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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread Part 8!

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  • Hi all, I've just read my own post and thought how [EMAIL="b@@@@y"]b@@@@y[/EMAIL] patronising. Sorry for any offence folks.
    Of all the things I've lost, I miss my mind the most.
    (Mark Twain)
  • jo1972
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    randomname wrote: »
    Anyway I vow to be sober today, maybe a 24 hour challenge is needed to concentrate the mind.

    Are you offering to do one ;)
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • jo1972
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    randomname wrote: »
    Hi all, I've just read my own post and thought how b@@@@y patronising. Sorry for any offence folks.

    I can't see where you were patronising *confused* :) xx
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • Yes Jo.

    let today be a 24 hour challenge

    Anyone wanting to join in, just say so throughout the day.
    Of all the things I've lost, I miss my mind the most.
    (Mark Twain)
  • SimIsOnTheUp
    SimIsOnTheUp Posts: 1,370 Forumite
    Hiya guys,

    I just had a craving for a drink. Out of nowhere.

    Madness, when I look at how I've gone a week without one, at how ill I felt all this last week, at how much debt I'm in (and then some after the £500 loan last Saturday) and at how much I've achieved yesterday.

    But then that's the irrationality of addiction I suppose!

    It's passing just getting it down on here.

    Jo, randomname and co - do you get these out of the blue cravings that really scare you, coming from nowhere sometimes? If so, how do you fight them?

    Thanks,

    Sim x
  • SimIsOnTheUp
    SimIsOnTheUp Posts: 1,370 Forumite
    PS - I think a lot of it, is realising how lonely I am, how unhappy I am in my relationship with my Girlfriend, and how my Life is not how I want it.

    Sounds a bit wussy that!

    Sim x
  • jo1972
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    RN, I'm in :j thanks for having the idea ;) :T

    Sim, I get it every afternoon, without fail! I usually drink on it though :undecided I wish I could help you, probably someone like Sparkles, 365, MP to name a few could help?

    ETA: I guess it's all about keeping busy?
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • SimIsOnTheUp
    SimIsOnTheUp Posts: 1,370 Forumite
    Contentment, the Love of a good Woman, and a well paid, rewarding career are what I want.

    Not asking for much..

    :)
  • SimIsOnTheUp
    SimIsOnTheUp Posts: 1,370 Forumite
    edited 6 August 2010 at 10:16AM
    Jo - It's starting to hit me more regularly. Hence I really need to crack it.

    I feel for you getting the cravings every day. They really are b*ggers aren't they?

    I think the crux of it yesterday, was realising just how useless and wishy washy my local Substance Misuse Team were - are!

    You're spot on about keeping busy.

    I'm off to finish the tiling in my bathroom!

    Have a great day at work Jo.

    Sim x
  • Contentment, the Love of a good Woman, and a well paid, rewarding career are what I want.

    Not asking for much..

    :)

    I had all those and lost them (and a lot more) through alcohol.


    .
    Living Sober.

    Some methods A.A. members have used for not drinking.

    "A simple book for complicated people"
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