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Peonie's journey to smart money management
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Congratulations!!!Sealed Pot Challenge - No. 117
Bank of Mum & Dad - £3150/£10,000 (£6850 to go) Bank of In Laws - £4600/£12,000 (£7400 to go)
MFW - MFD - [STRIKE]5 Apr 2029[/STRIKE] 5 June 2025 : AIM = NOV 2019 (back up aim = MAR 2023)0 -
Hi, sorry I've had my hands a bit full to post! We had a baby boy a month ago. He is perfect and I love him to bits. I am well but a bit sleep deprived. Mr P is amazing and has been my rock.
How did I miss this?!
Many congratulations Peonie & Mr P
MWCxMortgage at highest (April 2008): ~£195,000
Mortgage-free: January 2021
Retired: June 2022 (186 months early!)0 -
Hi everyone and thanks for your messages. Motherhood is getting easier and I'm getting out. We walk a lot, mainly to the local town that is just over 3kms away. We have to pay for most of the baby activities which is a bit of a pain.
I've still been oping the mortgage down to the next hundred but at the beginning of the year took the leap and paid over £1000 off. Now I'm paying pennies off each month to round it down to the next £25. We've knocked a few months off the mortgage. I'd love to pay off more but this month my wages dropped.
I braved the next sale on Boxing Day to get Baby Boy a lot of clothes, I've got him things off eBay and local mutton hm markets.
I really need to update my signature and work out my finances for the year.
What have I missed?Pots: House £6966/£7100, Rainy day Complete, [STRIKE]Sunny day £0/£700[/STRIKE], IVF £2523/£2523, Car up-keep £135/£135, New car £5000/£5000, Holiday £1000/£1000, MFW #16 £2077/£3120
MFiT3 #86: Reduce mortgage from £146,800 to £125,000
Mortgage Sept 2014: £135,500, MF Oct 2035 Peak July 2011: £154,000, MF July 20360 -
Hi P
*waves*
Not sure what you've missed, I've not been around much. Good to hear that you're getting out and doi g things. Going to a next sale is indeed brave - I've never done it!sadly most groups and activities are paid for things, but I find free groups are usually few and far between.
If your income has just dropped then it sounds like doing some finances might be a good ideaRule 7: If you're not changing it, you're choosing it.
MFW 2020: 1 Jan £92903.90 ~ OP £536.80/£500
MFW 2021: 1 Jan £89281.21 ~ OP £404.62/£500
MFW 2022: 1 Jan £85579.20 ~ OPs on hold.0 -
Ha I've not been to mutton markets but mum to mum markets. Don't you just love it when the computer changes what you typed.
Hi cc.Pots: House £6966/£7100, Rainy day Complete, [STRIKE]Sunny day £0/£700[/STRIKE], IVF £2523/£2523, Car up-keep £135/£135, New car £5000/£5000, Holiday £1000/£1000, MFW #16 £2077/£3120
MFiT3 #86: Reduce mortgage from £146,800 to £125,000
Mortgage Sept 2014: £135,500, MF Oct 2035 Peak July 2011: £154,000, MF July 20360 -
Hahaha I did wonder what a mutton hm market was?!Rule 7: If you're not changing it, you're choosing it.
MFW 2020: 1 Jan £92903.90 ~ OP £536.80/£500
MFW 2021: 1 Jan £89281.21 ~ OP £404.62/£500
MFW 2022: 1 Jan £85579.20 ~ OPs on hold.0 -
Hi Peonie!
Congrats on your baby boy!
I have also been getting to grips with motherhood for the first time. My little daughter was born 8 weeks ago! As you say, it is getting easier all the time, but I am also feeling sleep deprived and the finances are in a bit of a tailspin! You are doing wonderfully with your mortgage ops! :-)
CastleDebts: Credit Card: €6000 ---> €5050 Feb 25 \ Overdraft: Step 3/100
Savings: FF Fund: Step 23/100 \ CU: 3755/40000
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