Its tough, it will get better and guess what its freezing brrrrr!

Primrose

Pitlanepiglet - no job is worth sacrificing your health and sanity for. Hope your decision is giving you some relief from stress and that perhaps by the time you've worked your notice out, something else will be available for your.

starsandmoon

Did a collection for a colleagues 50th and its gone missing! There was a lot of money in it as well. We are spread across 2 floors so difficult to keep a close eye on it. Disgusted isnt the word!:mad:

greent

OH works away from home in the week - last mobile bill showed a lot of late night texts to someone - googled teh number and found a woman's name - never heard of her before. Last night at 11.30 he sent a text sayiing 'sexy' to her. Says they've only been flirtng but he had an affair when I was pg with DD (almost 13) and last April (at 37 weeks pg with DS3) I gfound he had been seeing people off ointernet sites

Don't know what to do

parsonswife8

Well happy now...daughter has just phoned and wished me and we've had a long chat.

OMG starsandmoon..money gone missing, that is just dreadful:mad:

((((greent)))) How awful finding out what your OH has been doing.:( I know how you feel, but in my case it wasn't texting. You poor thing.:think:

Primrose

starsandmoon - How low can people stoop to steal an office collection! But things like this do happen, especially in difficult economic times when money is tight and they just can't resist the temption to steal something. I'm afraid the only thing to do in such cases is either stand and hover while people add their contribution (which can be embarrassing if some people can't afford to contribute much) or remove most of the money while the envelope goes on its circulation.
When I worked in an office I noticed that the another thing which would frequently go missing was spectacles, especially if they were left lying on desks and had designer frames. People would just steal them for the frames and then go to their own optician to have their specific prescriptions added to save the cost of the frames.

kidcat

HUge hugs Greent - no idea what to say other than we are all here if you need to talk. My only advice would be to know what it is you want - it makes any converstaions so much easier if you are sure.

ifonlyitwaseasier

Annie YAY!!!!

Parsonswife - happy birthday

greent - ((((((((((hugs)))))))))))



well baking goddess that i am (modest modest ) i made a lovely slice type thing yesterday (see my frantic recipe search thread! lol) and most of it has been enjoyed already!!!

today i am to continue the hunt for a job and possibly be lazy too and maybe watch a dvd this afternoon i feel twilighty atm

ioiwe x

mama67

jackieglasgow wrote: »

We have more money coming in the house now than we have for several years but we are still cash poor.Part of it is repaying a loan from when one of OH's client bu66ered off with thousands of pounds which was meant to pay for the job OH had done for him, and feed us, but that still doesn't account for it. Despite watching all DDebs and the grocery budget we still struggle. I am flummoxed, and really am starting to worry that I am missing something obvious. The cost of living has increased dramatically for us.

We were only saying the same the other night, (not about client obviously).

When we moved here Dh got a job on min wage and we would have loved a bit more now he is on double that and I work p/t and we still never have any extra unless he does overtime.

maryb

Greent I'm so sorry. It can't help with him working away during the week, not that that is any excuse whatsoever. I know from some of your other posts he has anger management issues and has agreed to counselling - maybe as a minimum you should demand that the scope of that counselling is widened. You deserve to be treated with respect, not disloyalty and undeserved anger

valentina

Piglet - know exactly how you feel. I know the relief in resigning from a job that is destroying you. Best wishes.