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Peonie's journey to smart money management

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  • how you feeling Peonie?x
    Dec 2011 £141,000 / dec 2013 £135,000/ Jan 2014 £131,000 / July 2014 £129 000
  • Peonie
    Peonie Posts: 1,471 Forumite
    Thanks Castlelough and MC.

    I had some spotting mid-week which freaked me out. Especially as I was at work and could not leave. I had guests so had to pretend everything was great and be entertaining. I've also decided that pain and spotting is normal for me in pregnancy. I've also been really tired so going to bed early which has meant I've missed some of the Winter Olympics :(

    I love the snowboard cross and ski cross - we'd would love to see them live.
    Pots: House £6966/£7100, Rainy day Complete, [STRIKE]Sunny day £0/£700[/STRIKE], IVF £2523/£2523, Car up-keep £135/£135, New car £5000/£5000, Holiday £1000/£1000, MFW #16 £2077/£3120
    MFiT3 #86: Reduce mortgage from £146,800 to £125,000
    Mortgage Sept 2014: £135,500, MF Oct 2035 Peak July 2011: £154,000, MF July 2036
  • Lois_E
    Lois_E Posts: 2,227 Forumite
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    Hugs Peonie

    Spotting is very scary. It often means nothing though. :)

    Hoping for the best for you. How many weeks are you now, and when's your next scan?
    Starting again 13/4/19
    Home loan 1: £21,102.50 Home loan 2: £7,698.99
    Total owed: £28,801.49
  • Take care Peonie.

    Tilly x x
    2004 £387k 29 years - MF March 2033:eek:
    2011 £309k 10 years - MF March 2021.
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  • gallygirl
    gallygirl Posts: 17,240 Forumite
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    Hope all continues well.

    GG x
    A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort
    :) Mortgage Balance = £0 :)
    "Do what others won't early in life so you can do what others can't later in life"
  • Peonie
    Peonie Posts: 1,471 Forumite
    Thanks Lois, Tilly and GG.

    I'm now 6 weeks 4 days. I think! I find the counting system strange that I'm also in my 7th week.

    As I've had IVF I get an early scan at 7 weeks (or 8th week!) on Thursday to check my little pea is in the right place and has a heart beat.

    I phoned the clinic on the day and they said spotting was common. They were not going to bring the scan forward as there would be not a lot to see and to contact them if the pain/bleeding got worse.

    I've joined the early pregnancy thread. Something I did not know about last time. A LOT of other ladies are also spotting which makes it weird that I've never heard of pain and spotting being a pregnancy symptom.

    The NHS website is awful. It practically says if you have any type of bleed it's likely you'll have a miscarriage. Which is not something I needed to read. It made my worrying worse.
    Pots: House £6966/£7100, Rainy day Complete, [STRIKE]Sunny day £0/£700[/STRIKE], IVF £2523/£2523, Car up-keep £135/£135, New car £5000/£5000, Holiday £1000/£1000, MFW #16 £2077/£3120
    MFiT3 #86: Reduce mortgage from £146,800 to £125,000
    Mortgage Sept 2014: £135,500, MF Oct 2035 Peak July 2011: £154,000, MF July 2036
  • newgirly
    newgirly Posts: 9,335 Forumite
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    Hi Peonie, I know its impossible to do but try not to worry! I had nothing with dd but then did get spotting with the twins at 6 weeks and all was fine (except there were two of course :rotfl:) I was told by the hospital that it's very common to get spotting especially early on, look after yourself and roll on the scan :)
    MFW 67 - Finally mortgage free! 💙😁
  • Take it easy Peonie and make sure you take care of yourself ;)....good luck with the scan!! :D
    Mortgage 12.12.12 £55842 12.12.13 £42716 14.12.14 £28837 13.12.15 £25913
    Mortgage OP £50/£600 House Fund £420/£5000
  • Peonie
    Peonie Posts: 1,471 Forumite
    Thanks NG and icontinuetodream,

    I'm really trying not to worry. Today I had awful pain for hours. Thankfully it's subsided.

    Only 3 more days until the scan :T

    We went food shopping yesterday and we bought loads of fruit and veg. Here's to a healthier Peonie :beer: (If I was drinking).
    Pots: House £6966/£7100, Rainy day Complete, [STRIKE]Sunny day £0/£700[/STRIKE], IVF £2523/£2523, Car up-keep £135/£135, New car £5000/£5000, Holiday £1000/£1000, MFW #16 £2077/£3120
    MFiT3 #86: Reduce mortgage from £146,800 to £125,000
    Mortgage Sept 2014: £135,500, MF Oct 2035 Peak July 2011: £154,000, MF July 2036
  • Hi Peonie,

    Hope that the time until the scan passes quickly XX
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