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  • xx_Jo_xx
    xx_Jo_xx Posts: 2,858 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    23n1th, has come to my rescue... I am now upright and shall head back to lurkdom and stay away from the PC!..... or stop pressing keys at least!

    (any chance someone could send over the aforementioned 6-year old to keep me right :D )

    Thanks xx

    ETA: DT thank you - the shortcut is CRTL+ATL+arrow keys....you may need this for future reference :D
    :)Sometimes lurking, sometimes posting, but always flying:)
    You are supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake! - The Holiday
    DFW :idea: August 2013... Debt total £15,475.56 - Jan 15 £11,738.66 - DEBT FREE by 2015
    Feb GC £48.02/£250 (£201.98)
    :D I will declutter my house and debts :D
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Its okay to keep on posting - look how quickly somebody who was able to help was there for you!

    Dt, you're a genius, I wouldn't have had any idea about that.
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Firewalker
    Firewalker Posts: 2,682 Forumite
    smcshane wrote: »
    Hi ladies.

    I haven't caught up with today's action yet so apologies if I dampen a positive mood but I'm a bit annoyed.
    Can't understand why some men (and women) but in this case man have to be so aggressive and confrontational and make you feel intimidated? There are other people at fault and I will deal with that tomorrow.
    Being a northerner I stuck to my guns and was professional but it has still upset me!
    Never mind tomorrow is another day and thanks for letting me rant
    Sx

    Hi there, your post caught my attention and here I am - playing the house psychologist. People can become aggressive and confrontational for different reasons - the most obvious one being stress and pressure. They can be like that because the environment is unhappy etc. They can also seem so to you - an extrovert for instance often appears aggressive, loud and unprepared to introverts. In other words people can be aggressive and they can appear aggressive - but whatever it is you cannot change them.

    What you can change is yourself - you can chose not to feel intimidated; you can chose to deal with situations like that calmly and you can chose not to be involved in a confrontation. People victimise other people because they send 'victim' signals out.

    So the programme, I believe is - working on one-self; learning to understand others; learning to 'shift' others.

    Firewalker
  • gilligansyle
    gilligansyle Posts: 4,124 Forumite
    Hi Guys, just a quick note to say DD has behaved herself and is now BACK HOME :D:j:j:j:T:T

    Right as you were..:cool:

    So please for you BoB it must be such a relief that she's on the mend.



    OK I can feel a foot stamping session coming on

    Ebay still doesn't want to play ball for me and I have no idea if they have replied to my email because virgin email is down as well :mad::mad::mad: Don't they know a girl is trying to set up a business here:(:(

    Suppose I will just have to go and sort paperwork until they decide to play :(

    DTxx

    See that you decided to use your time productively on kits for kids instead.


    I am quite happy to monitor the email address. If you think this is a good idea can you thank this post but if anyone diagrees or has another suggestion then feel free to say so :)

    DTxx

    Can't think of any better ideas, other than if people have google accounts, could set up a spreadsheet in google docs, but not sure how you limit access as never had to do it.
    Debts at LBM - Mortgages £128497 - non mortgage £27497 Debt now £[STRIKE]114150[/STRIKE][STRIKE]109032[/STRIKE] 64300 (mortgage) Credit cards left 0



    "The days pass so fast, let's try to make each one better than the last"
  • Memory_Girl
    Memory_Girl Posts: 4,957 Forumite
    Whew!!!! hello peeps

    Got the proposal for the keynote off at like 2 minutes to five - and a huge part of me is chuckling away at the huge cosmic joke being played on me by the universe.

    My first corporate Keynote proposal is for the company that is the biggest competitor to the Adminstrators instructed by the Bank ...................... you couldn't make it up, could you ?????:D

    Fingers crossed that they think my "memorise that pack of cards" keynote" is worth considering.

    DS1 has been off to chanter practice - and now both of them are in the bath playing with rubber dolphins - no really:D. Leaving me enough time to haul my desk through from the hallway (cos i was Baltic out there today) and into the livingroom where I can at least take advantage of the south facing window to keep me warm during the day....... anything to put off turning the heating on for a few more weeks.

    Go another coaching call tonight - but this time I am going to have to throw my hands up and say that I haven't done the homework - although did get the proposal turned around in time:cool:

    I'm debating whether to pour myself a large cup of tea, pop the boys into bed and start the research for the call sheets.

    What I need to do for each of our chosen venues is find the contact name, address, phone and email address for all the following categories.

    1..Local Independant Schools
    2..Local State Schools
    3. Colleges - head of each dept
    4. Universities - same including Staff Development and MBA programmes
    5. 50 local Accountants
    6. 50 local IFA's
    7. 5 largest employers
    8. Local authority - staff development Officer
    9. Any medical or dental school
    10. Chair of 10 local networking groups (BNI, BRE, Rotary, Chamber, WIN and womesn in business groups)

    Now I know its only 10 categories - but there are 20 venue location's so I amsure he doesn't expect me to deliver them all this afternoon.:eek:


    .................. or maybe this is the Mentors revenge for al the hilarity we have had at ther expense over the last few days??????


    In which case it's been totally worth it:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Memorygirl
    FINALLY AND OFFICIALLY DEBT FREE
    Small Emergency Fund £500 / £500
    Pay off all Debts £10,000 / £10,000
    Grown Up Emergency Fund £6000 / £6000 :j
    Pension Provision £6688/£2376
  • You could ask 20 people to assist you by taking a location each?

    DTxx
  • gilligansyle
    gilligansyle Posts: 4,124 Forumite
    You could ask 20 people to assist you by taking a location each?

    DTxx


    Brilliant idea :T
    Debts at LBM - Mortgages £128497 - non mortgage £27497 Debt now £[STRIKE]114150[/STRIKE][STRIKE]109032[/STRIKE] 64300 (mortgage) Credit cards left 0



    "The days pass so fast, let's try to make each one better than the last"
  • Surfbabe
    Surfbabe Posts: 2,284 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I'm up for Cambridge
  • xx_Jo_xx
    xx_Jo_xx Posts: 2,858 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    It didnt take me long to pop out of Lurkdom again...

    I can do my area... I work for an IFA practice which are also members of BNI etc etc, so can help with the Cardiff ones...

    HTH xx
    :)Sometimes lurking, sometimes posting, but always flying:)
    You are supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake! - The Holiday
    DFW :idea: August 2013... Debt total £15,475.56 - Jan 15 £11,738.66 - DEBT FREE by 2015
    Feb GC £48.02/£250 (£201.98)
    :D I will declutter my house and debts :D
  • fantasia322
    fantasia322 Posts: 1,373 Forumite
    What I need to do for each of our chosen venues is find the contact name, address, phone and email address for all the following categories.

    1..Local Independant Schools
    2..Local State Schools
    3. Colleges - head of each dept
    4. Universities - same including Staff Development and MBA programmes
    5. 50 local Accountants
    6. 50 local IFA's
    7. 5 largest employers
    8. Local authority - staff development Officer
    9. Any medical or dental school
    10. Chair of 10 local networking groups (BNI, BRE, Rotary, Chamber, WIN and womesn in business groups)

    Now I know its only 10 categories - but there are 20 venue location's so I amsure he doesn't expect me to deliver them all this afternoon.:eek:


    .................. or maybe this is the Mentors revenge for al the hilarity we have had at ther expense over the last few days??????


    In which case it's been totally worth it:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Memorygirl

    Delegate MG, you have a Matrix here of people who are only too willing. Just name the place and I will get onto it,:T
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