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The Giving up/ Cutting down Alcohol support thread- number 10

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  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Is it too early to put the Christmas tree up yet? :xmastree::cool:

    :naughty: lol!


    No xmas decs until December surely....
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    edited 18 November 2011 at 8:45AM
    November :-

    firework.gif= 7 Days AF

    014.gif = 14 days AF

    cool.gif= 21 days AF

    angel-smiley-028.gif = 28 days AF

    smiley10signzj4.gif = 30 days AF

    :j = target achieved


    Allym 4/21
    Bearacus
    15/TF
    firework.gif014.gif
    Beckseven 8/20 firework.gif

    Bretts /28

    Caramelcaron 9/15 firework.gif
    Cheezypeas 11/26 firework.gif
    Chloris 14/21 firework.gif014.gif

    Drinkupretty 1/12
    Fakeplastic 11/20 firework.gif

    Fedup /30
    Flimsier 7/27 firework.gif

    Forever 6/16
    Gardenanna 12/20 firework.gif

    Gien 3/30
    Happyshopper 9/20 firework.gif

    Idristhe dragon 4/15
    Jungle Jane 9/29 firework.gif

    Lamarsi
    /20

    L
    egsand /20
    Mackeroo 9/19 firework.gif
    Maman 10/10 firework.gif :j
    May 12/17 firework.gif
    One for the Rd 13/28 firework.gif
    Shaggy 10/17 firework.gif
    Pricey SOS 11/25 firework.gif
    Rachel 7/15 firework.gif




    PLEASE PUT YOUR TARGET AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck! (and if I've made any mistakes, don't be shy, please let me know!)

    EVERYONE WELCOME
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • Morning everyone - managed to get through last night without drinking. Thursday nights are always a challenge as they signal the end of my working week, so can definitely be a trigger night. Anyway, I didn't succumb so am declaring 11 AFDs for Nov please Shaggy and 4 for the SNC please Bearacus.

    Might not be AF tonight........I have a full day ahead to spend with my 4 year old !
  • Good night last night :j. Only the teeniest, tiniest of bells and I was really expecting problems as I'd been drinking the night before. Went to bed early so that helped. That's another 1 for my SNC please Bearacus and Nov's total up to 13 please Shaggy.

    When I stopped smoking (years ago now) after I got over the initial cravings I remember having a real sense of freedom - freedom from having to take cigs and lighter everywhere, freedom from worrying at 10 at night if I'd enough to last or I'd have to go out, freedom from wondering if I smelled bad .... Last night I had a lightbulb moment. Could I end up free from that desperate longing for a drink?
  • Morning all! I managed a pitiful 2 afds this week- although I only had one drink last night! I had rather a lot more weds night and was in a foul mood yesterday- really awful
    Still not buying wine though which is really helping. I certainly feel more in control after joining this thread and I'm drinking way less, stopping before it's too late and haven't had a cringe/throw up/ hangover since beginning Oct :) go me !!
    Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.

    £117/ £3951.67
  • Morning all! I managed a pitiful 2 afds this week- although I only had one drink last night! I had rather a lot more weds night and was in a foul mood yesterday- really awful
    Still not buying wine though which is really helping. I certainly feel more in control after joining this thread and I'm drinking way less, stopping before it's too late and haven't had a cringe/throw up/ hangover since beginning Oct :) go me !!

    Go you indeed Iris:T
  • 1 more AFD for me yesterday. Won't be tonight though, DH is taking me out :D
    LBM Dec 10. Total unsecured debt £41176 :eek: Nov 12 Debt Free Thanks Mum x RIP x

    2013 Savings £250
    2013 OP £3500
  • bearacus
    bearacus Posts: 824 Forumite
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    edited 19 November 2011 at 12:52PM
    :ASchool Night Challenge:A



    Bearacus :):):)

    Cheezypeas :):):):):T
    Chloris :):):):):T
    Fakeplastictwee:):):)
    May2013 :):):):):T
    Shaggy :):):):):T


    :A3 nights:A
    Caramelcaron :):):):T
    Gardenanna :):):):T
    Idristhedragon :):)
    Mackeroo :):):):T
    Rachelww1 :):):):T


    :A2 nights:A
    Maman :):):T:j
    :A1 night special :A



    :AWell done Everyone:A

    NW-£0 Cap one-£76 HSBC small-£359.51 (0% Aug16) HSBC car- £3511.46 (0%Oct17) HX car/baby- £2731.57 (0%Nov16) HX -£1198.66 (0% Jul16) Argos- £50(BNPLMay)
    Credit card debt-£7877.20 (4/3/16)
    Car Loan - £21,777 - Now - £12,383.36 Mortgage- £154,315.77
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    New LBM- £ 28/2/2016
  • bearacus
    bearacus Posts: 824 Forumite
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    edited 19 November 2011 at 12:53PM
    Well done everyone on the SNC:T Especially Maman who exceeded her Target:j

    Af for me last night Shaggy and 3 for the SNC

    bearacus

    NW-£0 Cap one-£76 HSBC small-£359.51 (0% Aug16) HSBC car- £3511.46 (0%Oct17) HX car/baby- £2731.57 (0%Nov16) HX -£1198.66 (0% Jul16) Argos- £50(BNPLMay)
    Credit card debt-£7877.20 (4/3/16)
    Car Loan - £21,777 - Now - £12,383.36 Mortgage- £154,315.77
    LLoyds loan- paid 28/1/11 LLoyds O/D paid 9/9/10
    New LBM- £ 28/2/2016
  • No more AF days to report I'm afraid. I was going to try to be AF yesterday as OH was away but DD knew I was on my own so decided to drop in with a pizza and a bottle of wine. It was lovely to spend time just the two of us and I only drank half a bottle so not too bad. She drank the other half and said she was alright to drive. She got home ok as I rang her but I think I'm going to have a word with her about driving when she's had a drink. It was over a period of about 2 and a half hours but that must be too much mustn't it? I hold my hands up and say that both OH and I drink far too much but we NEVER drive when we've had a drink. In fact I should probably add cab fares to the cost of our alcohol habit :o
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