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Mooloo's New Home, New Year and New Start part 3

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  • Hi Lozzy...for me its not about Mooloo never working things out with BF...I hope they do if thats what they both want and I wish them well..I just would be offended if I was her daughter with a small baby (hard to do xmas dinner with a little one in the first place) if my mum suddenly decided not to come or cut the day short for someone for a boyfriend who has been so on/off and who was actually invited but declined. I would hope that DD was put before him but obviously thats up to Mooloo to decide, its just my opinion.
  • Lozzy88
    Lozzy88 Posts: 780 Forumite
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    Totally agree with you on that one keeping Motivated, i am 22 with a great partner a 3 year old and a 13 week old baby will be 14 weeks on xmas day and my mother is coming to mine this year, to be honest i dont want her too she has become very rude in the last 6 months, when she does visit she sit texing her female friends that she works with, or on the phone to her husband who i do like but when hes working and your visiting for a hour or so i dont think is needed but anyways, (thats actually a totally irrelevant rant about my own life haha) i do agree with you tho keeping motivated.
  • Savvy_Sue
    Savvy_Sue Posts: 47,312 Forumite
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    Hi Lozzy...for me its not about Mooloo never working things out with BF...I hope they do if thats what they both want and I wish them well..I just would be offended if I was her daughter with a small baby (hard to do xmas dinner with a little one in the first place) if my mum suddenly decided not to come or cut the day short for someone for a boyfriend who has been so on/off and who was actually invited but declined. I would hope that DD was put before him but obviously thats up to Mooloo to decide, its just my opinion.
    That's it exactly: he was invited to Biggest's, he said no, it would be IMO completely unreasonable to expect Mooloo to change her plans at this stage.

    If it's going to work out between them, he has to accept that he's NOT her first / only priority, that quite a lot of the time he will have to fit around the rest of her family, and that she expects to have to do the same for his family.
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  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    Hi All, I am still about, just been rather busy. I shall catch up soon.
    My MSN has been hacked and needed to get that sorted out.
    I have decided to come to BF's after a visit with him to Biggests yesterday. She wants me to be happy, was fine about me coming here, and has 7 going to be there for dinner from her BF's family so she was fine. We are close and talk well, so she was not upset at my changing my mind.
    BF took me to deliver the presents to the twins, DS and then on to Biggests. He has driven me around, carried things, and has now taken me back to his. I am not driving.
    DGD has gone to her grandad and his family for Christmas. So I am resting/and going to a party tonight. Looking forward to that.
    Have a good Christmas, I am intending to enjoy mine.
    Dispite all the ups and downs, I am currently happy.
    Moo
    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • gizmo111
    gizmo111 Posts: 2,663 Forumite
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    MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL ESPECIALLY MOOLOO.


    :xmassign::xmassign::xmassign:

    Enjoy it and make the most of whoever you are with, just be happy. xxxxxxx:heartpuls:rudolf::xmassmile:snow_laug:santa2::xmastree:
    Mama read so much about the dangers of drinking alcohol and eating chocolate that she immediately gave up reading.
  • Shalva
    Shalva Posts: 254 Forumite
    I wish you a peaceful and restful Christmas Mooloo....Enjoy your party and your "me" time too:xmastree:.
  • Hope everyone has a lovely Christmas. xx
  • MatyMoo
    MatyMoo Posts: 3,176 Forumite
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    We only want you to be happy Mooloo!

    Merry Christmas :xmastree:
    :j Proud Member of Mike's Mob :j
  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    MatyMoo wrote: »
    We only want you to be happy Mooloo!

    Merry Christmas :xmastree:


    Thankyou MatyMoo, and everyone else.

    Merry Christmas, :xmastree:from me as well!!
    BF has just gone to take his kids to thier Mums, for thier lunch etc. Had a good mingle at the party, with excellent food and mulled wine!
    Bit tired now though! Not used to late nights!.
    :D
    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • onward and upward!! happy christmas
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