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The Giving Up/Cutting Down Alcohol Support Thread - Numero 9!

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  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Give me a shout if anyone wants to pledge just for tonight or fancies trying the special offer 2 night challenge.

    Could I pledge just for tonight please :D

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  • Morning all! (although only just!)

    Checking in to say put me down for AF last night please Pen!I'm just so busy in the evenings and at weekends at the moment that there isn't much time to listen to the bells. Am doing the rounds of unis and sixth forms for DDs 1 and 2. Tonight is parent's evening for DD3 and then tomorrow night I can collapse (hopefully bell free)

    I'll go for 20 in Oct please Shaggy. Thanks for scoring again :)
  • Life needs a bit of lightness and love around the edges to keep us all going :)

    Hear hear :T:T:T
  • I'll go for 20 in Oct please Shaggy.

    That is actually quite scary seeing it down in writing :eek:
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    Just for tonight (Weds)

    Jo

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    I don't mind listing just one night, if you only want to think one day at a time :)
    This time I haven't smoked since 6th Jan 2014 and still going ok.
    Fingers crossed x
  • 365days
    365days Posts: 1,347 Forumite
    I know I upset some people the other night. Some of those people have been in contact with me and we have sorted it out away from the thread. I've also had PM's from members on here who I highly respect offering support. Thanks Guys.

    Hopefully what I say next won't upset anyone as I believe it to be fact.

    There are people on here who want to cut down and can easily.
    There are people on here who want to cut down but can't.
    There are people on here who want to stop completely and have.
    There are people on here who want to stop completely and can't.
    There are other people on here who don't fall into any of the above but for their own reasons find the thread helpful and interesting.
    This is a thread about ALCOHOL.

    Sometimes people will post things about alcohol and alcoholism. That is because it is an alcohol thread and because alcohol and alcoholism sometimes go together.
    Some people here are alcoholics in recovery, some are alcoholics in denial, some are alcoholics who aren't in denail but struggle to stop and some people aren't alcoholics at all.
    Some people get passionate about alcoholism. Some people don't. Some people love to come here and read serious posts that challenge their thinking, some people like to come here to chat, some like both.

    As i have said I have apologised to the people I have upset that got in touch with me. I am sorry I upset anyone. But this thread is about ALCOHOL so therefore my thoughts on alcohol and alcoholism are just as relevant as anyone elses. You may disagree with them but they were relevant to a thread about alcohol.

    If anyone has an issue with me or what I said please feel free to get in touch.
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  • 365days
    365days Posts: 1,347 Forumite
    diable wrote: »
    If I don't drink this evening then it will be 29 AF days for me this month and 37 AF on the trot ;o))) Next month I will be drinking whilst savouring my food it some Italian restaurant in Florence ;o)) not too much though.

    Lucky you Florence is my favourite place. I can recomend a company called 'Tuscan Trails' (I think) who take you on a vineyard tour, stunning scenery, amazing food in a local 'slow food' resturant and (as you've allowed yourself some non AF days!!) a sample of all their wines. They will pick you up from various places in Florence.

    Enjoy
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  • penelopedee_2
    penelopedee_2 Posts: 2,698 Forumite
    edited 29 September 2010 at 1:29PM
    365, please don't take offence at my flippancy at times, it just how I hold myself together to deal with this :) no harm is intended. Pen x
    This time I haven't smoked since 6th Jan 2014 and still going ok.
    Fingers crossed x
  • Puzzcat
    Puzzcat Posts: 4,200 Forumite
    shaggydoo wrote: »
    Since I've heard nothing to the contrary I will assume I'm scoring October :D So

    SET YOUR TARGETS FOR OCTOBER PLEASE


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    Thanks shaggy I'm going to set myself at 15 days for October.
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  • Time for one of these

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    :)


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