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ex girlfriend has got to leave

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  • Scarlett1
    Scarlett1 Posts: 6,887 Forumite
    :eek: oh my goodness :o

    I hope the woman concerned has successful treatment and beats the illness xx

    as for the guy :mad:
  • JAMIEDODGER
    JAMIEDODGER Posts: 4,339 Forumite
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    thanks scarlett!

    yes she is receiving treatment atm, and hopefully this will have a positive result, she has now had her operation and is slowly recovering:) she has people with her that love her to bits as she always smiles even though she is ill.
    November NSD's - 7
  • davsidipp
    davsidipp Posts: 11,514 Forumite
    good luck to her and im sorry i misjudged the situation what a worm.
    Before you point fingers,make sure your hands are clean !;)
  • LewisC_2
    LewisC_2 Posts: 401 Forumite
    Now who's judging? This is an internet forum - who's to say JAMIEDODGER actually knows the OP? He hasn't been back to state his side of the story, and by being so judgmental about someone who you know only by username, you're all being just as bad.
    No longer visiting these forums.
  • JAMIEDODGER
    JAMIEDODGER Posts: 4,339 Forumite
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    thanks for your comment lewisc but unfortunately, i was his best friend for 2 years so i think i know him pretty well dont you
    plus i wasnt judging i was stating pure fact
    November NSD's - 7
  • LewisC_2
    LewisC_2 Posts: 401 Forumite
    Hi jamiedodger - It wasn't aimed at you. I was purely stating to the others that they were very quick to turn the other cheek when someone came on claiming to be his best friend with all the "juicy secrets".

    I'm not saying I don't believe you, but this is an internet forum and I think the others should have been a little more discerning. After all, I could come on here claiming to be Mickey Mouse :)
    No longer visiting these forums.
  • kathyd_2
    kathyd_2 Posts: 529 Forumite
    I know what you're saying Lewis, anyone could come on here claiming they know Jamiedodger and that she is a bit of a wind up merchant (def not a dig Jamie - just trying to make a point :D ) but as I guess wanttosave hasn't been back to defend himself it might be safe to assume Jamie does know him. Who knows? Not me ;)
  • Scarlett1
    Scarlett1 Posts: 6,887 Forumite
    LewisC wrote:
    Hi jamiedodger - It wasn't aimed at you. I was purely stating to the others that they were very quick to turn the other cheek when someone came on claiming to be his best friend with all the "juicy secrets".

    I'm not saying I don't believe you, but this is an internet forum and I think the others should have been a little more discerning. After all, I could come on here claiming to be Mickey Mouse :)
    or a troll
  • Gingham_Ribbon
    Gingham_Ribbon Posts: 31,519 Forumite
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    Whether or not Jamie Dodger is telling the truth is not important imo. What IS important is that hopefully this should be a lesson to anyone who was keen to jump in with advice to kick her out and change the locks. I think it's important, especially in an anonymous place like this, to remember that there are 2 sides to every story.
    May all your dots fall silently to the ground.
  • JAMIEDODGER
    JAMIEDODGER Posts: 4,339 Forumite
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    thanks gingham, scarlett and all.

    maybe i shouldnt have used the forum to say what i said, however,my friend does not even come on MSE and i felt someone should defend her. wanttosave may not have actually LIED,however he neglected to give you the whole story and as gingham said, and if you read above, everyone was rather keen on helping him with advice on how to kick her out!

    as i already said,i WAS wanttosaves best friend for 2 years and if anyone checks out MY post history they will see that wanttosave has posted quite a few times on various threads of mine, so i am telling the truth. check out my birthday cake thread for more evidence lol

    also,just a note kathyd......i am FEMALE,dont let the EM avatar decieve you:)

    as far as i am aware, want to save doesnt know i have posted on this thread, however we were still friends when he originally started this thread and funnily enough he never mentioned it...i wonder why!

    I dont know where he is, havent spoken to him in months and have no intention of doing so. as far as i know,he is busy planning his wedding and weeklong stag do in amsterdam (say no more lol)

    i just wanted to give miss x side of the story.

    jamie
    November NSD's - 7
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