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Weekly Flylady Thread 21st March 2011

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  • Hi everyone,

    I'm feeling a bit bluh today so feel free to ignore me. It's always Fridays when I feel like this - I look back on the week and see just how completely useless I am.

    How can I be at home all day everyday and get so little done. How on earth am I going to manage when I have to go back to work in July! House looks like a bomb site - I'm too embarassed to post lists of what I've not managed to achieve. Still haven't managed to find a childminder don't even know where else to look - not going back to work really isn't an option so I need to find one.

    It makes me cringe when you talk about HHI - we do have an iron - somewhere, but neither OH or I have used one since we moved in together (six years ago now!)

    Must try to get baby to nap and then do something - anything to make it look like I'm getting somewhere

    ScarlettsMum
  • sammiell
    sammiell Posts: 756 Forumite
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    edited 25 March 2011 at 1:34PM
    Monday ~ Living room, Hallway, Stairs
    Level One
    remove clutter from floors, chairs and fireplace..
    Vacuum floors you can see and sofas
    Level Two
    Vacuum under the furniture you can move safely
    Wipe and water neglected plants
    Dust those flat fluffy surfaces
    Level Three
    Clean windows, pictures, mirrors etc.
    Vacuum hall and stairs.. all the way up to the top!!!!!





    Extras
    1. Wipe woodwork in the living room/s
    2. Wash any smelly soft furnishings
    3. Sort spreadsheets/finances/meal plans etc
    4. 15 minutes filing
    Tuesday ~ Master Bedroom & Landing
    Level 1
    Declutter the floor
    Remove and wash bed linen.
    Level 2
    Dust surfaces & make sure no cobwebs..

    Wash windows and nets/curtains
    Vacuum and turn mattress before replacing with fresh linen
    Level 3
    Vacuum floors in bedroom and on landing
    Sort one area of clothes or linen storage making sure only what should be in there is, anything that's had it's day or doesn't belong there is removed
    Sort through a box or bag of stuff you've not looked at in months.. I am certain you don't need most of it




    Extras
    1. Binbag dance
    2. Finalise the easter plan.. have you got craft bit to make bonnets? When is your parade? Eggs bought?
    3. Binbag dance! Yes 2.. maybe do one for charity shop and 1 for the bin?
    4. Wipe grotty paintwork.. touch up any bits that are looking shabby
    Wednesday ~ Kitchen and Dining room
    Level One
    Sweep and mop floor
    Clear and wipe worksurfaces
    Level Two
    Wipe units and appliances..
    Empty and wash out bins
    Clear and wipe table.. clean cloth!
    Level Three
    Scrub manky marks off walls and tiles
    Empty and clean out pan and crockery cupboards.. fling chipped and cracked stuff
    Clear window sills of gibble!



    Extras
    1. Binbag dance
    2. HHI
    3. Clean out fridge
    4. Wipe over oven and hob!
    Thursday ~ Study or other reception room & bathrooms
    Level One
    Clear the clutter from all these rooms!!
    Ring someone you love just to tell them so.. we never do this enough!
    wash any curtains/blinds/mats etc that need doing
    Level Two
    Vacuum the floors
    Clean bath, toilets, shower and sinks
    Wipe down the tiles and defragment the pc while doing this.
    Level Three
    declutter and dust the pc desk
    Wipe away cup rings and sticky things
    wipe the keyboard, mouse, cables and sockets and suchlike.
    Clean the windows.
    Extras




    • HHI..
    • Clear a hotspot
    • Degunge around the bottoms of the taps!
    • Wipe cupboards and polish mirrors!
    Friday ~ Childrens rooms and spare rooms
    Level One
    Vacuum the floor, even if it's just where you can see
    Level Two
    Clear away anything that isn't in it's place, clothes, toys, books etc
    Dusting.. all those shelves and flat fluffy surfaces!! Don’t forget the light shade!!
    Wipe any sticky marks off walls and doors
    Level Three
    Strip beds and replace with fresh linen .. check if duvets need freshening up too!!
    Drag all that junk out from under the bed and deal with it as required e.g. bin, put away, wash etc
    Tidy the chests of clothes!


    Extras
    1. Fun one.. look in that medicine cupboard... is there anything you can fling? Is there anything you need to stock up on? Hayfever season and bite and sting season are both on their way! Sun cream? ... stop laughing!
    2. Time for the Friday Flylady Fling, in the toy box!!!! aim for 27.. if no toy box you’ll have to choose another area!
    3. Clean 2 radiators or the skirting in any room of your choice!.. or if you have the bug today you could do both! ;)
    4. Clean any one (or more) window that needs doing
    right back from work so id better get on with it feel really tired this week but i must get this house in order
  • ajmoney
    ajmoney Posts: 6,469 Forumite
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    Hi everyone,

    I'm feeling a bit bluh today so feel free to ignore me. It's always Fridays when I feel like this - I look back on the week and see just how completely useless I am.

    How can I be at home all day everyday and get so little done. How on earth am I going to manage when I have to go back to work in July! House looks like a bomb site - I'm too embarassed to post lists of what I've not managed to achieve. Still haven't managed to find a childminder don't even know where else to look - not going back to work really isn't an option so I need to find one.

    It makes me cringe when you talk about HHI - we do have an iron - somewhere, but neither OH or I have used one since we moved in together (six years ago now!)

    Must try to get baby to nap and then do something - anything to make it look like I'm getting somewhere

    ScarlettsMum

    I only manage to do so much as there are only 2 of us, we have a VERY small house and I have spent ages decluttering. You are a mum and that is a full time job in itself so don't put yourself down. July is ages away so don't fret about the flying for then. Why not try to put things away just for 5 minutes? I started my 5 minute decluttering challenges 3 weeks ago because half an hour was boring me and it is amazing what you can do in such a short speace of time. If you manage to go to bed with no washing up, can wipe round the bathroom once a day and empty the bins then I would say that is progress. Just do Pigpen's level 1s for now as I promise it really does get easier. I am sure some of the mums on here will let you know how they get round it. I may be ticking everything off the lists but the house still seems a tip with OHs clutter which he pretends isn't there :rotfl:
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  • short_bird
    short_bird Posts: 4,065 Forumite
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    ajmoney wrote: »
    Off on my own then which is probably safer. I am going to tackle the stuff under our bed so if I don't return send in the search party :rotfl:

    OK, if you haven't checked in by 5pm, they'll be there with the St Bernards and the brandy barrel (other alcoholic beverages are available on request.):D

    I will be flying on my return from the Post Office as I need to post an Amazon sale - another item out!

    Meanwhile, I will not be available for anything Saturday evening as it is the last 2 episodes of "The Killing". It's a Danish murder mystery that has kept me busy every Saturday for the previous 9 weeks.:cool:
    ‘Keep your eye on the donut and not on the hole.’ David Lynch.
    "It’s a beautiful day with golden sunshine and blue skies all the way.” David Lynch.
  • ajmoney
    ajmoney Posts: 6,469 Forumite
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    edited 25 March 2011 at 1:35PM
    Right I am having a break cos my back is killing me from lifting all the stuff from under the bed. At least I know I can pull it out and just vacuum for now, apart from spare bedding there are just a few bits of clothing in there that I love but need to lose a few pounds before I can wear them again!

    Monday ~ Living room, Hallway, Stairs
    Level Two
    Dust those flat fluffy surfaces
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Clean windows[/STRIKE]

    Tuesday ~ Master Bedroom & Landing
    Level 3
    [STRIKE]Sort one area of clothes or linen storage making sure only what should be in there is, anything that's had it's day or doesn't belong there is removed[/STRIKE]

    Thursday ~ Study or other reception room & bathrooms
    Level Two
    Clean bath, toilets, shower and sinks
    Wipe down the tiles.

    Extras
    • Clear a hotspot
    • Degunge around the bottoms of the taps!
    • Wipe cupboards!
    Friday ~ spare rooms
    Level One
    Spend half an hour on YOU..

    Extras
    1. [STRIKE]Time for the Friday Flylady Fling, in the toy box!!!! aim for 27.. if no toy box you’ll have to choose another area![/STRIKE] There really is nothing to fling now so I am getting rid of this :D
    2. Clean 2 radiators or the skirting in any room of your choice!.. or if you have the bug today you could do both! 1 room done
    My list
    Write letters to grandparents 1 done
    Pay cheque in for OH
    Fill out census

    5 min declutter challenge
    Living Room
    Kitchen
    Main Bedroom
    Spare Room F
    Garden M T W T F

    My Toots List

    Get OH to sort my boots out for work
    Fix kitchen drawer We can't open the drawer now so needs doing ASAP
    Sell old mobiles or give away
    Sort through vacuum packed stuff under our bed
    Dispose of old laptop
    Put shelving in spare room cupboard for storing books
    Find a home for the microwave
    Persuade OH to get rid of junk in box on landing
    Get a new lightshade for spare room
    Decide what to do with PC
    Get someone in to deep clean oven so we can keep on top of it
    Buy chest of drawers for landing
    Re-organise clothing and storage upstairs for OH
    Find garment bags for my long dresses
    Declutter the shed
    Put flooring down in hall
    Put doors on cupboard in hall
    Change bath and sink taps over

    Lunch now then I will try and do my 25 min garden decluttering before shower and bathroom cleaning.
    MFW 2025 No. 7 £1931.07/£2700
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  • sammiell
    sammiell Posts: 756 Forumite
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    Scarlettsmum Hugs and calm down ..... we were all the same when we started here Baby steps as Toots will tell you there are many sayings Rome wasnt built in a day, slowly slowly catchy monkey etc they all mean the same thing a little bit at a time post your list and even if you cross of 2 things its 2 things you wouldnt have done well all help you give us a shout if you want to do a HHC when babe is asleep my house is a tip !!!!!
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    Hi everyone,

    I'm feeling a bit bluh today so feel free to ignore me. It's always Fridays when I feel like this - I look back on the week and see just how completely useless I am.

    How can I be at home all day everyday and get so little done. How on earth am I going to manage when I have to go back to work in July! House looks like a bomb site - I'm too embarassed to post lists of what I've not managed to achieve. Still haven't managed to find a childminder don't even know where else to look - not going back to work really isn't an option so I need to find one.

    It makes me cringe when you talk about HHI - we do have an iron - somewhere, but neither OH or I have used one since we moved in together (six years ago now!)

    Must try to get baby to nap and then do something - anything to make it look like I'm getting somewhere

    ScarlettsMum

    this week I have done..

    The tesco shop I have been putting off for 2 weeks.
    I have done 9 loads of washing and got it all hung out.. the last lot has been out 3 days so far
    The rubbish/recycling/composting is out.. only because the baby has had the runs and the composting stinks so it has to go out.
    I cooked dinner every night.
    I whizzed the vacuum over the front room on Monday.. and that's it.. the sum total of my cleaning this week!

    I haven't ironed a thing for years.. Actually, I gave my iron away a few months ago.. I dusted it before I handed it over..

    I made OH take a binbag of odd socks off me and throw it in the bin because I had had it cluttering the hallway for.. 2 YEARS!!!!

    Do you feel better now?
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  • Good afternoon all

    JulieJim good luck at the hospital

    Lamewolf You are not being unreasonable by expecting to have resonable notice for meeting the people to hand over paperwork and the district manager need to realise that some people with less dedication would have just arranged to have the paperwork sent on to the new volunteers.
    I also think that the person who wants to charge you for recovering the chairs has a bit of a cheek. I hope your able to et it sorted without too much fuss.

    Scarlettes mum Instead of looking at what you havent achieved remember what you have done, looking after a baby is a big job in its self. Start off small and remeber there are two adults living in your house and OH needs to get involved in the flying as well.


    Monday ~ Living room, Hallway, Stairs
    Done

    Tuesday ~ Master Bedroom & Landing
    Done


    Wednesday ~ Kitchen and Dining room
    Done

    Thursday ~ Study or other reception room & bathrooms
    Done
    Extras
    HHI..
    Clear a hotspot
    Friday ~ Childrens rooms and spare rooms
    Level One

    Spend half an hour on YOU..
    Level Three
    Strip beds and replace with fresh linen .. check if duvets need freshening up too!! Kids can do this themselves later
    Extras
    1. Clean 2 radiators or the skirting in any room of your choice!.. or if you have the bug today you could do both
    I got up and got DS sorted for school this morning and OMG is he slow and I can understand why OH who normally has the joy of this task ends up getting frustarted with him.
    "Let your boat of life be light, pack only what you need- A homely home and simple pleasures,one or two friends worth the name, someone to love and someone who loves you, a cat, a dog, a pipe or two enough to eat, enough to wear and a little more than enough to drink, as thirst is a dangerous thing" Jerome k. Jerome
  • vanilla
    vanilla Posts: 3,277 Forumite
    Tip run done, been to doctors, lifted meds and cooked lunch. DD's curtains arrived today so i'll see about putting them up next. I might even go and lift the single bed tonight. At least then i can go through her wardrobe and move it into her room. I'll just see how i get on.......

    Boys room is a complete tip so they'll be tiding it before they even think of going out to play.

    Right where's me curtain track...
    Sometimes it seems that the going is just too rough.
    And things go wrong no matter what I do.
    Now and then it seems that life is just too much.
    But you've got the love I need to see me through.
    :j :j
  • Mudbath
    Mudbath Posts: 5,479 Forumite
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    Eeek...where did this week go?

    Hope everyone is ok, hugs to you all.

    I've not followed lists but i've been busy chucking stuff, cleaning, working and generally not having much time to pop in and say hello. Must try harder!

    Hope you all have a lovely weekend xx
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