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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread Part 8!

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  • Marru wrote: »
    Pretty please :)

    Ummm - remember I said I am going to stop job hunting and said that I will stay put and not move? Ummm - I have interview next week about 110 miles away, so if I get the job it means moving. I couldn't have written more perfect job description for myself, it is just question of: if they like me, if I like them, if the location is going to work, if they will support my studies...


    :T:T:T

    Sounds good Marru. Would it worry you having to move?
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Oh! Thought it was tonight but I suppose a Friday would make more sense.

    How's Piglet? :)
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
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    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Marru wrote: »
    Yup :) commuting distance

    Woop woop!

    Best of luck with the interview :D
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  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    right as much as I'd love to catch up, I just saw the word eastenders on a post on the previous page and did not see tuesdays one so can't watch tonights and won't till this time tomorrow so looks as though I'm bowing out of here till tomorrow night!!

    RN I've completed your challenge, thanks for doing it :D

    Chow!!
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Ok, this is a a weird one, but if alcohol was totally taken out of existence as of tomorrow (don't ask me how!) would you be fine or turn to a different substance?
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    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • Marru
    Marru Posts: 4,126 Forumite
    Miss_Piggy wrote: »
    :T:T:T

    Sounds good Marru. Would it worry you having to move?

    It is going to be a bit of a mere as my decluttering hasn't been exactly efficient :o Already looking at good school guide and rental properties :) Also it would be a full time job so bit worried about having energy for studying

    Glad that Piglet had nice first day. :)
    "Everything will be alright in the end. If it's not alright, it's not the end."

  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Hmmm...am still suspicious you're all out partying somewhere... *does Paddington Bear hard stare read round the thread* ;)

    Anyway, I'm going to bed :)

    Nite nite, my lovelies smiley-sleep017.gif
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  • Marru
    Marru Posts: 4,126 Forumite
    Multitasking - watching BBC2 and trying to figure out how to get my bills paid :( just realised that I don't have enough to cover couple of outstanding cheques :eek: at least rent is paid.
    "Everything will be alright in the end. If it's not alright, it's not the end."

  • Evening All :p
    5 AF for me today
    Am Chuffed!!

    Sim - Well done for staying so strong and positive, sometimes moving forward can be scary, but that's a good thing. I once read that if it feels safe and fuzzy, it's probably the alcoholic way, and if it seems scary and huge and emotional, then it's probably the sober way!

    HB - Having tried most other substances during my youth (there are a few new ones around now!), I always found alcohol was the only one to hit my buttons. I will admit coming close to being addicted to one drug, but was able to pull myself away. Deep down I had the image in my head of the stereotypical drug addict and refused to let myself ever get like that. Alcohol is socially acceptable, illegal drugs aren't. Drinking too much takes little or no effort, buying drugs is more difficult and the risks appear greater (prison, etc). I think if alcohol disappeared tomorrow, I personally would be a lot happier(!!!!) although I realise 99% of people wouldn't, and I would hate to be a killjoy!!

    Hugs to all that need them, I'm off to make another ton of chicken soup!!

    S xxxx

    Debt as at Feb 14: £2272.40
    DFW Nerd no. 1024
    June Overhaul #26
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,970 Forumite
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    Well that's me sorted on your challenge randomname. I never drink before midday so I'm safe now. Thank you for organising it, I find these mini-challenges within the thread help a lot, and every AF day counts! Hope you get a 100% success rate.

    It's been quiet on here tonight, so hope everone's OK.

    5AF please shaggy.
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