Abba1772's Debt Free Diary

beanielou

Massive well done :j :j :j :j :j xx

HairyHandofDartmoor

You've done so well :T.

jwil

That's brilliant, well done Abba :T

abba1772

Morning :hello:

not talking to hubby mega p i s s e d off with him had enough of his attitude and I'm the wrong person to call a bluff with as I call it everytime, never felt this way with hubby before but he seriously needs to think about his actions and how he says stuff as it's not on.......after everything I've support him through hes being a A R S E then thinks that by texting me to apologise it'll make it better :mad: feel better already having my wee rant :T

Been a productive morning so far cleaned the hallway, messaged a joiner about making a full length cupboard in my hallway as had enough of waiting for hubby to get round to it :mad: cleaned the Living Room and Dining Room and completed my minutes for the community association meeting whilst my mindee drew and coloured in.

Plans for today are to feed kids lunch, take mindee to nursery, walk up to town with the other mindee in the buggy and trade my grans old phone in.....she days I've to split the money between the three kids for their holiday tins :T isnt she kind so seeing as its a beuitful day again and i'm being really good with my diet again this week a wee walk in the sunshine will help me think a bit more clearly and hopefully i get rid of this stinking mood I'm in as i never got to sleep til 1.30am this morning because my mind was in overdrive :mad:

still not done my daily round down into the holiday account will go do that just now before my other mindee arrives xx

Pink_Butterfly

Hope you’re ok now Abba... he needs to make it up to you! I’m thinking he needs to pay for another holiday for you

WannabeFree

You've done amazing Abba

Hope you sorted it with DH

x

abba1772

Pink_Butterfly wrote: »

Hope you’re ok now Abba... he needs to make it up to you! I’m thinking he needs to pay for another holiday for you

He's trying bless him he's talking about taking us to see avengers at the weekend :rotfl: better than a bunch of flowers :T he's came home seems calmer has apologised we shall see how long this lasts tbh

I love my hubby I really do but I was in a very unhappy marriage for 9 years prior to him and I refuse to be that unhappy again so unfortunately hubby sees I put my barriers up quite quickly.......I suppose to protect my heart as I was devastated when I called time on my first marriage to my childhood sweetheart but he was a bully and very very selfish as we got older xx

It's a few factors he's struggling with Abbie growing up and not needing her dad as much plus Kk is at that age where he's getting more independent which I think is making him broody :eek: not a chance plus our car is in the garage for a major recall been there since Friday and it's not moved in the car park since :mad::mad::mad: good job we have a courtesy car which is rubbish

Not making excuses for the tube really I'm not but life's to short to be angry all the time .......it's just not worth it xx

HairyHandofDartmoor

Sorry you've had a row with DH but he need to know where the line is and not cross it. No reason why you should put up with bad behaviour. Good that he's apologised .

WannabeFree

I think kids growing up is hard

I must admit I'm struggling and DS is only 10. He want's to start having that bit of freedom - walking to school etc on his own. Which I know I need to let the reins go a little before he starts high school and I really don't want too So I can't imagine how hard it is when they are really growing up

Fingers crossed the car is sorted and back soon

x

abba1772

Pink_Butterfly wrote: »

Hope you’re ok now Abba... he needs to make it up to you! I’m thinking he needs to pay for another holiday for you

Oh and welcome pink butterfly :hello: