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The Giving Up/Cutting Down Alcohol Support Thread - Numero 9!

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  • Puzzcat
    Puzzcat Posts: 4,200 Forumite
    Well done Ragdoll, I find that I can not have my chosen alcohol (red wine) in the house as my willpower is rubbish.. I can ignore all other drinks..!

    Its a great time to start, its monday and a new month... good luck, we are all here to support you on this journey. Although don't copy me, as I'm a bit carp at times... :D

    I put £4 away each day I'm AF and then pop it back in the bank during the week... once I've put my £4 away I seem to lose the temptation to want to buy wine... works for me... most the time...

    I'm a not on a school night type of girl.. well trying to be. :D
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  • heath480
    heath480 Posts: 341 Forumite
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    Hapy November everyone.

    Welcome Ragdoll and great that you have emptied house of Alcohol,I did that when I decided I had had enough.
    Congratulations MP looking forward to some photos.:T

    Well I have a house full of sweets from last night,only had 3 lots of trick or treaters,still it was nice to have the pumpkin lit.

    Jo glad you have decided to join us AFers,life is so much easier and a lot more fun without the stuff.

    I am waiting for the post certain I have got a speeding ticket coming!:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:.

    Enjoy the day all.:A:A:A
    Sobriety delivers everything Alcohol promised.


    Alcohol free since May 23rd 2003.:D
  • Morning all. Shaggy, am declaring on 18 for October. Please put me down for 20 for Nov. Fab scoring, thanks!! Had rather a mulligan on Saturday night, ended up drunkenly walking miles and miles home (got in at 5am :eek:) and so yesterday was a write-off. Serves me right for being a bit complacent I suppose.

    hs.
    ...nothing to see here...
  • :j :j Monday To Thursday Challenge :j :j


    Jo
    Puzzcat
    Pen

    Come on ... who dares to join us? It's only 4 nights :D
    I'm happy to list 1 night if anyone just wants to pledge for the day :)
    This time I haven't smoked since 6th Jan 2014 and still going ok.
    Fingers crossed x
  • Hi all, loads of lovely AFness going on at the weekend again I see :T

    They are actually making me do some work here today to need so post and run. I'll catch up on the challenge listings later. :)
    This time I haven't smoked since 6th Jan 2014 and still going ok.
    Fingers crossed x
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,824 Forumite
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    jo1972 wrote: »
    Wow! I'm quite pleased! :D

    Master of understatement!

    Welcome ragdoll. I know what you mean about keeping your ID hidden. I often think if I post on other boards whether people think my opinion isn't as valid because they know I'm a drinker (reformed:o). There's lots of good advice and support on here. Just get a day under your belt, you'll feel great (and very smug) and then build on it.

    Having pontificated, I'm ashamed to say that today might be my only AF day this week. I'm off for a short holiday. I'm sure I'll enjoy it but part of me is longing for a bit of normality, life has been hectic just recently.
  • Thank you everyone for the welcomes.

    Maman, I'm glad I havent offended anyone over the ID thing. ITs just I feel very silly about having to admit I have an issue with drink. I'm very organised in other areas of my life, juggling home ,work and children. I suppose I see a bottle of wine as some sort of reward. But it isn't really, is it?

    Feeling very good about my decision.
  • noynoy
    noynoy Posts: 380 Forumite
    morning all last 1 af to report 5 in total

    not great as i wanted to do 17 but i only manged 2 the month before so a bit better..please can i be put down for 10 this month thanks x
    total debt 4711.00 at lbm (4217.31) dfd aug 2012 :eek: overdraft 800 (400.00) kill overdraft first, loan 1500.00 ,creditcard 2411.00
  • Good Morning Ladies and Gents.

    Just popping in to say hello.

    Hope you all had a Happy Halloween, and a relaxing weekend.

    Two weeks and three days sober here. Feels great!

    Starting training for my new job next Monday, which I'm looking forward to.

    Feeling a bit flat, and worried about money today, but at least the job will bring some dosh in, and will keep me busy.

    Ragdoll78 -

    Congrats for being brave and admitting you have an issue with drink. That's not silly at all. It's brave.

    Keep at it 'one day at a time'. Life will only get better :) Big Hugs.

    Have a great day all.

    Sim xx
  • Morning all! Ah no it's afternoon already...:eek: I'm back from my week away and determined to do better than October. 6 out of 20 was a rubbish result :(

    So please put me down for 20 this month Shaggy

    Let's see how that goes.

    Hope everyone's ok and raring to go for a new month.

    Welcome to ragdoll. You've taken a really important step in admitting you're not happy with your drinking. I know what you mean about the ID. I set up a new one to post on this board too, but after a while I couldn't be bothered to keep logging in and out so just use this one all the time. If people on other boards have a problem with it then that's their issue not mine :p

    Happy Monday!
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