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Weekly Flylady Thread 13th September 2010

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  • Morning all.
    Not strictly flying (but it is the weekend)

    Does it really make any difference which supermarket you use?
    My nearest (by car) are Mr S and Mr A I normally use Mr S (don't like A - too big and confusing)
    Other direction I have a Lidl - again by car. As I am shopping for one have never felt I could justify the cost of a delivery.

    My impression is that comparing prices is a bit swings and roundabouts - plus you spend on petrol.

    All comments/advice welcome.
  • AnW'sMum
    AnW'sMum Posts: 4,416 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Morning all

    Still catching up on the thread!
    Hellyboo wrote: »
    Thank you everyone, what a sh!tty day I've had, but I've calmed down now. When I went back to the doctors of course they were running behind and bub was SCREAMING the place down. I was standing in the foyer trying to rock him so he didn't deafen everyone ink the waiting room when my midwife who looked after me when I was pregnant came out. All she did was ask if I was ok and I burst into tears, so she took Jake from me, took me to her office and I told her what happened. Before I'd even told her who it was she knew who I was talking about and was really angry. She tried to get Jake breastfeeding once we were home and she told me she knew he'd never be a breast feeder. She said my boobs are too big :o and he'd have to work really hard and it would have been so stressful for both of us, especially as I already have a toddler and OH went back to work the day after bub and I came back from the hospital. He did get colostrum in his feeding tube. I really wish I could have breast fed him, it would have saved a lot of faff with formula, colic drops, sterilising and the damn breast pump. But anyway the midwife calmed me down, said she would "have a word" with the HV in question and told me how to complain if I want to. And she told me to carry on exactly as I was doing because Jake is perfect :) The little fatty weighs 13lbs!

    Anyway, thanks again everyone, this thread is a lifeline. Will get flying again tomorrow when DS1 is at school. Need to blitz LR and upstairs. Need to (ironically) sterilise bottles and feed bub before I can go to bed but I can feel my eyes closing...

    Night night

    Hx

    So pleased to see your MW is supportive. I would urge you to put the complaint in writing as it is the only way to make sure this is on record. If you don't feel you have the time or energy then get a friend to help you and demand a written reply on what action has been taken.

    OK we are off to Sunday School, of cafe as it is going to be called (a mnemonic you know ;) )

    Later Gators x
    Official Mascot and Chief Cheerleader for the 'Mortgage Free in Three' Gang :D
  • xx_Jo_xx
    xx_Jo_xx Posts: 2,858 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    have listed two books on Read-it-swap-it and its still not raining so should really get ready for football xx
    :)Sometimes lurking, sometimes posting, but always flying:)
    You are supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake! - The Holiday
    DFW :idea: August 2013... Debt total £15,475.56 - Jan 15 £11,738.66 - DEBT FREE by 2015
    Feb GC £48.02/£250 (£201.98)
    :D I will declutter my house and debts :D
  • xx_Jo_xx
    xx_Jo_xx Posts: 2,858 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    Crafty, Im not sure about the 'where to shop' scenario.

    S and A are about 5 miles in one direction and Lidl/Aldi are about 5 miles in the other direction.

    I find S more expensive but fresh fruit and veg are much nicer and last longer, but I always find that meat from Mr S goes off long before the Use By date.

    Fruit and Veg and Meat from Aldi/Lidl are all good, but have a much smaller selection and dont sell everything we want, so if I go there for a shop, I end up going to another shop anyway!

    I havent yet sussed out the best way to manage it for us.

    During the week, Sains and Tesco both do delivery for £3.50 and you can often find a code to get it for free.
    Dont feel bad about having shopping delivered - Home Shopping in this country through supermarkets started in London through a Tesco store who took telephone orders for the eldery in the winter. They rolled it out to other retirement complexes etc throughout the years and we ended up with a national home shopping/delivery program with Sainsbugs follwed and then Asda.

    There are thousands of people in the UK who have bread and milk delievered and thats it!!! :) xx
    :)Sometimes lurking, sometimes posting, but always flying:)
    You are supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake! - The Holiday
    DFW :idea: August 2013... Debt total £15,475.56 - Jan 15 £11,738.66 - DEBT FREE by 2015
    Feb GC £48.02/£250 (£201.98)
    :D I will declutter my house and debts :D
  • wilf55
    wilf55 Posts: 3,102 Forumite
    [QUOTE=toochoosey;36728777]Whats up Wilf? (((hugs))) xx[/QUOTE]

    dont know really still feeling down they have changed oh depression tabs and its rubbing off on everyone else
    full of a cold and house is getting me down

    thanks for asking
    Save 12k in 2015 member 187. £62.50/6000
  • wilf55
    wilf55 Posts: 3,102 Forumite
    today have washed up
    wm on
    caught up on tv progs that i taped


    ds has golf
    need to do lots of ebaying
    sort something for tea - havent got a clue what! - might do roast beef that i have in freezer but there isnt enough for everyone
    Save 12k in 2015 member 187. £62.50/6000
  • lil_me
    lil_me Posts: 13,186 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hello

    Been all busy again so not had chance to pop in since.

    Lamewolf we are going to the one in Berkshire, Uk wolf conservation trust so staying down there to do Lego Land too :)

    Out all day yesterday with the Cubs doing transport to activities for camp so Ds2 stayed last night & I collect him at 3 then off out with friends for dinner (so I hope he doesn't stink!) that all said means I need to fly this morning/early afternoon. Must get school shirts clean and dry, we do have clear skies so far which will help

    Ok list

    Laundry 2 washed 3 dry
    Clear bin bag of rubbish from LR/DR
    Sort some paperwork
    Empty DW and refill
    Clear kitchen benches
    Clean benches, doors and floor
    One day I might be more organised...........:confused:
    GC: £200
    Slinkies target 2018 - another 70lb off (half way to what the NHS says) so far 25lb
  • crawls in.....still full of cold, looks like will try and get a Dr's appt tomorrow...really could do with a little bit of flying today but really don't feel up to it. Might have a go a making some soup after another another cuppa and a shower

    Is very grey and miserable drizzle here glad did some WM yesterday and is finishing off drying inside - might see if I can manage some HHI later as only have enough for HHI thankfully
    final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333
    Proud to be Dealing With my Debt
    DFW Nerd 1154 Long Haul 155
  • Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining area
    Level One
    Sweep and mop the floor
    Clear and wipe worksurfaces
    Shine the sink!
    Level Two
    Wipe fronts of appliances and units
    Descale the kettle!
    Wipe table and replace cloth if needed
    Level Three
    Clear and wipe window sills
    Clean out the oven thoroughly..
    Quick s&s of the fridge

    Extras
    1. Wipe skirtings
    2. wash windows
    3. Thoroughly clean out 1 cupboard
    Wednesday ~ Living/family areas.
    Level One
    Clear and vacuum floors
    Clear and vacuum sofas.. wipe away any sticky grubby marks
    Level Two
    Dust and deweb.. shine any glass/mirrors/electricals
    Binbag dance
    Level Three
    Vacuum under furniture you can move safely
    Check windows and doors for draughts and sort them before winter bites your bum!

    Extras
    1. HHI
    2. Sort out one drawer/cupboard
    3. Sort a pile of stuff you have been ignoring for an age!
    Thursday - Bathroom and [STRIKE]Study/Pc Area[/STRIKE]
    Level One
    Clean floors in these rooms
    Level Two
    Clean baths/shower, toilets, don't forget under the rim! and sinks
    Level Three
    Wipe down tiles in bathroom


    Extras
    • Wipe the paintwork in these rooms
    • Clean the radiators in these rooms
    • Wash the windows in these rooms.. and shine the mirrors
    • HHI... a bit more gone!

    Things to do
    Make soup
    take photos for ebay
    Tidy out spare room wardrobe/chuck/bin/charity/ebay as appropriate
    Take binbags to charity shop
    Put container in back of car
    Start to empty out shed
    Buy wedding wrapping paper and dark red flowered paper/wetwipes/babywipes lg pack/dove for men 241 don't forget

    Soup and HHI to complete in a bit and wipe off the list when complete :D
    final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333
    Proud to be Dealing With my Debt
    DFW Nerd 1154 Long Haul 155
  • rach wrote: »
    Can I ask for 'baby stay put' vibes please?

    Prayers coming your way. Also for a bit more pain-free time.
    Does it really make any difference which supermarket you use?

    I honestly think its how you shop, not where - obv unless you shop in m and s for food.
    Unless you buy exactly the same each week, its hard to compare.
    Even waitrose, I think, is only more expensive because I pick up more yummy things because there are more there IYSWIM.

    So...depends how you shop/what you buy.

    Triker hugs. And remember...

    "As they sow, so shall they reap".

    oops! flying wise doing sitting room, dining room, washing and ironing today.
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
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