Immoral_angel's Debt Diary

immoral_angeluk

nearlyrich wrote:

Aww they look lovely together, what's the age gap? My son was 19 months when I had DD and they are really good friends now at 21 and almost 20.

Ashli is 22 months (2 on the 17th March..). In a way I'm glad they're quite close but not TOO close.. lol.

System

Good News IA, well done. You look so well and out so soon. Well done and best wishes to you all.

immoral_angeluk

Hi all! Thought I'd do a proper update as being a new family of 4 caring for a newborn and a nearly 2 yr old doesn't leave much time for posting! lol! I have been reading the posts but just haven't had time to reply to any except a rare few so apologies for any posts I've seemingly ignored! lol!

*Sending loads of speedy-and-pain-free-labour vibes to Mrs Sparkle!!! Good luck hun and don't worry all the pain is worth it in the end!*

We're all doing great. Kaitlyn is brilliant and Ashli is becoming so sweet with her little sister, always wanting to help and be involved. K even let us sleep for a few hours last night.. going down at 11.30 after a feed and then sleeping until 4.30!!! Needless to say though we were waking up every hour expecting her to be wanting a bottle! lol! Ashli's settled into having a sister really well and we haven't had any jealousy or anything like that so we've been really lucky.
I'm all but healed and am feeling more human every day. About time too! lol!


Moneywise we've been hit with a big bill from our 'friends' at BT for £144 :mad: so citi is going to have to be slightly delayed in being paid off as we're going to have to pay Bt first. Steve spent over 1hr on the phone trying to sort everything out yesterday but it was just pointless as BT customer service is crap and we've got to pay it all even though it's complete rubbish. We've also cut down our package to the cheapest one until we can cancel it altogether in June. I hate bt. W***ers. But we've got more important things to worry about now and once it's paid it'll be off our backs and we can get back on track paying citi off. If anything it just means that we'll have to put paying citi off by a couple of weeks which isn't too bad really.

Anyway, enough about our moans. lol. Will leave you with some pictures I took today.

kathfisch

Aww, I-A, they're gorgeous photos!!! xx

oakdale_minx

aaaaawwwwwwwwwww............I have just sat here and gone aaaawwwwwwwwwwww at the screen - good job there is nobody else listening they would think I'd gone mad!!

Lovely photos.

Nelski

What a gorgeous family you have I_A thanks for those wonderful photos:A

Davina_M

Hi,
Remember you from the pregnancy club. You should share some of these pictures over there, they are soooo sweet. I've got a 17 month old and am having my second on 19 Feb by c section.:sad: . I really know how you feel when it comes to your partner cos mine is the same. He just doesn't get it. we have been together nearly 4 years and even though his income has continued to increase he has got further into debt.
i'm at the point where if feel like giving up with him but have made one last attempt to help him turn things around by paying off his overdraft of £800 only for him to start talking about buying a moped :mad:. to add salt to the wound last night he wanted to lend £150 someone we hardly know. I completely lost it. Not sure what to do, like you and your partner we see things so differently.
Sorry to go on, it was just comforting to see that i am not the only one in this situation.

Hope you manage to sort out the BT bill. They are such riff offs. You should try and change ASAP or at least arrange monthly payment plan. It'll save you from the nightmare of huge quarterly bill.

take care x

chick-chick

Awwwww they are both so cute, I'm getting broody now Congratulations!:j

Bunnyinthelights

I-A
Your girls are just precious.
I'm glad you're all doing well-I have 2 1/2 years between my 2 children and I found the first 10 weeks hard work but now it's wonderful!
They (mostly) play nicely together and I hope they continue to be close.
I enjoy reading your thread,
Bunny x

Snaggles

Gorgeous photos Immoral, Kaitlin is just adorable, and Ashli is SUCH a pretty girl, with her huge, beautiful eyes. You sound so happy in your posts. The little breakdown that you had about the loss of your bump is quite normal I'm sure - there are so many hormonal changes going on as your body re-adjusts to normal. I floated on a cloud for the first three days, then sobbed my heart out for the next two! Take care and try to get some sleep!