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jo1972

I'm thinking, should I end it all completely with OH tomorrow, don't want to see a new year in with him?

Marru

Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

jo1972

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :rotfl:

Okay then

Marru

Sorry for shouting. BF turned up today. I didn't expect him until tomorrow and I am now irrationally angry. Few months ago I would have been thrilled. And no - he has done nothing wrong quite the opposite. That is what is so awful about all this.

maman

WOW! It's noisy round here, some of us are trying to sleep you know:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

I can see there's no way you'd want to see the New Year in with your OH jo but do you want to spend tomorrow evening with him crying and pleading and promising etc etc long into the night. I'm sure it would be easier on a 'normal' day. That being said, it's going to be messy whenever and I think you're sounding ready to get it over with. (but PLEASE stop saying 'end it all')

marru, sorry you're stressed, maybe a cooling off period is needed.

jo1972

Marru wrote: »

Sorry for shouting. BF turned up today. I didn't expect him until tomorrow and I am now irrationally angry. Few months ago I would have been thrilled. And no - he has done nothing wrong quite the opposite. That is what is so awful about all this.

I understand exactly where you're coming from, I get like that about OH even when he does nothing wrong, if it means I have to change my plans or the way I was gonna do something because he changes something unexpectedly, it makes me mad it does :mad: I think it's cos I hate him :undecided

maman wrote: »

but PLEASE stop saying 'end it all'.

I am ending it all, the marriage, the relationship, the hatred, the f.ucking hard work, the resentment, all of it. And the minute I am free from that I can get on with enjoying my life and having fun, lightening up and feeling as though I've lost the chains I've been carrying around for the last 20 years.

Feel I want to do this today.

Off to work in mo, speak later xx

fedupandskint

Good luck Jo for today - I hope it turns out how you want it to

As for me banana pancakes for breakfast, don't know about lunch and then nigella duck legs and potatoes for tea, not sure if I'm going to have a drink or remain AF. Haven't decided yet

yellowmonkey

Jo

Just like to send you a New Year wish and I hope 2011 brings everything thay YOU want. Only YOU can live your life and I sincerely wish you a Fantastic year and a Happy future

Take care

XXXX

Miss_Piggy_2

Morning all

Jo - only you can know whats right for you. Whenever you do this it will be hard and messy. Up to you when the right time is. Good luck, whatever you decide to do.:grouphug:

Have no idea what I'm having today to eat. Lets just say I'll be avoiding veges today after getting through a roasted veg pizza AND 2 pickled eggs last night!:eek: OH wasn't happy and threatened to sleep in the garage:rotfl:(sorry if TMI!:o)

Miss P
xx

maman

jo1972 wrote: »

I am ending it all, the marriage, the relationship, the hatred, the f.ucking hard work, the resentment, all of it. And the minute I am free from that I can get on with enjoying my life and having fun, lightening up and feeling as though I've lost the chains I've been carrying around for the last 20 years.

Feel I want to do this today.

Off to work in mo, speak later xx

Sorry jo, didn't explain that well but it was late and noisy:o When I open a post, that jumps out at me and I think OMG:eek::eek::eek: Perhaps 'finish him off' would be better:)

Talk later.