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No Buying Toiletries in March Challenge
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Evening all...
Oh and face serums, do we put these on first, before moisturiser?? So its serum, eye cream, mosturiser and make up????
Congratulations Flirtini - bet you're so happy
cleanse, tone, serum, then the rest as far as I knowWell had one estate agent come round today to value the house and it's not as bad as I thought, although could have been better!!
Worse thing was to come home and find half the house missing. Apparently hubby has taken it upon himself to take furniture out of the house, I thought to have it stored somewhere, but it seems as though he may have found himself somewhere else to live and needed the furniture for his new place. It wouldn't be so bad but he hasn't told me anything, not even that he was moving out, and won't answer any of my calls or texts.
Trying to stay on the positive side but am finding it upsetting that he can just so easily move on as if nothing's wrong.
Sorry to have a moan but I just feel really down at the moment.
Even worse still, no toiletries used up :mad:That is my plan for one day but for now just finding myself a little flat close to work.
Hope you make it down there eventuallyI know I'd love to as well
Men are such pigs :mad: What a !!!!!!, sounds like you are well rid to be honest!
Just watched Glee (aww, I'm such a kid! :rotfl:) so off to catch up on the rest of the thread!
Hope you feel better soon sonee - I bet your hubby won't be moaning when it's him being looked after by you :rotfl:I want a perfect body, I want a perfect soul, I want you to notice when I'm not around[/SIZE][/FONT][/B]0 -
SJP - And (McCulloch for anyone wondering who Im talking about) and I share a friend - and Ive been down at her farm for the weekend - one of her race mares had a foal Thursday night and as they were away Saturday,I was there to babysit... one more due in a few weeks time - and hopefully my mare will scan in foal on Tuesday...
this is she
(And just to make this reply vaguely on topic - I lied about my christmas present - its hand food,righteous butter and a calm one calm all - not a scrub as well !!)Declutter 300 things in December challenge, 9/300. Clear the living room. Re-organize storage
:cool2: Cherryprint: "More stuff = more stuff to tidy up!" Less things. Less stuff. More life.Fab thread: Long daily walks
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Firstly hugs to all of you who need them whether you're ill or just going through some rough times.
Welcome to all the newbies, everyone's really friendly and helpful here.
Celebrate I can't add to all the wonderful advice you've been given but am glad you've found the thread as everyone is so supportive.
Trudi the foal is beautiful, I hope you get good news when your horse is scanned tomorrow....lucky you owning a horse!
Confession time now, ins seven clinique items with Glamour, Caudalie quenching sorbet (gift from Glamour subscription).0 -
mad_scientist wrote: »Hypnotherapist?????
Welcome to the madhouse shopaholic, with a name like that you should fit right in :rotfl:
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aahh, anytime you feellike chatting, you know where we are....
the guys on this thread (i am new) have been very good for me in the last few days, v supportive bunch, a big thanks to all you mad shopaholics!!
someone i know once said when you marry someone you shouldn't choose someone you want tolive with , it's someone you can't live without. My Oh and I are like that. I think thats why we have split up and got together again so many times. I would love it if he took a job nearer to us but he likes his time away and he gets on my nerves after a couple of days anyway. I like my own space too.
I know everyone else on this thread is advising you to get solicitors involved etc but i am more of a trying to sort things out person, personally i would give him some time, ypu can still change the locks to show you are not a pushover. Do you have any suspicion there is a 3rd party involved at all?
I know how supportive everyone on here can be, all the problems started just after Christmas and everyone had me in tears with all the nice words everybody was saying.
When my hubby asked me to marry him at first I said no as I have been married before and my divorce hadn't long come through, but after it being on my mind all day every day I soon realised that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and that this was the one (it was second time round for us too). Because of the person he is I should have known that my ideas of happily ever after wouldn't be the same as his.
I've done the trying to put it back together, so to speak, as I suggested in the New Year about going to counselling. He attended two sessions before I found out for definite that he had registered himself on a dating website and it's just gone downhill from there. Despite giving him the opportunity to explain himself all he's done is ignored me. If he'd explained why he'd done it I probably, rightly or wongly, would have suggested we try and work through it, but he's shown me exactly what he thinks of me and I'm not going to put up with that anymore.
What I've got to keep telling myself is that although I know I'm not perfect I know he will never find anyone as good as me and that he's lost out on a good thing. We could have had a really happy marriage but he's chosen otherwise. Just got to think positive thoughts and think about me for a change.
Sorry for rambling on but I have to keep saying these things to believe them.Did owe £9,951.96
Now helping hubby pay off loan. Finally paid off :j
Owe Virgin [STRIKE]£5,950.00 [/STRIKE]at 0% til June 2009 £3,427.89. Owe HSBC [STRIKE]£5,460.78 [/STRIKE]2.9% til May 2010 £3,703.07. Owe Post Office £1,676.62 at 0% til September 20100 -
Oh ld - that dating site thing - my heart sank for you. The g*t! The absolute g*t! If he has chased some skirt then he is sadly in for a wake up call. Just don't be around then.
Now I think lynseydee that you deserve to be our - heroine of the week - you're showing fighting talk and its impressive stuff. So you should have a thinkie overnight - and tell us all tomorrow evening what pampering we should do - an online pajama party! I love the thought of writing on here tomorrow with a face mask and hair mask on!Declutter 300 things in December challenge, 9/300. Clear the living room. Re-organize storage
:cool2: Cherryprint: "More stuff = more stuff to tidy up!" Less things. Less stuff. More life.Fab thread: Long daily walks
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I know how supportive everyone on here can be, all the problems started just after Christmas and everyone had me in tears with all the nice words everybody was saying.
When my hubby asked me to marry him at first I said no as I have been married before and my divorce hadn't long come through, but after it being on my mind all day every day I soon realised that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and that this was the one (it was second time round for us too). Because of the person he is I should have known that my ideas of happily ever after wouldn't be the same as his.
I've done the trying to put it back together, so to speak, as I suggested in the New Year about going to counselling. He attended two sessions before I found out for definite that he had registered himself on a dating website and it's just gone downhill from there. Despite giving him the opportunity to explain himself all he's done is ignored me. If he'd explained why he'd done it I probably, rightly or wongly, would have suggested we try and work through it, but he's shown me exactly what he thinks of me and I'm not going to put up with that anymore.
What I've got to keep telling myself is that although I know I'm not perfect I know he will never find anyone as good as me and that he's lost out on a good thing. We could have had a really happy marriage but he's chosen otherwise. Just got to think positive thoughts and think about me for a change.
Sorry for rambling on but I have to keep saying these things to believe them.
Don't be sorry for rambling, I do it all the time! lol!
I totally respect you for your attitude, its so easy in this situation to start beating yourself up and wondering why you weren't good enough. He doesn't deserve you.
The problem with these leaches (sorry men i mean) is that once they know you'll let them get away with it they will keep abusing your trust (this is where i have gone so totally wrong with my OH). If he was logging onto dating sites while you were together (even though you might have been having problems -thats no excuse) YOU should have given him the boot then.
Well done for trying to sort things out-sounds as if he is beyond help. I have learnt the hard way the saying "you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink".
We are all here for you. XGRATITUDE WHEN GIVEN, PATIENCE WHEN DENIED
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mineallmine wrote: »Oh ld - that dating site thing - my heart sank for you. The g*t! The absolute g*t! If he has chased some skirt then he is sadly in for a wake up call. Just don't be around then.
Now I think lynseydee that you deserve to be our - heroine of the week - you're showing fighting talk and its impressive stuff. So you should have a thinkie overnight - and tell us all tomorrow evening what pampering we should do - an online pajama party! I love the thought of writing on here tomorrow with a face mask and hair mask on!
That's very kind of you to say but if I was such a heroine I probably should have walked years ago :rotfl:
Ok, I'll have a think, although I think if we're going to make this a regular thing (I did paint my nails with most others last week) I thinks whoever chooses needs to choose something they say they'll do on a regular basis but never do and then we can all do it together. I think a lot of us will use more stuff up if we all do it together virtually. For me that might mean using up that last bit of body lotion that I keep trying to use up but still keeps spluttering :mad:Did owe £9,951.96
Now helping hubby pay off loan. Finally paid off :j
Owe Virgin [STRIKE]£5,950.00 [/STRIKE]at 0% til June 2009 £3,427.89. Owe HSBC [STRIKE]£5,460.78 [/STRIKE]2.9% til May 2010 £3,703.07. Owe Post Office £1,676.62 at 0% til September 20100 -
So sorry to hear that Lynseydee, am joining in the group hug for you. :grouphug:
Happy birthday hollylangman37! Hope you had a lovely day x
Thanks for all the congrats guys, yep I'm so excited - it's going to be tough to reign it in now - his visa won't come through until August and I want to go flat hunting NOW!!! (Preferably before he realises just what he's let himself in for!)
Right, here goes... My stash list. I'm not sure how many posts I'll need for this one and I tried to keep it as short as possible... :eek:
MAKEUP REMOVER
5 x facewipes
3 x Johnsons baby wipes
Loreal Eye Makeup Remover
2 x No7 eye makeup remover
FACE SCRUB
St Ives Apricot scrub
Clinique 7 day scrub cream
2 x Elemis skin buff mini
2 x Nivea visage scrub sachet
Neutrogena Deep Clean sachet
CLEANSER
Liz Earle C&P
Lush 9-5
Lancome Galateis Douceur
3 x Clinique liquid soap mild
Clarins Pure Melt Cleansing Gel mini
Clarins one step cleanser mini
Clarins Cleansing Milk mini
Clinique Anti Blemish Soap
TONER
2 x Clinique Toner 3
clinique toner 2
Lancome Tonique Douceur
Clarins Toning lotion mini
MOISTURISER
Clinique DD gel
Bio Oil
2 x Jojoba oil
Simple moisturiser
Clinique DDL
Clinique Moisture Surge Spray
Clinique Moisture surge gel
Clinique continuous rescue
Neals Yard Power Berry
Vichy Normaderm
Iseree day cream
Body Shop Seaweed
Oil of Aloe lotion
2 x Nivea Crème
No7 Dual protection tinted moisturiser
Olay touch of foundation moisturiser medium
lancome genifique concentrate
Olay wake up wonder mini
3 x Lancome Hydra Zen mini
Clarins hydra matte lotion mini
2 x Estee Lauder daywear plus mini
2 x Elemis night cream mini
2 x Elemis day cream mini
nivea Visage sachet
biotherm sachet
Logona age protect sachet
Natural High radiance balm
EYE CREAM
Clinique All About Eyes Rich
Clinique repairwear
Garnier roll on
Clinique All About Eyes
Natural High brightener
Superdrug vitamin e
Nivea Visage sachet
Lancome genifique yeux concentrate mini
2 x No7 P&P beauty serum
2 x Estee lauder advanced night repair sachet
Clinique pore minimiser serum
2 x Clinique pore minimiser instant perfector
Clarins pore minimizing serum mini
2 x Clinique turnaround concentrate
Clinique turnaround 15 min facial
2 x Elemis facemask mini
4 x Tea tree pore strips
tea tree oil
sweet almond oil
DENTAL
5 x Colgate
Colgate professional clean
7 x Arm & Hammer Brilliant sparkle
2 x Corsodyl daily
Molton brown freshmint
Colgate Plax
DEOD
Sure stick
Dove roll on
2 x Nivea pearl spray
HANDWASH
Boots coconut & Almond
HANDCREAM
Ahava cream
2 x Unknown
Avon Care
S&G Hand Food
Boots passion flower
No7 p&p
FEET
S&G heel genius
BODY SCRUB
S&G Flake Away
Naked Scrub Up
S&G Scrub em and Leave em
No7 really renewing polish
No7 cleansing polish
2 x exfoliating gloves
Body shop puff
Lush Vanilla Talc
½ Lush vanilla bath bomb
boots brazil nut & vanilla bath cream
Penhaligons Blenheim bouquet bath essence
SHOWER GELS
Molton Brown Heavenly Gingerlily
Foamburst Hawaiian Spa
OS Shea Butter and Honey
Molton brown vitamin
Dove silk body
5 x Avon Senses Crème
Body Shop Rich Plum
Boots Mango & Babassu Body Wash
Boots Brazil nut & vanilla
Penhaligons Malabah
Penhaligons Blenheim Bouquet
2 x Molton Brown suma ginseng
2 x Molton Brown energising seamoss
3 x Molton Brown Toko yuzu
Serendipity body wash
Body Shop Rich Plum Soap
4 x Molton brown small soap
5 x Seaweed therapy soap
Dove small soap
Crabtree & Evelyn La Source soap
Penhaligons soap
Dove exfoliating bar
Unknown soap
Nair hair removal cream
2 x Disposable razor
2 x Gilette venus razor
8 x Disposable Razors
BODY LOTIONS
2 x Johnsons Baby lotion
SJP lovely
Body Shop Shea Butter
Clinique Deep comfort butter
3 x Naked Cocoa Butter
Lush Vanilla Dee-Lite
Cowshed Lazy Cow
Body Shop Rich Plum Body butter
Boots Mango & Babassu Body Butter
Dove Visible Effects
Serendipity Body balm
Coconut Oil
Benefit Bathina body balm
HAIRCARE
Aveda Colour care Shampoo
Kerastase Bain Mirror
Redken All Soft Shampoo
John Frieda Volume shampoo
John Frieda Brunette Shampoo
John Frieda Brunette Conditioner
Trial Shampoo
Trial conditioner
Frizz ease curl around Shampoo
Frizz ease curl around Conditioner
Aveda damage remedy Shampoo
Aveda damage remedy Conditioner
Elvive damage repair shampoo
Elvive damage repair conditioner
Philip Kingsley Body building shampoo
Philip Kingsley Moisturising conditioner
Tresemme Thermal recovery Shampoo (900ml!)
Tresemme Thermal Recovery Conditioner (900ml!)
Toni & Guy Straight & Protect Shampoo
Toni & Guy Straight & Protect Conditioner
Aussie Take the Heat Shampoo
Aussie Take the Heat Conditioner
Redken All Soft Shampoo
Redken All Soft Conditioner
John Frieda brunette moisturising shampoo 75ml
John Frieda brunette moisturising conditioner 75ml
Pantene Aqua Light Shampoo 75ml
Pantene Aqua Light Conditioner 75ml
John Freida Straight ahead Shampoo 75ml
John Freida Straight ahead Conditioner 75ml
Toni & Guy Straight & Protect Shampoo 75ml
Toni & Guy Straight & Protect Conditioner 75ml
James Brown Richly Moisturising Shampoo 75ml
James Brown Richly Moisturising Conditioner 75ml
Herbal Essences Hello Hydration Shampoo 75ml
Herbal Essences Hello Hydration Conditioner 75ml
Charles Worthington Moisture Seal Shampoo 75ml
Charles Worthington Moisture Seal Conditioner 75ml
Serendipity Shampoo 30ml
Serendipity Conditioner 30ml
Oil of Aloe Shampoo 30ml
Oil of Aloe Conditioner 30ml
Tresemme colour care shampoo sachet
Tresemme colour care conditioner sachet
Aveda volumising shampoo 10ml
Aveda volumising Conditioner 10ml
2 x Herbal Essences Hello Hydration Shampoo 10ml sachet
2 x Herbal Essences Hello Hydration Conditioner 10ml sachet
John Frieda brunette moisturising shampoo
Koi shampoo
2 x Molton Brown Ziao Jao Hairwash
Penhaligons Blenheim Bouquet Shampoo
3 x seaweed therapy shampoo
Q resorts shampoo
Philip Kingsley Elasticizer
2 x Redken All Soft Heavy Cream
James Brown intensive mask
Auusie 3 minute miracle reconstructor
Aussie Miracle hair leave in Conditioner
James Brown heat protection spray
Label M Smoothing Cream
Aveda Damage remedy daily hair repair
Kerastase Oleo relax
2 x Toni & Guy heat defence spray
Aussie Take the heat Protector Spray
Tresemme heat defence spray
Redken Dream Whip
Redken Velvet Whip
Aveda Smooth infusion mini
Loreal play ball creamy smooth
Paul Mitchell super skinny serum
John Frieda Dream Curls perfector spray
Charles Worthington Blow Dry volume Spray
Charles Worthington volume spray
Charles Worthington volume mousse
John Frieda volume spray
Avon split ends mender
Fudge De Frizz shine Serum
2 x Toni & Guy shine spray
John Freida Shine Shock serum
2 x Redken Quick Dry Hairspray
James Brown Hairspray
Toni & Guy Rubber Shine
2 x James Brown Dry Shampoo
Charles Worthington Dry shampoo
Toni & Guy dry shampoo
PERFUME
Chanel Chance
SJP Lovely
CHanel chance handbag size
Izzey Miyake
Penhaligons Artemisia
Body Shop Vanilla
Gucci Rush
Chanel Chance
Lush Vanillary
Tommy girl
Lovely travel sized
Issey Miyake travel sized
Gucci rush travel sized
Chanel Chance
Elizabeth Arden pretty mini
Impulse romantic mini
Hugo Woman mini
Make me smile mini
Outspoken by Fergie mini
Chanel chance deodorant spray
GIFT SETS
Body Shop Japanese Cherry Blossom – Shower gel, Body Butter, Eau de Toilette, puff.
Body Shop Shea set – Shower crème, scrub, Body butter, Soap, puff.
Body shop Strawberry set – shower gel, body lotion, puff
Body shop Mango set – shower gel, body lotion, puff
Bayliss & Harding Skin Spa – shower cleanser, body lotion, polisher puff
Bayliss & Harding Sweet Mandarin & Grapefruit – Shower gel, Body lotion
2 x Gok Gorgeous Delux set – gold body wash, body wash, shower scrub, gold bath essence, Body butter, gold butter, gold body oil
elle Macpherson – body scrub, body wash, body butter
Burts Bees starter set – day cream, hand salve, body wash, body lotion, foot lotion, cuticle cream, cleansing cream, shampoo, conditioner, lip balm.
Ted Baker set – Bath crystals, body scrub, body wash, body spray, body souffl!.0
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