How can someone be so nasty?

londoner1998

Thank you Katebl

yes, it does get a bit tough sometimes. THis week will be a bit easier thanthe previous one, so I shoudl be able to catch up... it is just hard to concentrate when suddenly everythign changes around you!

VfM4meplse

If you have only just found out that you are at risk, be prepared for a long ride with daily twists and turns, and a generous dose of work politics. You'll need a good strategy to deal with stress if you want to avoid a repeat showdown wiith your OH. Good luck.

suited-aces

OP, tbh, evedrything seems very polemic, and centred on you. To be fair to you, we all have times like this, but to be fair to your OH, you have to acknowledge this. It might not be you who decides to leave if you keep piling every thing on to him. Even your apology to him was qualified.

londoner1998

VfM4meplse wrote: »

If you have only just found out that you are at risk, be prepared for a long ride with daily twists and turns, and a generous dose of work politics. You'll need a good strategy to deal with stress if you want to avoid a repeat showdown wiith your OH. Good luck.

Absolutely- that is one of the things that got me down, the long haul.. I am attacking on all fronts, so something should turn up. But stress management is something I definetely need to deal with - that's why I signed up to a Friday yoga class, to give us both the space to unwind a bit and keep sane.
And yes, it takes two to tango, but we talked about it and we both accepted our part in the Saturday disaster. I guess that has to be a positive outcome...

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