We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

Me again re access... I know I know.. your sick of me!

124»

Comments

  • clairec79
    clairec79 Posts: 2,512 Forumite
    I wonder if you could word it as you BOTH agreeing not to introduce a new partner until you have been together X length of time (and point out you and your boyfriend my split and you'd stick to the rule too)
  • claire i did.. and i stuck to it lol. he had other ideas though. i do keep asking. but then he just hides it from me that he has done it anyway.
    * Mummy to my 2 gorgeous and amazing boys *
  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    claire i did.. and i stuck to it lol. he had other ideas though. i do keep asking. but then he just hides it from me that he has done it anyway.

    It could be that he is doing it to make you jealous(which seems to be working) , in time the children will work things out for themselves, I don't think an enviroment where one party is dicating all the rules is healthy for their adult lives ahead :o
  • dutr your right hun. gonna leave him too it. will cut contact apart from the kids. cos he bugs me and stresses me out most weeks. aslong as i do right by my kids then they will grow up and realise i hope :)
    * Mummy to my 2 gorgeous and amazing boys *
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 354.5K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.4K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.5K Spending & Discounts
  • 247.4K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 604.2K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.5K Life & Family
  • 261.7K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.