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Im angry with my neighbour

dizzybuff
dizzybuff Posts: 1,512 Forumite
edited 27 August 2010 at 8:47AM in Praise, vent & warnings
He and his GF are alchoholics , both are on disibility because of this and other medical conditions ( epilepsy , heart condition) They are well known to the police for their little tiffs and she regulally looses control of her bladder on our dorrsteps shes that bladdered .


Yet they can still get a taxi shopping or walk round the off licence 3 times a day , they cant be that ill.

Other than moving ( house prices not helping) and complaining to the housing association that own the house ( that one worked .. not ) nothing is working to get them out .

I have a toddler there atre 4 other toddlers on the street of 20 houses , 2 of us are pregnant , me and a neighbour, we are at the end of our tether .

Any advise would be nice :(:(
ONE HOUSE , DS+ DD Missymoo Living a day at a time and getting through this mess you have created.
One day life will have no choice but to be nice to me :rotfl:
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  • keep a diary and report them to the council and housing association

    have you tried talking to them though?
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    dizzy, what particularly do they do that bothers you? I know you mention the weeing on the doorstep (not nice obviously) but what else do they do? You've not given any specific details other than to say they're alcoholics and don't work (which in itself doesn't necessarily make them nuisance neighbours).
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • dizzybuff
    dizzybuff Posts: 1,512 Forumite
    edited 27 August 2010 at 8:46AM
    dizzy, what particularly do they do that bothers you? I know you mention the weeing on the doorstep (not nice obviously) but what else do they do? You've not given any specific details other than to say they're alcoholics and don't work (which in itself doesn't necessarily make them nuisance neighbours).


    She comes out of the house practicly naked , shouting obsenities at him , he comes out takes her in , she comes out again , he hits her ( inside only) police turn up ambulance turns up. His neighbour has been in his yard and seen them making love up the window at the back of the house.

    I have kept a diary and given it to the housing association, next step I think will be writing to the council. Its more the police presence , and the abusive language they throw at each other. Talking to them is a no no as they are constantly drunk and I dont know what responce I will get .

    He has just been on remand in prison because he assaulted her , she didnt give evidence and they let him out . Then within 5 hours it all started again. Its getting to a point when I wonder which oneof them is going to come out in a body bag .
    ONE HOUSE , DS+ DD Missymoo Living a day at a time and getting through this mess you have created.
    One day life will have no choice but to be nice to me :rotfl:
  • hethmar
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  • PopeSock
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    edited 27 August 2010 at 5:17PM
    I'd edit the bit about ... you never know who's reading these boards.
  • Mupette
    Mupette Posts: 4,599 Forumite
    unless she is peeing on your doorstep... then i'd keep out of their business.
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  • DCFC79
    DCFC79 Posts: 40,641 Forumite
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    Mupette wrote: »
    unless she is peeing on your doorstep... then i'd keep out of their business.

    the OP says the neighbour relieves themselves on the OP's doorstep
  • they're alcoholics and don't work (which in itself doesn't necessarily make them nuisance neighbours).

    Let's see, they're scrounging parasites !

    Welcome to Great Britain !
  • PopeSock wrote: »
    I'd edit the bit about bombing their house out, you never know who's reading these boards.

    I'd take a reality check If I were you! Do you think MI5/6 target MSE with the help from the CIA and FBI! :rotfl:
  • *zippy*
    *zippy* Posts: 2,979 Forumite
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    We had a similar problem a few years ago, what worked for us was everytime there was an incident ring the HA and complain and get them to log it, maybe a few of you can do it.
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