Abba1772's Debt Free Diary

moneyonmymindsam

Alright Sugar britches 
Everything comes at once doesn't it. You do amazing! Just do what you can for grans stuff and trust your judgement. I know it's hard but if anyone can do it you can. 
Sam x

abba1772

Had a productive weekend have managed to clear out a cupboard down the stairs at my grans house booked a tip run, also managed to sort through some of her units in the living room, my grans house was always tidy and I always through of her as super organised but going through these units she was a organised hoarder lol bless her.

sold one of her many wardrobes so that’s some space in the spare room.

been to the town this afternoon and got her a couple of gifts as it’s her birthday tomorrow so I’ve bought her some crushed velvet pyjamas and I’ll go get her flowers and chocolates tomorrow once I’ve spoken to the home that’s it’s alright to drop them off along with some of her home comforts.

also bought her a box and I’m going to fill it up with her photos, need to write on the back of them who they are etc for her so that’s my task tonight.

my arm feels much better now only took a week did my 30 minutes on the crosstrainer early this morning and will be doing my gym workout via zoom after I’ve done the school run.  One of my parents wants to chat with me..........never a good sign already overthinking if they give me notice how I can fill those spaces lol hopefully she’s not leaving me as I’ve had her kids for 5 years now xx

I think the remortgage process is on the move again........hubby’s work emailed a copy of the paperwork as Royal Mail have lost our paperwork thank goodness she’s took a copy so the mortgage advisor has sent it to the underwriters.  fingers crossed they accept this otherwise I need to wait for them to send out another paper copy........all because buys work is old school and write out the wage slips lol xx

right off to get ready for the school run xx

beanielou

Hope the parent chat goes well.  xx

abba1772

beanielou said:

Hope the parent chat goes well.  xx

It didn’t, my biggest earner has just gave me notice 

and spoke too soon about the remortgage process, hubby’s employers have mucked up and it looks like we aren’t getting the remortgage 

I thought Friday was bad xx

Sun_Addict

Oh no. Seems likes it’s one thing after another for you at the moment. Any reason given for the notice being given? 

Big hugs xx

beanielou

abba1772 said:

beanielou said:

Hope the parent chat goes well.  xx

It didn’t, my biggest earner has just gave me notice 

and spoke too soon about the remortgage process, hubby’s employers have mucked up and it looks like we aren’t getting the remortgage 

I thought Friday was bad xx

So sorry to read this.
How have the employers mucked up? xx

abba1772

Sun_Addict said:

Oh no. Seems likes it’s one thing after another for you at the moment. Any reason given for the notice being given? 

Big hugs xx

Turns out she was claiming as a single parent and her mil put her in it so they have relied on extra money for all these years and Are now realising they can’t afford to live never mind pay for childcare.......you think you know people xx

abba1772

beanielou said:

abba1772 said:

beanielou said:

Hope the parent chat goes well.  xx

It didn’t, my biggest earner has just gave me notice 

and spoke too soon about the remortgage process, hubby’s employers have mucked up and it looks like we aren’t getting the remortgage 

I thought Friday was bad xx

So sorry to read this.
How have the employers mucked up? xx

His employers have told the underwriters his contract is 35 hours a week whilst it’s actually 40 hours but those 5 hours a week have caused a massive difference in the amount they are willing to lend us.  They were willing to lend us the £59 but because of those 5 hours they can only offer us £44k..........I do not have £15k only half of it !!!!!! xx

beanielou

abba1772 said:

Sun_Addict said:

Oh no. Seems likes it’s one thing after another for you at the moment. Any reason given for the notice being given? 

Big hugs xx

Turns out she was claiming as a single parent and her mil put her in it so they have relied on extra money for all these years and Are now realising they can’t afford to live never mind pay for childcare.......you think you know people xx

Wow.  I just don't get people who do that.
Hope they don't have too much to pay back!!!

Pink_Butterfly

Ahhhh what a rubbish day you’ve had. Sending you cake and wine 🍰🍷