Life after bankruptcy?

ani_26

If you don't know me by now. Now there's a song.


I'm like marmite. You either love me or hate me, ( mostly hate.)


The value range?


But you always get exactly what is written on the tin. There's no side to me, and i am what i am, and it's time i started accepting myself, and not letting others dictate to me how and what i should be. I've spent most of my life trying to conform to what others expect of me, what soceity expects, to be like everyone else, and i'm not. I've no wish to be like everyone else, to "belong." I've more strength of spirit, than that.

I'm a truly free spirit.


Untameable.


Incomprehensible.



Angry? :rotfl:



Edited to say, actually i've spent most of my life thinking i should conform, or you can only be part of soceity if you conform. Not trying to conform. Never.

beanielou

I'm certainly angry about the current state of play of the benefits sysyem & the effect it has on people's lives.

ani_26

beanielou wrote: »

I'm certainly angry about the current state of play of the benefits sysyem & the effect it has on people's lives.

Are you having problems, beanie? I noticed you following. Need any, by now, (expert) help?

kerri_gt

Hey ani, just dropping in to give you a wave. Well done for helping out your neighbour x

I guess your question of live to work or work to live also depends on how much you enjoy your job / work. If it's your own company and you're doing what you love, then living to work isn't such a bad thing. However, if you're scrubbing toilets for 12hrs a day (unless you happen to love scrubbing the porcelain) in order to simply eat then that's a different matter. Me, reckon I fall somewhere in between - not sure I'm doing my dream job if I'd been asked when I was 16, but I do really enjoy what I do and the people I work with, it pretty much enables me to have a decent standard of living (be better once some things are paid off) and I don't want to work anywhere else so I don't mind putting in extra time above and beyond.

beanielou

Your PM box is full ani.

Judampre

Hi Ani I've just rejoined the world following a stroke. Its good to see you're still around and sounding a bit more positive

ani_26

kerri_gt wrote: »

Hey ani, just dropping in to give you a wave.

Hi kerri, good to see you..:hello:

However, if you're scrubbing toilets for 12hrs a day (unless you happen to love scrubbing the porcelain).

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Finally

ani_26

Judampre wrote: »

Hi Ani I've just rejoined the world following a stroke. Its good to see you're still around and sounding a bit more positive

Hi Judampre. :hello: Thanks.

I still have my moments, but i'm getting a fair bit of "real life" support now, which i suppose makes a huge difference.


Were you badly affected by your stroke?


Pop in anytime. xx

Aesop

Love those pics ani. You are getting very good.witj the.computer.

ani_26

Aesop wrote: »

Love those pics ani. You are getting very good.witj the.computer.

I am going to help choose a computer for the group, tomorrow. I also wrote the majority of a foundation letter for applications for funding, (since it's self funding.)


Still more active in helping others than myself?


Someone suggested i take it easy, be kind to myself and give myself a treat, today. I might spend a whole £2.50 on f & c, tomorrow. :rotfl:



Yes. I shall definitely spend a whole 2 squid on f & c tomorrow.