MSE Parents Club Part 14

cazscoob

WM i would have replied yes dear once you have made dinner, organised kids for bed, bedded them and tidied up. After that ill be all yours

A mucky Stokke!!! thats awful! mine is cleaned at least twice a day PMSl! Hope your little monster behaves soon, erin has stopped moaning and is playing with her pram, she is telling me to shhhhhh as her baby is sleeping!

CAFCGirl

ok he's quiet.... quick mad dash to get everything done..............

he's only quiet coz hes got hiccups..... I am no praying for elongated period of hiccups so I can go to the loo....

KK Am so sorry hun, Nooby hubby threw out my cravendale bottle i was saving..... Shall raid the rubbish bin later You shall have your teapot!

ok must go to toilet before i wet myself..... maybe this is what adult nappies were really invented for, whingey babies who let their mummas phish in peace!

workinmummy

KikKat I pm'd you a code did you get it?

Krystaltips

cazscoob wrote: »

A mucky Stokke!!! thats awful! mine is cleaned at least twice a day PMSl! Hope your little monster behaves soon, erin has stopped moaning and is playing with her pram, she is telling me to shhhhhh as her baby is sleeping!

I hope she behaves soon, she's starting to drive me to distraction!

GISI, I've got one for you... My friend from church dropped some clothes off for C the other day, she knocked the door at 1:30pm and I was still in my pyjamas, Caitlyn had trashed the place and I was halfway through folding 3 loads of washing that were all piled on the sofa so she had nowhere to sit!

My husband doesn't do many nappies and he's never done a night feed... He didn't have the baby much when she was tiny because she relied on me too much for milk... HOWEVER... He does his fair share of entertaining, he will now take her out in the pushchair on his own, he will have her so I can go somewhere and he will help with anything I ask him to help with... He sometimes tries the "but you're so much better at it than me" route but I won't accept that... It's just as much my responsibilty to make sure he's helping as it is his... If I did everything and didn't ask for help then I would just start simmering with resentment and that wouldn't make for a healthy relationship...

3onitsway

BeenieCat wrote: »

The letter says if i believe otherwise i can ring them, but that i must have proof. Well how can i prove it? Surely they should be forcing him to prove he's NOT in work :mad:

Is it at all possible that his work have lied to them? Because he's pretty friendly with his boss. I'm guessing that wouldn't be legal at all though, and that they wouldn't risk that.

They'll get their info from the Inland Revenue - but Inland Rev are normally about 3 months behind.

His employers could lie - but can be taken to court and fined if they do. The other common one is working for a pal cash in hand so the Inland Revenue don't know.

BeenieCat wrote: »

Well. I stand corrected. He has indeed lost his job.

Funny how the CSA take days to announce i'm getting eff all, after being "unable to contact him" for the past 9 months.

The arrears will stay there forever. I must have a few thousand in arrears now, I see it as a little savings fund which i'll get if my ex ever decides to sort out his life.


L's room is done. Three bin bags outside ready for the tip, and a box of clothes ready to sort/ebay/charity shop.

Evansangel

I forgot to say, i got my scan date through today (20th October)

But im annoyed as they have wrote my name as 'Miss Valamtine'

It annoys me because they always write my name wrong (even my old surname), its as if they see my surname and think 'That must be wrong, i'll change it to what i think it is'

Valentines day is a very public holiday, my name is spelt exactly the same as that! And i wrote on the form im married, so not a 'Miss'.

CAFCGirl

write them a complaint EA..... the likelihood will be "its input wrong on the system".... and i cant think of anywhere that wont use a mail merge type set up for their letters.....

Landen has fallen asleep whilst i was having a pee..... just to make me look like a goober........ its like HAHAHA Mumma, i fell asleep all by myself so your entire day has been wasted, because I can do it, I just didnt want to on your terms MUHAHAAHAHA!

Opps no spoke too soon hes now crying in his slumber.... i best go wee again.....

I raided my bins, next door was out and asked me if i'd lost something, so with my head in the outside store cupboard i shout back "no found it" whilst waving my empty milk bottle behind me.....
Then cheeky mare asks me if Landen is ok because "sounds like he's been crying quite a lot today".............. bint!

redstararnie76

Arrrgh! Apologies, but.... rant alert! :mad:
Just got back from collecting A from school and doing some shopping and I've had a letter from work.
I arranged to see my new boss just over 2 weeks ago to discuss the fact that I would like to change my hours when I come back. It's not a major change - I'm still going to be full-time, but I've asked if it would be possible for me to start work slightly earlier and only take a half an hour lunch break so that I can finish at 3.45pm to collect my daughter from school. She said that she couldn't see a problem, but she couldn't agree anything without it going to her boss and HR, so could I put my request in writing. I emailed her (as she asked) the next day, emphasising that I can still work all and any overtime as required.
Anyway, other than acknowledging it, I haven't heard anything for 2 weeks. I was expecting a yay or nay response, but instead I've had a letter from HR, 'inviting' me to a meeting at the end of next week to discuss my request with him, my new manager and the Director of our area. I can bring a union representative - lovely! Great, now I'm going to have to worry about that all week now, and they can be right !!!!!! too.... really dreading this, I already feel sick.:(

Oh, and still no word from the bank despite them saying that they'd ring today. :mad:

My_Fathers_Daughter

Evansangel wrote: »

I forgot to say, i got my scan date through today (20th October)

But im annoyed as they have wrote my name as 'Miss Valamtine'

It annoys me because they always write my name wrong (even my old surname), its as if they see my surname and think 'That must be wrong, i'll change it to what i think it is'

Valentines day is a very public holiday, my name is spelt exactly the same as that! And i wrote on the form im married, so not a 'Miss'.

:mad: I hate it when people change the spelling of your name for you - I used to get it all the time because my maiden name was quite popular in Stoke, but spelled differently to how mine was. People just used to change it all the time :mad:

Although yours could just be a typo - the N and the M are very close together

I have no worries now I am a Smith!!! But I do hate being called Miss or even worse Ms :mad::mad::mad:

aless02

SS, I got my Keynoir voucher through today, so yours should arrive soon.

Hugs for those with crappy DHs. I can't complain about mine - he's out mowing the lawn right now! :rotfl:

Finn can now go from lying down to sitting! He's just done it twice before I twigged what was going on. Now if only he'd stop being infatuated with the steps down into the kitchen .

Lol Becles, glad you got comfy shoes. DH said something similar when he got fitted for running shoes - he said it's amazing how much lighter you feel!

Who was asking about MFD testing recipes? She's doing a lot of stuff from Weezl's Cheap Family Recipes project . There's a new Crimbo planner with loads of yummy stuff if people are interested.

Okay, off to sort dinner for Troublemaker.