Mooloo's New Home, New Year and New Start part 3

Keeping_Motivated

Hi Lozzy...for me its not about Mooloo never working things out with BF...I hope they do if thats what they both want and I wish them well..I just would be offended if I was her daughter with a small baby (hard to do xmas dinner with a little one in the first place) if my mum suddenly decided not to come or cut the day short for someone for a boyfriend who has been so on/off and who was actually invited but declined. I would hope that DD was put before him but obviously thats up to Mooloo to decide, its just my opinion.

Lozzy88

Totally agree with you on that one keeping Motivated, i am 22 with a great partner a 3 year old and a 13 week old baby will be 14 weeks on xmas day and my mother is coming to mine this year, to be honest i dont want her too she has become very rude in the last 6 months, when she does visit she sit texing her female friends that she works with, or on the phone to her husband who i do like but when hes working and your visiting for a hour or so i dont think is needed but anyways, (thats actually a totally irrelevant rant about my own life haha) i do agree with you tho keeping motivated.

Savvy_Sue

Keeping_Motivated wrote: »

Hi Lozzy...for me its not about Mooloo never working things out with BF...I hope they do if thats what they both want and I wish them well..I just would be offended if I was her daughter with a small baby (hard to do xmas dinner with a little one in the first place) if my mum suddenly decided not to come or cut the day short for someone for a boyfriend who has been so on/off and who was actually invited but declined. I would hope that DD was put before him but obviously thats up to Mooloo to decide, its just my opinion.

That's it exactly: he was invited to Biggest's, he said no, it would be IMO completely unreasonable to expect Mooloo to change her plans at this stage.

If it's going to work out between them, he has to accept that he's NOT her first / only priority, that quite a lot of the time he will have to fit around the rest of her family, and that she expects to have to do the same for his family.

Savvy_sewing

Hi All, I am still about, just been rather busy. I shall catch up soon.
My MSN has been hacked and needed to get that sorted out.
I have decided to come to BF's after a visit with him to Biggests yesterday. She wants me to be happy, was fine about me coming here, and has 7 going to be there for dinner from her BF's family so she was fine. We are close and talk well, so she was not upset at my changing my mind.
BF took me to deliver the presents to the twins, DS and then on to Biggests. He has driven me around, carried things, and has now taken me back to his. I am not driving.
DGD has gone to her grandad and his family for Christmas. So I am resting/and going to a party tonight. Looking forward to that.
Have a good Christmas, I am intending to enjoy mine.
Dispite all the ups and downs, I am currently happy.
Moo

gizmo111

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL ESPECIALLY MOOLOO.


:xmassign::xmassign::xmassign:

Enjoy it and make the most of whoever you are with, just be happy. xxxxxxx:heartpuls:rudolf::xmassmile:snow_laug:santa2::xmastree:

Shalva

I wish you a peaceful and restful Christmas Mooloo....Enjoy your party and your "me" time too:xmastree:.

Skint_Lynne

Hope everyone has a lovely Christmas. xx

MatyMoo

We only want you to be happy Mooloo!

Merry Christmas :xmastree:

Savvy_sewing

MatyMoo wrote: »

We only want you to be happy Mooloo!

Merry Christmas :xmastree:

Thankyou MatyMoo, and everyone else.

Merry Christmas, :xmastree:from me as well!!
BF has just gone to take his kids to thier Mums, for thier lunch etc. Had a good mingle at the party, with excellent food and mulled wine!
Bit tired now though! Not used to late nights!.

whiteguineapig

onward and upward!! happy christmas