MSE Pregnancy Club 20

Catw0man

dustystar02 wrote: »

Just to forewarn you ladies i''m on a spa break this weekend with my mum so prob won't be back on here til sun night/mon morn - don't miss me too much

Lucky you! Hope you have a great time!

gizmodo_2

spaghetti_monster wrote: »

Dutch non-NHS system, so it's the health insurance that sent it. Just had such a laugh with OH over it (welcome to Holland he said!) - surprised they didn't include some surgical instruments and something for some DIY stitches.
That's a good idea about the mattress covers - I will check them for crinkliness...
The knickers are great - sort of the knicker equivalent of a string vest..... but possibly also quite useful!!

That's absolutely brilliant! Why don't they do that here! lol

Charlie1978

I tell you what... my ma bought me some of them disposable knickers after my last C Section. I looked at her like she had gone flaming mad but they were the best thing EVER! Just chuck em away in a nappy sack and jobs a good un. I've seriously got to ask her where she got them from!

I wanna know who's dropped too!

Evansangel

I think im friends with fuzz.
Edit, baby is so cute!

gizmodo_2

dustystar02 wrote: »

Sammy Girl - I'm worried about you - are you here?

ditto, where are you?

gratefulforhelp_2

sammy!! Where are you??

emsywoo123

**Stumbles in** Hello fatties

Hope you are all good. James is 8 days today, and it has passed in a total blur :rotfl: :rotfl:

Just wanted to say congrats and appropriate vibes to all. So many of you were an utter support to me on this thread through the pregnancy, and many times I would have stumbled without you so a huge THANKYOU and lots of love and hugs xxxxxxxxxxx

Teenie_D

Aw Emsy it's so nice to hear from you. I was thinking about you and Fuzz the other day. xx

emsywoo123

Oh and update on "the father"...........


I invited ex to see him on 17/11 in hosp, he came in, went home and then texted me at 1am, to say I either let him have full access as and when he wanted, on his terms, daily and at a time to suit him, or to not name him on the birth cert, not tell my son about his father, have no maint money, and to strictly never contact him again.

He said he wanted all or nothing.

Based on his behaviour in the past, and the fact I am about 90% sure he had drunk when he texted this, I opted for B. Not what I planned, but I was immobilised post surgery and felt totally put on the spot.

sharkeybabe

Hi Emsy - Not got much advice, but maybe option B was the best one for your lil one and your family. Your ex was being so selfish it beggers belief, its his loss at the end of the day, he is the one missing out on your beautiful baby boy and one day that baby boy will turn into a man and your ex will have to explain why he walked away. Hugs xxx

On another note, I am nearly 29 weeks and I am finishing work 4 weeks tomorrow. My MW still hasnt given me my MATB1 form and when I asked for it yesterday she said they had run out!!!!! I really dont know what to do coz my work are now saying that I cannot get my leave until they get my form - Any advice????xx