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  • relic
    relic Posts: 2,153 Forumite
    How awful, after my partners previous miscarriage, we are going to be having the 12 week(ish) scan some day this week.

    It should be exciting and a happy time, but I am really nervous and not quite sure what to do with myself!

    Glad everything is going okay with them.
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  • OrkneyStar
    OrkneyStar Posts: 7,025 Forumite
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    Big hugs to all concerned. Never been in that situation, can only imagine the heart-break. Try and be there for them as much as you can, and it is ok for you all to cry together if you need to. xx
    Ermutigung wirkt immer besser als Verurteilung.
    Encouragement always works better than judgement.

  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    fabulous news.. congratulations to you all... I know you are all nervous but don't let it spoil the new arrival.. :D

    I am so pleased all is well this time :D
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  • Polmop
    Polmop Posts: 663 Forumite
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    Great News:j:j:j
  • GeeBee38
    GeeBee38 Posts: 3,230 Forumite
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    edited 24 May 2011 at 4:22PM
    Ah lovely xx
  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    So good that you have something to be happy about! You'll never forget Sunny - he'll live in your hearts forever - and now he's going to have a baby brother or sister - wonderful news :) !
  • make_me_wise
    make_me_wise Posts: 1,509 Forumite
    I've just read this whole thread and I was hoping that I'd get to the last page and find an update with some really happy news. I am so thrilled that your ds and his gf are pulling through and expecting again.

    I am so sorry for the awful loss you all suffered. I think the ideas for remembering the baby are lovely.

    Please do come back on and keep us all updated.
  • tiny_tear
    tiny_tear Posts: 207 Forumite
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    couldn't afford much but needed to give something. my miscarriages were all very early but i know the pain of losing a baby
  • make_me_wise
    make_me_wise Posts: 1,509 Forumite
    relic wrote: »
    How awful, after my partners previous miscarriage, we are going to be having the 12 week(ish) scan some day this week.

    It should be exciting and a happy time, but I am really nervous and not quite sure what to do with myself!

    Glad everything is going okay with them.

    Just wanted to wish you the best of luck. My sil and brother were in the same position as you a few years back. A pregnancy after miscarraige is a daunting experience. I really hope it goes well and you get some fab scan photos. Do let us all know
  • jennyjelly
    jennyjelly Posts: 1,708 Forumite
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    Thank you all so much for your good wishes. I've almost been in tears again , thought I was over it but maybe not!

    tiny_tear - losing a baby is awful however early it is, the pain of a life lost is no different. You don't say if you have had better news since then, but I do hope so. If not, I hope there is happiness in the future for you. Thank you so much for your donation, we honestly do value every single penny given.

    relic - I know just how you feel, like you're scared to let yourself be happy just in case! But stay positive, the probability is it will be ok this time. My fingers are crossed for you.
    Oh dear, here we go again.
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