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The Giving Up/Cutting Down Alcohol Support Thread - Numero 9!

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  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    jo1972 wrote: »
    stripy is darn sarf!!!! :D:D:D

    woohooo!!! :j :j :j

    *Waves to Doc*

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    jo1972 wrote: »
    stripy is darn sarf!!!! :D:D:D

    Standby to repel boarders! :p :rotfl:

    SOS, sorry job didn't work out but you know what is best for you *hugs*

    Am determined to be there on Sunday so keep your paws crossed :)
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • graemecarter
    graemecarter Posts: 1,205 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Thanks honeybear :-)

    I think today has been the deicder, iv had the day off and had alcohol through the day which iv never done before. I feel rubbish and really embarrassed and dont even know why im drink cuz i dont want to.

    Alcohol is a drug.
    Some people get addicted to drugs, and cannot stop taking them even if they want to.
    That was me - I promised myself I would not drink, but then ended up drinking. It was only when I admitted to myself I was addicted that I could start getting better. I am not alone - there are many people addict ted to drink.
    I cannot be cured of my alcoholism, but for today, I don't have the main symptom of alcoholism which is relapse.
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    honeybear wrote: »

    Am determined to be there on Sunday so keep your paws crossed :)

    You say that as if there is some doubt........ :cool: :D

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Lurkio wrote: »
    You say that as if there is some doubt........ :cool: :D

    I've been ill, horrible boy! :p
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • Just popping in to say AF again tonight so 9 for me please Shaggy.

    Hope you are all ok and you feel well enough on Sunday HB.
    Sorry to be missing it but I am off up north to visit a Uni with DS2.

    DB x
  • maman
    maman Posts: 30,185 Forumite
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    jo1972 wrote: »



    Off home now, have a wonderful AF evening all, if not AF, please drink sensibly :cool:

    xx

    Get you!:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    (immediately apologises for frivolity)
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    honeybear wrote: »
    I've been ill, horrible boy! :p

    but the world and his spoause know that the best thing for illness (ANY illness, mind...) is a curry :)

    There is no excuse ;)

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • maman
    maman Posts: 30,185 Forumite
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    Hello everyone,


    I seem to have developed a habit and am easily drinking a bottle of wine a night with no hangover or feeling drunk at all..in fact i have on occassion gone and bought another bottle as i feel fine...this worries me alot.

    I really wouldnt like to cut out alcohol all together but would like to be able to only drink it on a friday night or now and again on social occassions. Has anyone else successfully managed this?

    xxx

    Hi FF, your situation almost mirrors mine exactly when I started on here in January 2009. I dread to think about days I drove into work when I must have been over the limit having had a bottle+ only hours before. However, I have been adamant (despite much disagreement from some on the thread:p) that I was drinking from habit rather than alcoholism and I only wanted to cut down.

    Using targets/challenges on here (and some will power) I cut down from every day drinking to between a third and a half a month AF. Briefly I try not to drink Monday to Thursday but will relax that for a social occasion midweek. Calories were my main motivation:o However, while I didn't put on weight I didn't really lose much either. Recently (4 weeks ago) I started on Slimming World programme. I have worked out that I can have 3 bottles of wine a week on this with a tiny bit extra to waste on other treats. Fortunately I'm not a fan of chocolate or cake.

    Briefly that's it. I'm not the only cutter-down on here (I think). Talk more later.
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Lurkio wrote: »
    but the world and his spoause know that the best thing for illness (ANY illness, mind...) is a curry :)

    There is no excuse ;)

    Spoause? Don't think I have one of those... :p
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
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