MSE Pregnancy Club 21

Kandboys

Hi all. Intimate question alert! Has anyone else gone right off sex?! I have to the point where I can't even bear for DH to touch bare skin!! It's making him so grumpy. Cuddling is fine but as soon as he starts stroking my arm or back I jump away. It irritates my skin!! He doesn't seem to understand that it's not him, it's me! Cliche I know. I'm just not interested and even if I was I am worried about bleeding again so it's not going to happen.

On another note, DS1 seems to have these spots on his torso and I'm not sure what they are. Am sure they are not chicken pox spots but might have to pop him down the docs tomorrow to make sure they are nothing contagious.

relic

Clarieloo wrote: »

Hi Relic

Try not to worry too much. When was your scan? I didn't hear anything at all even after two weeks and ended up ringing the hospital and the risk was so low they just hadn't bothered to call me. I'm sure everything will be OK. xx

Scan was last Thursday, I know it wasn't long ago, I just can't help but be incredibly nervous about receiving the results!

Thank you for the message though

supermaiden

Kandboys wrote: »

Hi all. Intimate question alert! Has anyone else gone right off sex?!

Guilty.

I just think its weird sometimes. The baby moves around so much and I can feel him kick and I dont want that when we are being intimate. We have done it but I dont feel fully comfortable lol and its nowhere near as often as before. I cant even remember the last time actually. I think its been twice in a couple of months! Poor hubby feels neglected I think lol

delain

smileyface26 wrote: »

We have two left from christmas, one is mine, just don't seem to fancy it, and the other is his......I would throw his!! and then claim, "sorry dear, I thought you said you wanted it!!"

I'm intrigued.....whats the chocolate button trick!! I have a feeling i might know, but don't want to put it out there incase I'm massively wrong :rotfl:

It is where you let them fall asleep after drinking then pop a chocolate button or two between their 'cheeks' where it melts and gets itchy so theu scratch and have mucky fingers and think they've had an 'accident' in their sleep!

I have put that in white, highlight if you want to see it, not recommended for ladies with delicate tummies. And bear in mind if you quote me everyone will see it because quotes are in green boxes :rotfl:

madbird_2

Hi Ladies

Been for monitoring, baby fine, perfect trace apparently, my BP is raised again despite being on meds now. I have a consultants appointment tomorrow so will see what they say.....induction would be a lovely word to hear! I'm so fed up, physically and mentally exhausted from being so big and insomnia.

Fab news re BBM and little Alfred, home before his original due date :j:j

Re downs test. I had my scan on a Tuesday, was told would get a call within 24 hours if there was a problem. My letter came through a week later. Please try not to worry xx

RE DTD....we are normally both too tired although operation eviction may change that!

Kandboys

Glad baby is doing ok madbird but sorry about your BP. Hope you get some answers tomorrow. We tried DTD to get both DS's moving but didn't work :rotfl:

pigpen

I have been ranted at.. in B&Q of all places... I asked if we could go have a quick view of the storage boxes as I need one for Squeaks toys and he had the unmitigated gall to rant because I WALK TOO SLOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!

!!!!!!... does he LIKE breathing???

So, I was going to not bother but I walked over extra slow to peruse them extra slow and decide I didn't want one of those and then walked back to the tills super-duper-uber-slow...

Cheeky skinny twig!!!! I swear I'm tying his ears in knows while he is asleep!!!

glittermonster

supermaiden wrote: »

Guilty.

me too! And I'm only 15w - just don't feel in the mood, we were everynighters, I'd be happy with onceamonth lately!

I wish I was more up for it!

smileyface26

Delain - lol, I thought it might be something like that!! I might be tempted to go off in search of chocolate buttons!!
Pigpen - My OH has been an absolute tool too - still no sign of him returning home tonight! Prat!

As for DTD, he'd be so lucky based on todays behaviour, but honestly even if he wasn't been a grade 'A' plonker, I'd much rather go to sleep at the moment!!

pigpen

Mine is banished to tesco for the weeks shopping with a list.. and he's paying too ...

DTD.. I am unable to say no... I never had this issue with KH.. he was told in no uncertain terms it wasn't happening.. though it was over so quick I probably wouldn't have noticed half the time lol