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Weekly Flylady Thread 6th December 2010

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  • vanilla
    vanilla Posts: 3,277 Forumite
    Oh boy the brown stuff has hit the fan here. :( Hubby told BIL last night so you can imagine what way that went. Hubby felt he had no choice because BIL sat with him for 2 hours while he got a tattoo done and BIL was saying about getting a laptop for christmas that he could pay off and getting the phone and internet in, then how great it was that 2 wages was coming into the house and hubby just couldn't lie. I rang my sister last night but she hung up so goodness knows what will happen now.

    Right kids back to school today, i need to do a food shop.

    Juliejim Happy Birthday hope you have a lovely day.
    Soappie congrats you deserve abit of good luck and i hope more comes your way.
    Sometimes it seems that the going is just too rough.
    And things go wrong no matter what I do.
    Now and then it seems that life is just too much.
    But you've got the love I need to see me through.
    :j :j
  • Shysarah
    Shysarah Posts: 535 Forumite
    Hugs Vanilla - These things have to come out and at least your Hubby had the sense to speak up before they got tied into a credit agreement. :grouphug:

    Soapie - BIG CONGRATS :j:j:j

    JulieJim - :bdaycake:Happy Birthday!!

    Just a quickie for now as mum n dad are going to a local shopping outlet place so I am going along for a ride. Must give them some space though as they need to do some 'Santa shopping'.

    Ok must finish getting ready...

    Laters

    Love, Hugs and Spoons
    Sarah xx
    GC 2011
    Jan £43.45/£40.00 Feb £55.14/£55.00 Mar £64.88/£120
    I MUST KEEP POSITIVE!!
    :A Time you enjoyed wasting, was not wasted (John Lennon) :A


  • vanilla wrote: »
    Oh boy the brown stuff has hit the fan here. :( Hubby told BIL last night so you can imagine what way that went.

    Your sister put you and your DH in an impossible position :( did she think she could hide it from her husband indefinitely :(
    hex2 wrote: »
    Now that is a recipe I have long wanted....

    I'm on to it :) Trying to find it online (it's a Mary Berry recipe), otherwise I'll post on the cake thread later :)

    DD is having a nightmare journey to college :( She's on a station about 10 miles away and no idea when the next train will be :( Waiting for her to decide if she's going to keep trying, or get me to collect her :(

    I need to get going, otherwise I'll keep fretting, so HHC 09:15 - 09:45 anyone :j
    :rudolf: Sheep, pigs, hens and bees on our Teesdale smallholding :rudolf:
  • :A

    Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining Room
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Declutter and mop/vacuum the floors
    Find and wipe the worksurfaces
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    Wipe the big appliances and units.. don't forget kickboards!
    Wipe small appliances and replace.. do one thoroughly.. descale or decrumb or degunge!
    Clear and wipe a shelf or window sill
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Wipe the table and replace the cloth if necessary.
    [/STRIKE]
    Sort through and clean out one cupboard
    [STRIKE]Clean the oven and hob[/STRIKE].. :D


    Extras
    1. Clean out the fridge.. make use of anything almost past its best
    2. Wash the windows
    3. Clean the top of the kitchen wall units.. if you can reach.. no accidents please!!
    4. Dust and Deweb
    Tuesday - living room, hallway, stairs
    Level one
    [STRIKE]Clear the floor of clutter
    Tidy the baubles and lights on the tree.. OR PUT UP YOUR TREE (I have about a dozen baubles strewn about already.. thanks cats!)
    [/STRIKE]
    I will not be putting up my tree until a few days before the Big Day, and even a flying mule won;t make me, so there :p:p:p:p
    Level two
    [STRIKE]Vacuum the stairs and hallway and living room
    Wipe and water plants
    [/STRIKE]
    Wash the windows
    Level three
    [STRIKE]Wipe the sofas and wash any skanky soft furnishings
    [/STRIKE]
    Sort coats, shoes and bags
    Wipe the paintwork in the hallway and up the stairs.

    Extras
    1. Check the smoke alarms
    2. Fill a binbag for charity shop
    3. Finalise your christmas menu and shopping list
    4. Defluff and deweb these rooms
    Wednesday - Master messroom! and landing
    Level one

    Strip the bedding and get it washed!
    30 minutes floordrobe/junk clearing!!
    Level Two
    Vacuum and turn the mattress, vacuum the landing and floor
    Remake the bed
    Clean the windows
    Level Three
    Wash any curtains/etc that are in need
    Wipe down all the furry paintwork
    Fill a binbag for charity shop or the bin!

    Extras
    1. HHI
    2. Collect all the dirty laundry from upstairs
    3. Clean out any pets/wash pet bedding
    4. Wash some light shades
    Thursday - bathroom, study and other grotty places!
    Level One

    Clean the loo and the bath and the shower and the basins!
    Defragment PC and run spyware scans while scrubbing
    Level Two
    Wash windows and any chairs/sofas
    Clean curtains/blinds etc
    Declutter floors
    Level Three
    Wash bathmats/shower curtain and furry bog hats
    Replace any sponges/flannels/toothbrushes etc that need it
    throw out any empty bottles.. decant dribbles into fuller bottles
    Extras
    1. Finalise those last minute presents you have to buy..
    2. Post all the cards you need to post
    3. Wrap all the presents for family/friends
    4. Finalise shopping orders/lists for your christmas food shop.. remember shops are only closed for one day!!!!
    Friday - children pits, spare rooms or just neglected spaces
    Level One

    Make half an hour for yourself
    Change and dirty bedding that needs it!
    Level Two
    Vacuum through the rooms that need it
    Wash any soft furnishings that require a wash
    Collect any stinky laundry from about the place
    Level Three
    Clear out the toy boxes.. (or a box of guff) .. Santa wants to fill them up.. but he can't if there is no space!
    Clean out any bins.. and do a binbag dance!!
    Clear out a grotty cupboard!.. any cupboard so long as it is grotty!
    Extras
    1. Final final shopping lists
    2. Update remaining present lists
    3. Wrap remaining presents
    4. Make a timetable for christmas preparations.. turkey in.. turkey out.. etc
    :rudolf: Sheep, pigs, hens and bees on our Teesdale smallholding :rudolf:
  • sammiell
    sammiell Posts: 756 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    edited 9 December 2010 at 8:24PM
    monday ~ Kitchen and Dining Room
    Level One
    Declutter and mop/vacuum the floors
    Find and wipe the worksurfaces
    Level Two
    Wipe the big appliances and units.. don't forget kickboards!
    Wipe small appliances and replace.. do one thoroughly.. descale or decrumb or degunge!
    Clear and wipe a shelf or window sill
    Level Three
    Wipe the table and replace the cloth if necessary.
    Sort through and clean out one cupboard
    Clean the oven and hob.. :D
    Extras
    1. Clean out the fridge.. make use of anything almost past its best
    2. Wash the windows
    3. Clean the top of the kitchen wall units.. if you can reach.. no accidents please!!
    4. Dust and Deweb
    Tuesday - living room, hallway, stairs
    Level one
    Tidy the baubles and lights on the tree.. OR PUT UP YOUR TREE (I have about a dozen baubles strewn about already.. thanks cats!)
    Level two
    Wash the windows
    Level three
    Wipe the sofas and wash any skanky soft furnishings
    Sort coats, shoes and bags

    Extras
    1. Fill a binbag for charity shop
    2. Finalise your christmas menu and shopping list
    Wednesday - Master messroom! and landing
    Level one
    Strip the bedding and get it washed!
    30 minutes floordrobe/junk clearing!!
    Level Two
    Vacuum and turn the mattress, vacuum the landing and floor
    Remake the bed
    Clean the windows
    Level Three
    Wash any curtains/etc that are in need
    Wipe down all the furry paintwork
    Fill a binbag for charity shop or the bin!





    Extras
    1. HHI
    2. Collect all the dirty laundry from upstairs
    3. Clean out any pets/wash pet bedding
    4. Wash some light shades
    Thursday - bathroom, study and other grotty places!
    Level One
    Defragment PC and run spyware scans while scrubbing
    Level Two
    Wash windows and any chairs/sofas
    Clean curtains/blinds etc
    Level Three
    Extras
    1. Finalise those last minute presents you have to buy..
    2. Post all the cards you need to post
    3. Wrap all the presents for family/friends
    4. Finalise shopping orders/lists for your christmas food shop.. remember shops are only closed for one day!!!!
    Friday - children pits, spare rooms or just neglected spaces
    Level One
    Make half an hour for yourself
    Change and dirty bedding that needs it!
    Level Two
    Vacuum through the rooms that need it
    Wash any soft furnishings that require a wash
    Collect any stinky laundry from about the place
    Level Three
    Clear out the toy boxes.. (or a box of guff) .. Santa wants to fill them up.. but he can't if there is no space!
    Clean out any bins.. and do a binbag dance!!
    Clear out a grotty cupboard!.. any cupboard so long as it is grotty!




    Extras
    1. Final final shopping lists
    2. Update remaining present lists
    3. Wrap remaining presents
    4. Make a timetable for christmas preparations.. turkey in.. turkey out.. etc
    right im getting on top of this today come hell or high water
    the story so far .............
    Dw loaded /unloaded
    2/3 beds made
    children and Oh decluttered
    work next but only for 2 hours client cancelled 2nd time this month:mad: so i will get on whwn i get home i still have scanning to do so i can make the money up from there hugs if you need them welcome if your new i will catch up later samx
  • vanilla
    vanilla Posts: 3,277 Forumite
    School run done and i've a meeting with the head at 12. School play cancelled tonight so at there will be less running about. Need to sit now and write out what i want to happen with DD, then i won't forget anything when i'm in. :D

    Shysarah and Penpen, i honestly think she wouldn't have told him. There both very good to us and it was told because we didn't want them to get into anymore trouble but she won't see it that way. The last she huffed we didn't speak for over a year. :(

    Penpen i hope your DD gets where she needs to go.
    Sometimes it seems that the going is just too rough.
    And things go wrong no matter what I do.
    Now and then it seems that life is just too much.
    But you've got the love I need to see me through.
    :j :j
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,494 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Good Morning Flyers

    HSbirthday_surprise_smiley.gifbday2.gif
    Juliejim


    Well - first day for TWO WEEKS when I can fly unhindered. The vallikids are at school, it's the weekend, off I go...

    FWIW Vanilla I think your hubby has done the right thing...apart from anything else it's not your problem and it's not fair of her to drag you in. As you say though, their relationship might take a real hammering over this.

    *goes for list*
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • soappie wrote: »
    Oh, and yesterday just got better! Went out to let the chickens out and fed them and there, lying in the yard, unspotted last night was a perfectly formed egg!

    You should be satisfied with that because as we all know one egg is un oeuf :rotfl: I'll get my coat as I dash to my HHC ...............
    :rudolf: Sheep, pigs, hens and bees on our Teesdale smallholding :rudolf:
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,494 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    *chuckles at Pen's oldie but goodie...*

    Jobs

    remember to email/phone county council (see AnWs;))
    remember to email CSA
    sort out boxes due to arrive on Thursday and allocate contents appropriately
    write/post xmas cards

    Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining Room
    Level One
    Declutter and mop/vacuum the floors
    Find and wipe the worksurfaces
    Level Two
    Wipe the big appliances and units.. don't forget kickboards!
    Wipe small appliances and replace.. do one thoroughly.. descale or decrumb or degunge!
    Clear and wipe a shelf or window sill
    Level Three
    Wipe the table and replace the cloth if necessary.
    Sort through and clean out one cupboard
    Clean the oven and hob.. :D


    Extras
    1. Clean out the fridge.. make use of anything almost past its best
    2. Wash the windows
    3. Clean the top of the kitchen wall units.. if you can reach.. no accidents please!!
    4. Dust and Deweb
    Tuesday - living room, hallway, stairs
    Level one
    Clear the floor of clutter
    Tidy the baubles and lights on the tree.. OR PUT UP YOUR TREE (I have about a dozen baubles strewn about already.. thanks cats!)
    Level two
    Vacuum the stairs and hallway and living room
    Wipe and water plants
    Wash the windows
    Level three
    Wipe the sofas and wash any skanky soft furnishings
    Sort coats, shoes and bags
    Wipe the paintwork in the hallway and up the stairs.


    Extras
    1. Check the smoke alarms
    2. Fill a binbag for charity shop
    3. Finalise your christmas menu and shopping list
    4. Defluff and deweb these rooms
    Wednesday - Master messroom! and landing
    Level one
    Strip the bedding and get it washed!
    30 minutes floordrobe/junk clearing!!
    Level Two
    Vacuum and turn the mattress, vacuum the landing and floor
    Remake the bed
    Clean the windows
    Level Three
    Wash any curtains/etc that are in need
    Wipe down all the furry paintwork
    Fill a binbag for charity shop or the bin!

    Extras
    1. HHI
    2. Collect all the dirty laundry from upstairs
    3. Clean out any pets/wash pet bedding
    4. Wash some light shades
    Thursday - bathroom, study and other grotty places!
    Level One

    Clean the loo and the bath and the shower and the basins!
    Defragment PC and run spyware scans while scrubbing
    Level Two
    Wash windows and any chairs/sofas
    Clean curtains/blinds etc
    Declutter floors
    Level Three
    Wash bathmats/shower curtain and furry bog hats
    Replace any sponges/flannels/toothbrushes etc that need it
    throw out any empty bottles.. decant dribbles into fuller bottles
    Extras
    1. Finalise those last minute presents you have to buy..
    2. Post all the cards you need to post
    3. Wrap all the presents for family/friends
    4. Finalise shopping orders/lists for your christmas food shop.. remember shops are only closed for one day!!!!
    Friday - children pits, spare rooms or just neglected spaces
    Level One

    Make half an hour for yourself
    Change and dirty bedding that needs it!
    Level Two
    Vacuum through the rooms that need it
    Wash any soft furnishings that require a wash
    Collect any stinky laundry from about the place
    Level Three
    Clear out the toy boxes.. (or a box of guff) .. Santa wants to fill them up.. but he can't if there is no space!
    Clean out any bins.. and do a binbag dance!!
    Clear out a grotty cupboard!.. any cupboard so long as it is grotty!
    Extras
    1. Final final shopping lists
    2. Update remaining present lists
    3. Wrap remaining presents
    4. Make a timetable for christmas preparations.. turkey in.. turkey out.. etc
    There we go. All this won't get done and not all of it applies but I'll give it a go! I have 'work' work to do, too.

    HHC @ 9:30 anyone?
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • pigpen wrote: »
    I think she may have just meant I am stroppy and gobby lol... I said to DD.. 'does she mean a mum that cares where you are? and a mum that is bothered about you being clean and tidy and properly fed? And a mum that cares whether you look nice and behave well and are polite and well-mannered? Or does she mean that she thinks you should have a rude mum like her, who lets her children be rude and behave nastily and just not care?'

    .

    Very well said pigpen
    soappie wrote: »
    Sod it - I've given up trying to catch up, I'll just go all selfish and me-me-me and say

    I'VE GOT A JOB!!!!!

    :beer::beer::beer::beer::beer:



    Well done soappie:T:j It must have been really hard not to say anything at work.

    Wednesday - Master messroom! and landing - DONE:T


    Thursday - bathroom, study and other grotty places!
    Level One
    Clean the loo and the bath and the shower and the basins!
    Defragment PC and run spyware scans while scrubbing
    Level Two
    Wash windows and any chairs/sofas
    Clean curtains/blinds etc
    Declutter floors
    Level Three
    Wash bathmats/shower curtain and furry bog hats
    Replace any sponges/flannels/toothbrushes etc that need it
    throw out any empty bottles.. decant dribbles into fuller bottles
    Extras
    1. Finalise those last minute presents you have to buy..
    2. Post all the cards you need to post
    3. Wrap all the presents for family/friends
    4. Finalise shopping orders/lists for your christmas food shop.. remember shops are only closed for one day!!!!
    Dailies
    Tidy the kitchen.

    Unload/reload DW.
    Wipe surfaces.
    Empty bin
    Sweep & mop kitchen floor.

    [STRIKE]Tidy main bedroom and make bed[/STRIKE].
    Tidy and S&S bathroom.
    Tidy and S&S living room
    S&S study, wipe over PC desk and keep free from clutter.
    Hoover downstairs i.e. living room, hallway, bathroom, dining room and study.


    Laundry 1 load in WM

    Running to catch up with Valli............................


    Hidden places left to sort and de clutter

    Spare bedroom - DONE:j:j
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