Trying for a Baby Part Six

QQuaver

Greener_Grass wrote: »

How long is a bit of string? Last cycle was 42 days, the one before that was 35 but i've been on metformin for two and a bit weeks now so who knows what this one will be! I'll start tommorrow anyway!!

My friend is bringing round her 11 week old for me to look after the afternoon :eek: I'm nervous and excited all at once :rotfl:

Hope Metformin is working, I know it can take a while, but for OPKs, it's better early than late:D

Aww... 11week old baby:happyhear Is it a boy or a girl?

angelcake71

Perdi wrote: »

*hugs* Primmer. I'm sorry it didn't work out the way you hoped.
I hope you both have a wonderful wedding day, and a long and happy future together no matter what happens.



We strated out DTD every couple of days but had to stop as I got recurring UTIs, which were in turn causing me to regress with my vaginismus. The CBFM was a godsend in that respect, took so much stress off me worrying about DTD at the right times and not as much I triggered another infection. Been antibiotic-free for a month and a half now thank goodness! So we're back to around once a week, not holding out much hope.

Ah well, thanks for the hugs ladies, my day got a little better, I spent the afternoon documenting processes and making flow charts (geeky joy!), went to the gym, and now settling down for some Britain's Next Top Model action before bed. See you all tomorrow x

Ahh I`m sorry hun..that must have been really painful..glad you are finally off the antiobiotics... Good luck hun xx

angelcake71

pinkpig08 wrote: »

deborah - sorry I did see your post last night but then had a row with DH so went to bed

No AF for me yet. Sorry ladies I did a sneaky test yesterday morning - BFN. From what I've read on the internet it can be 6 weeks until you get AF after mc, so that is in another 2 weeks. Does that mean that I would ovulate now? It's really confusing!

Pink pig you may just have tested too early... as you arent due til 15th.. I say this..cos it happened to me when I tested the day before I was due I got a BFN.. however 2 days AFTER my due date I got my BFP.. so dont give up yet.. leave it til 17th at least and if no AF test again.. Good Luck xx

pinkpig08

Thanks angelcake, I was due yesterday. I put 15th to give it 2 days. Did another this morning, still BFN. BUT - my CBFM and sticks came this morning! So now I'm hoping AF will hurry up!

pawpurrs

Now ladies, sounds like a lot of you are feeling down, so big hugglies to all. :grouphug:

As for primer (was it, cant see back) your not too old hun, if you really want a baba dont give up hun, Im old too.

phunkles

it might be very long winded and if anyone I know from real life reads it and doesnt know my user name theyll probably be able to guess its me BUT
I took a job last year on a temporary when required basis - this has worked perfectly for me have been able to balance work and commuting up and down the country fairly well and havent had a stress head on - was told when taking the job (before me and oh started this chapter) that if full time permanent hours come up then they would be mine - they dont want to lose me Im good at my job etc etc
roll on a year and im happyish me and oh are in a good place (leaving it to fate - planning on moving sooner rather than later)
today I find out fulltime hours has come up. But its not being offered to me its going external and there will be interviews (my boss hasnt even told me that its available yet but it definately is)
So my decision is based on a number of things
- do I feel put out of joint as I havent even been told its there when it previously was said to be mine
- apply for it (and then face the situations going in my head including not seeing oh for 6week stretchs - at the mo its every2 or less - weekends arent doable due to his job - do it for a couple of months then leave to move away)
- decide to wait for my boss to tell me
- or finally which is what Im doing now is being a bit angry I havent been told and am currently having a massive cleanout cause Ive been putting it off and well I might as well just move to be with oh without having a job cause my workplace were obviously just blowing smoke up my !!!

sorry for the rant actually feeling really miserable about it all

QQuaver

phunkles wrote: »

sorry for the rant actually feeling really miserable about it all

Oh dear:( I can't advise you on this, but (((hugs))).

Charlie1978

Dunno about advice but were it me i'd look for another job.

And then when I found one i'd tell them to shove it. Or if you can afford it tell em to shove it and go and be with OH!

You might want to make sure you're not being offered it first though!

I can understand why you're annoyed! I would be too! Loyalty should count for a lot!

pinkpig08

What she said ^^^^

deborahmcgeachy

QQuaver wrote: »

Team Sticky!

CD8 Quaver - Preseed virgin
CD9 Madbird - Pressed virgin
CD10 GG - Test went OK
CD11 Deb - Test went OK

Not to put to fine a point on it but before insertion you really will be a ahem.... a pre-seed virgin!!! :eek:

Charlie1978 wrote: »

Dunno about advice but were it me i'd look for another job.

And then when I found one i'd tell them to shove it. Or if you can afford it tell em to shove it and go and be with OH!

You might want to make sure you're not being offered it first though!

I can understand why you're annoyed! I would be too! Loyalty should count for a lot!

I agree with you Charlie, I had the same situation a few years back, I was encouraged to find another job then I found out my manager was married to the big wigs son and had recommended that I didn't get the full time permanent post!!! :eek: