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The “arrgggh it’s nearly Xmas” November NSD challenge
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I do use the words "I am sorry but I have my own charity that I already support".
Charity is nice but the "making you feel bad" approach is not right and you can't end up paying £1 to every single one.
I believe that you should give 1) if you can afford it and 2) if you believe in the charity (their cause, their work) and not because of the guilt trip.
For instance I give £10 a month to cancer research (ex smoker and I have people in my family who have suffered) however I am very often contemplating just stopping because I get rubbish by the post from them (expensive marketing paper to entice me to pay more -very annoying because I feel that the £10 is pointless).
Thank you Karom; that makes sense! I just need to stop being a big wuss and actually do it!solventsoon wrote: »nicca - don't feel guilty about the charity thing, if you need to cancel it, then cancel it.. (and I love the new buy - have you declared that on Lula's challenge:D)
I was thinking of wearing it on 30th, just need to add some tartan to it. It can get pretty windy up that there castle!
And talking of Lula's challenge - how have you managed to keep to 0!!! Very impressive! :TJan10: 28,315.81 Jan11: 18,015.32 Jan12: 7,682.58 Jan13: 2,987.73 Current debt: 1,225.55
HFC [STRIKE]1896.10. [/STRIKE] 225.55 SLC2 [STRIKE]5123.34[/STRIKE] 0 Others [STRIKE]2085[/STRIKE] 1000 Bcard [STRIKE]1172.60[/STRIKE] 0
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But if you get a taxi home from a Saturday night out, then it's still Saturday night
And - in any case - you'll have to have the money in your purse and already allocated to the taxi fare on Saturday...... so in my eyes that's also scope for counting Sunday as an NSD
Sometimes I can be so pedantic! Your absolutely right Cheryl. There's still plenty of scope for reaching target this month!
Jan10: 28,315.81 Jan11: 18,015.32 Jan12: 7,682.58 Jan13: 2,987.73 Current debt: 1,225.55
HFC [STRIKE]1896.10. [/STRIKE] 225.55 SLC2 [STRIKE]5123.34[/STRIKE] 0 Others [STRIKE]2085[/STRIKE] 1000 Bcard [STRIKE]1172.60[/STRIKE] 0
Mike's Mob0 -
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Originally Posted by solventsoon
nicca - don't feel guilty about the charity thing, if you need to cancel it, then cancel it.. (and I love the new buy - have you declared that on Lula's challenge:D)I was thinking of wearing it on 30th, just need to add some tartan to it. It can get pretty windy up that there castle!
And talking of Lula's challenge - how have you managed to keep to 0!!! Very impressive! :TThe time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time
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Hi lovely NSD gang:A
The following members of the NSD gang have made their targets since Tuesday, a huge WELL DONE to all of you:j:j:j:j:j:j
:jdonna dynamo - target smashed and increased
:jTixy - target smashed and increased
:jboultdj - target smashed and increased
:jwebitha - target no 2 smashed and increased again
:jelfen - target no 2 smashed and increased again
:jlove GSDs - target smashed
:jSurfbabe - target no 2 smashed and increased again
:jjintyb - target smashed
:jBigMumma - target smashed
:jBlimusOreilly - target smashed and increased
:jcandyapple - target smashed and increased
:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j
Great achievement for you all, especially at this very spendy time of year :j:jThe time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time
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Hello again lovely NSD gang:A
And the following members of our gang have gained more NSDs since Tuesday:
BDINI:j
Red :j
beanielou :j
kerri gt :j
gemini 12 :j
Looloo :j
chris81418 :j
ifwishes :j
tjp70 :j
slowlyfading :j
conf :j
kezlou :j
dmb :j
elf06 :j
kdalwayskint :j
twistedhazel :j
katholicos :j
Cheryl :j
karma-chi :j
katenut :j
nicca :j
A huge WELL DONE to you all, including those of you who don't think you've done very well (or have used the "f" word in your posts:D). Any NSD, especially at this time of the year, is well worth having, don't forget that mantra:D:D:D
And can I mention me as well, I got one on Wednesday:DThe time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time
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butdoineedit? wrote: »Well you would have all laughed at me tottering to the interview in my high heels due to the newly laid snow!! :eek::eek:
Went as well as it could... well i knew the answers to all the questions so that was a good start :mad: to the fact that i won't here till this time next week tho!
Spent on a bottle of wine with a catch up with a friend who took some time off work to meet me after the interview & then did a Mr M shop on the way home, but definitely planning on spending nowt tomorrow.
Off to bed now shattered after a wide awake night worrying about the interview, hugs to anyone with the lurgy & see you all in the morning!!
Hi BDINI
Wouldn't have laughed at all, honest, typical luck to get snow on your way to an interview though - it would happen to me as well..
Sounds as though it went well, will keep my fingers crossed for you.
spoon xThe time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time
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Hi again lovely peeps
Well all updated now, lots of prizes on the front page and hopefully a few more to come over the next few days. Some very impressive numbers on the front page again this month, well done everyone:j
Back tomorrow for a chat and a Friday morning wiggle of course:D
'night everyone
spoon xxThe time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time
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Good morning everyone -
First off, well done on yet another NSD Spoon!:T
Have been up most of the night, really having problems sleeping ATM, will probably got back to bed later and hit myself over the head to try and get some shuteye!:(
Just checked OH's wages and it looks like he has not been paid for a lot of OT he did:mad: @ £150 short:mad: I was banking on that money this week, so I will have to juggle things around a bit. Any time he does any hours out of his usual routine, his payroll dept always screw up:mad: Not helped by the fact he's in London, so I cant even rant at him! Sorry guys, I know you wont mind me having a wee shout!:A
Not sure what I'm up to today, probably my bed with a HWB and my book!
OH home this evening,:j cant wait to see him, it's been a long week!
Have a lovely day everyone!:)
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NSD number 10 for me yesterday.If Plan A fails, remember there are 25 more letters0
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