Am I getting all the help i can get ?

Oldernotwiser

Mr_Falling_Star wrote: »

Turn your irony detector on

Oh, come on!

Mr_Falling_Star

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

I don't agree but I do think that anyone who encourages a young person of 19 to work fewer hours so that they can claim more benefits is totally irresponsible and amoral.

This OP could well be genuine but that would be all the more reason to give him sensible, mature advice rather than encouraging him to rely on the welfare state at such a young age.

And you can set your sense of self importance to off

Loopy_Girl

Are you Jeremy Kyle?

pundless

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

I don't agree but I do think that anyone who encourages a young person of 19 to work fewer hours so that they can claim more benefits is totally irresponsible and amoral.

This OP could well be genuine but that would be all the more reason to give him sensible, mature advice rather than encouraging him to rely on the welfare state at such a young age.

I'm not trying to to rely on welfare I do my bit ! i pay my way !
I only lowered my hours because my health is suffering I needed help ok I NEED HELP are you happy now ?

And note that for my age group I work VERY hard I Don't get given anything no mummy or daddy to buy me lunch, buy me a car , take me on holiday.

And yes that feeling is bad but that's life , what do i do ? I get a job ! I try to better my life, But it's hard ok everything keeps going or getting taken away from me but still i keep trying. Two hours it took me to push two wooden crates over two miles , was given nasty looks by people driving there cars Two people started to call my names , you know how bad that made me feel ? but I kept going.

This sounds dumb but i was proud of myself I woke up with no bed and after all there names, after all the hand pains I made it and as soon as i find more wood I can make my bed.

so come on anyone who wants to hate I'm ready And I'm strong.

pundless

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

Are you Jeremy Kyle?

Yes, Now when would you like to come on the show we need some more loopy girls

Morgan_Ree

pundless wrote: »

Why are you doing this I Just Don't understand I made this to get help Yet you just posted this, I don't get it Why are you doing this






Listen guys I don't want sympathy, I don't want hate , I just want a happy life, I want to be healthy I want to be my best.

The only reason I made this was to get some help and advice From People who Are willing and able to do so.

I wont go into how i really feel about this all due to il get flamed But please just remember.

I am a person And I'm trying to fix my life If anything I do makes you angry in some way then please walk away you don't have to make things worse for me and lower yourself as a person, Just be your best.

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

First was the ghetto talk, now it's one big cheese on toast fest.
I love this thread.

Jowo_2

pundless wrote: »

... Two hours it took me to push two wooden crates over two miles , was given nasty looks by people driving there cars Two people started to call my names , you know how bad that made me feel ? but I kept going.

This sounds dumb but i was proud of myself I woke up with no bed and after all there names, after all the hand pains I made it and as soon as i find more wood I can make my bed.

so come on anyone who wants to hate I'm ready And I'm strong.

An alternative to this masochism is Freecycle, Freegle, Gumtree freebies and so forth.

Loopy_Girl

pundless wrote: »

Yes, Now when would you like to come on the show we need some more loopy girls

Can I bring my baby that I have had...father is a toss up between my cousins nephews brother's Dad Uncle....OR Ashley Cole

Am hoping for the latter if only for the maintenance payments;)

pundless

Morgan_Ree wrote: »

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

First was the ghetto talk, now it's one big cheese on toast fest.
I love this thread.

If you need to talk just pm me Il do my best to help you

Loopy_Girl

pundless wrote: »

And note that for my age group I work VERY hard I Don't get given anything no mummy or daddy to buy me lunch, buy me a car , take me on holiday.

Sweetie, when I was 19 (I'm 35 now), there was no WTC and I also owned my first flat. I had 2 jobs totalling an 18 hour weekday and all day on a Sat. I was also working towards my ACII exam at my main job....plus I went out and caned it every weekend;)

I am mindful that you may still be grieving for your Mother but if you are that determined then you need to get off your tush and work work work and have a good life...shelve the career aspirations for now - your main priority is to get a regular income and some savings. You are 19 - you have your whole life to study, train and be successful but you need to deal in the here and now.

And c'mon...you must know yourself that 21 hours is a crappy contribution?!;)

I actually believe that you do want to suceed but you SO need to get the mindset changed...you should be falling into bed each night bloody knackered as you have worked a long day...but hey, you're 19, fit, young and healthy with no dependants so get yourself out there and shape a life then do your retraining.

Good luck...and I would stop with the haters theme...seriously...it's not hate talk you are reading it's just sheer incredulility;)

Prove them - and yourself -correct