LiT - starting from the beginning and rebuilding my life

life_in_termoil

Grrrrrrrrrrrrr im fuming!!! KH has send DD a text saying he isnt picking them up now till Saturday. Why he couldnt phone me I dont know. Getting rather sick of him changing things at the last minute and relaying messages through our daughter. I had made arrangements to go visit a friend but will have to reschedule this now. Mind you should of known he would change things....he always does!! Even after being separated all this time hes still pulling the strings GRRRRRRRRRRRR

snookey

Hi Id be tempted to grass her up to the dwp,:p not that I would as its him thats an !!!,lol. Has he really given his job up or is that what he is telling you to get out of paying for his kids.

life_in_termoil

At least 1 good thing has come out of him not collecting the children till Saturday is that it has now given me an extra day to finish all my allocated jobs

life_in_termoil

Snookey he really has given up his job. Hes in that much debt hes gone off the radar. All the debt he has was taken out after I left him but unfortunately I still have a connection with him as not divorced so now im just wondering if they are going to come chasing me, can they chase me? Hummm

life_in_termoil

Kitchen/dining room
clear cobwebs
[STRIKE]clear and wipe down work tops[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]clean cooker top[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]wipe down cupboard doors[/STRIKE]
sweep and mop the floor
clear the table
wipe down computer desk
put box of cables away
de clutter french dresser



Its the last day of school term so need to finish the kitchen. Everywhere else is spotless hopefully it will stay that way. Im working at 3 so need to dig something out of the freezer for the kids dinner. Spag bol I think then tomorrows dinner can be chilli.

Its another cold damp day here and it doesnt look like the sun is going to make an appearance today. Hopefully the rain will ease off as ive got 2 loads of washing to do and I dont want to have to dry it in the TD.

youareallhelpingme

Thanks for popping by mine LiT. Just remember nothing will ever be as bad as your life before you left and took the kids away.

Before you sell the car you will need to get ownership registered to you. Speak to the DVLA as there are time scales after which you can claim ownership, will get a new v5 and can then sell it and do something worthwhile with the money

Me

Flee_2

Hi LiT Just read your diary and just wanted to wish you good luck.
Best thing to do in your situation is plan everything with money to help you cut down.

life_in_termoil

The logbook is in my name so no worries on that. Hes just a first class prat. Filled in all the forms for a divorce just need to find £340 but it will be money well spent.

life_in_termoil

Phoned KH this morning and was subjected to aload of abuse over the phone because his g/friend had to wake him up when I called (it was 11.30) Got more abuse when I said no to lending him money so he could put petrol in his car so he could get back home when he had picked the kids up!! In the end I just put the phone down so now I dont know if hes coming for the children or not, but if hes that skint id prefer the kids to be here with me rather than fed up and bored with him.

On a positive note his actions on the phone have prompted me to fill in the divorce papers. Ive been putting it off for months. The sooner ive decluttered him from my life the better!! LoL Its going to cost me £340 but I feel that it will be money well spent!

tootallulah

Good luck, I agree with the £324, a small price for freedom AND what will certainly be a release from a difficult part of life allowing you to concentrate on now and the future. I see that the list is going down, hopefully that will help you feel better too.