumite
    Walk away.
  • Sublime_2
    Sublime_2 Posts: 15,741 Forumite
    Steer well clear of him. Have nothing to do with him. He sounds dangerous.
  • Money_maker
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    Gotta agree with Shellsuit - you took back a guy that p1ssed on you?

    Not read the rest properly but deleting your facebook account would be a good start.
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  • Kay_Peel
    Kay_Peel Posts: 1,672 Forumite
    The police have seen and interviewed you. They have no evidence whatsoever and so offered you some advice about passwords. That shows that your ex hasn't got any firm information. If he'd got 'friends' who received text messages then it's up to him to produce these witnesses and give the police copies of the texts. You would have been shown the texts when interviewed and asked to comment, but you weren't. From what you say, I'd guess that the case (if there ever was one and I doubt it) is closed as far as the police are concerned.

    You're not a victim, in my opinion. You sound gullible, naive and a sandwich short of a picnic, but you're not a victim. Are you for real?
  • BitterAndTwisted
    BitterAndTwisted Posts: 22,492 Forumite
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    You're feeling down and depressed because you've been foolish and tangled with a raving lunatic. Have nothing more to do with him and flush all memory of him down the lav where he belongs.
  • BitterAndTwisted
    BitterAndTwisted Posts: 22,492 Forumite
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    I reckon you're over-thinking all this computer and mobile phone rubbish. I doubt that anything will happen. I daresay that these police officers, having known about him and his previous escapades, won't be following any of this up bar the bare minimum because they know he's not worth the effort. Given what he's been up to in the past I doubt they'd pee on him if he was on fire. Doing some fierce and time-consuming detective work is the job of specialists and his spurious complaint isn't worth their time and trouble., believe me
  • Mupette
    Mupette Posts: 4,599 Forumite
    My facebook account has been deleted since January. I don't want or need a facebook account anymore so I won't be going back on. I login maybe once a week for 10 minutes then deactivate it again. I can live without it and that way he won't know what I am up to, not that I posted much on facebook anyway's.


    Seriously....... either you do or you don't

    you log on to see if he is around, your as bad as each other.

    If you are really serious, then delete the facebook permantly, none of the, oh but i don't need it, then logs on once a week..

    As for everything else, if sounded like a scene from police camera action when the drunk chavs are up to no good outside the pubs.

    If you want out, then there is no need to call or text him when it is over, But you do... you are inviting him all the time.

    Either your over him or not... if you are STOP calling him over for a drink, you know what he is like
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  • pinkshoes
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    To be blunt: STOP being a doormat, have some self respect, change your phone number, block him on facebook, and have NO MORE contact with this guy.

    Move on, and find yourself a nice guy, and stop wasting your time and energy on a guy that clearly doesn't respect you.
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