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The Giving up/ Cutting down Alcohol support thread- number 10

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  • maggiesoop
    maggiesoop Posts: 358 Forumite
    1 more AF night for me please Shaggy, not sure but I think I may be missing an AF free night ??? Every little AF night counts! The sun is shining woo hoo :)
  • darwins_mum
    darwins_mum Posts: 453 Forumite
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    Trasijocha wrote: »
    Shaggy, I`ve decided not to set any targets for May as I have been AF for 4 whole months now and I`m pretty confident its going to remain that way.
    26 so far for April please.

    well done!
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  • mackeroo
    mackeroo Posts: 806 Forumite
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    19 AF please Shaggy and will get back to you later on today with my target for May as need to have a wee peak at my diary to see what we have got on next month.
    Yet another sunny day here up in scotlandshire and im off on holiday :j whoo hoo. Went to Zumba last night and did a 2 hour class, and was so jiggered by the time i got home at 9.15 i just had a bath and straight to bed. Off to fat class at 10 fingers crossed for a loss as put on half pound last week. Have a good day everyone
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  • Hi everyone

    my target AFD's is 31 days This first week will be hard but only because of street party, birthday party, potential girls night out etc etc....I WILL do it fingers crossed.
    LDx
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    weight loss goal start 25/4/11 = 9lbs.2/5/11=7lbs finish 31/5/11. 3/6/2011 lost 6lbs!!!
  • mrsrainman
    mrsrainman Posts: 304 Forumite
    Morning All!

    Just wanted to say good luck to all those aiming for a full 31 days in May. I really hope you all hit your targets!

    Mari - Don't dwel on the couple of bad days. New start today and you'll be back to feeling fab

    Miss Piggy - Hope you're ok?

    Have a good day everyone. Halfway through the week already :j
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  • Hi hope you dont mind me asking but how do you all manage to not fold and give into the alcohol when all your friends are pushing you to have a drink? I really need a couple of good one liners or good vibes to get me through the royal street party scenario.
    All suggestions are really welcome...thanks ever so much
    LDx
    1st goal - reduce overdraft from £398 (feb2011)
    £2 challenge #123- 03/06/2011 = £68 :j
    VSP challenge 2011 #112 - 03/06/2011 = £180.87 sshhh...dont tell the creditors :shhh:

    weight loss goal start 25/4/11 = 9lbs.2/5/11=7lbs finish 31/5/11. 3/6/2011 lost 6lbs!!!
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,788 Forumite
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    Lornadoone wrote: »
    Hi hope you dont mind me asking but how do you all manage to not fold and give into the alcohol when all your friends are pushing you to have a drink? I really need a couple of good one liners or good vibes to get me through the royal street party scenario.
    All suggestions are really welcome...thanks ever so much
    LDx

    Expect a few dropped jaws as most of us on here are well known amongst our friends for being first in the queue to the bar!;) You're right to be prepared as you have to be determined to get over that initial reaction. If the party's in your own street then saying you've volunteered to drive won't work on this occasion but that's a good one. I'd favour part of a healthy eating plan/losing weight as a reason but then you'll have to keep away from the sausage rolls too:rotfl:What about too many empty calories and you'd rather save them for the food? I'm sure someone will be along with more serious ways of handling it but I find a light approach works well for me.
  • maman wrote: »
    Expect a few dropped jaws as most of us on here are well known amongst our friends for being first in the queue to the bar!;) You're right to be prepared as you have to be determined to get over that initial reaction. If the party's in your own street then saying you've volunteered to drive won't work on this occasion but that's a good one. I'd favour part of a healthy eating plan/losing weight as a reason but then you'll have to keep away from the sausage rolls too:rotfl:What about too many empty calories and you'd rather save them for the food? I'm sure someone will be along with more serious ways of handling it but I find a light approach works well for me.


    Haha that made me laugh...they all know I love my food and wine...ooh I might have to do some white lying and say I am on medication and cant mix with alcohol.....wish I had some balls to say 'I am alcohol free for the next 5 weeks now bog off'!!!
    1st goal - reduce overdraft from £398 (feb2011)
    £2 challenge #123- 03/06/2011 = £68 :j
    VSP challenge 2011 #112 - 03/06/2011 = £180.87 sshhh...dont tell the creditors :shhh:

    weight loss goal start 25/4/11 = 9lbs.2/5/11=7lbs finish 31/5/11. 3/6/2011 lost 6lbs!!!
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,788 Forumite
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    mackeroo wrote: »
    19 AF please Shaggy and will get back to you later on today with my target for May as need to have a wee peak at my diary to see what we have got on next month.
    Yet another sunny day here up in scotlandshire and im off on holiday :j whoo hoo. Went to Zumba last night and did a 2 hour class, and was so jiggered by the time i got home at 9.15 i just had a bath and straight to bed. Off to fat class at 10 fingers crossed for a loss as put on half pound last week. Have a good day everyone

    Well done mackeroo and enjoy your holiday:T I'd put on 3lbs last week:eek: and dreading this week's club. Holidays and diets just don't mix. I need to check the diary too but I really think I need to up my target. I've been going for 10 for a while as that's my absolute bottom line which I always try to exceed. I'm comfortable with that but perhaps I need a challenge??
  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
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    My target for May is 28 AFDs please

    I'm on 23 AFD for April as there is no danger of my drinking today at all so declaring early :D
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