We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Phew its a scorcher!! Sat & Sun Daily Chat

1151618202124

Comments

  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    afternoon

    What a weird weekend. Ex was supposed to come and take B to playpark this morning so got my running kit on ready to go...and waited and waited, text him and said he wouldn't be there until this afternoon. Not happy...then he arrived and said I won't be long as Ive got to get home (5 hours away) and so R and I didn't do anything as knew there wouldn't be time to go anywhere. So waited and waited and 2 hours later he brings her back. So basically Ive waisted the whole day waiting around, didn't get a run, feel mighty !!!!ed off and now R has gone home :(

    Still only 5 possible weeks until we move and I can't wait, no more of this goodbyes and waiting days to see each other!
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • elfen
    elfen Posts: 10,213 Forumite
    sal, I get the feeling your ex is being a !!!! because of R. If he is, then he's even more childish than B, who's allowed cos she IS a kiddie. Just keep counting those days hun.
    ** Total debt: £6950.82 ± May NSDs 1/10 **
    ** Fat Bum Shrinking: -7/56lbs **
    **SPC 2012 #1498 -£152 and 1499 ***
    I do it all because I'm scared.
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    stupid ex-!!!!!! sally....you must start to give boundaries...here by 10am and bring her back by 4pm say...otherwise don't bother turning up. Otherwise he is just gonna take the pi$$.

    Sorry about your run...I have my running mojo back now and was looking forward to see how your run went.

    I might just go to bed when OH goes back up north..I am shattered and next week is going to be one hell of a week workwise!!
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    Really sorry to hear that Sal, it's not fair on you or on Bea.
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Yes Its partly my own fault as I should have either said what time you bringing her back or state a time. Guess its all a learning curve and the house move is only going to add another dimension to the already complication situation!
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    And yes Sammy most annoyed about run more than anything especially as we were both raring to get out and do 6 miles ish
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Pooky
    Pooky Posts: 7,023 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    SRM - Must be something thing the water - DH has just grounded DD1 for her cheek and attitude.....DD2 has a dose of the mega sulks that come with sleeping over at someone elses house and not getting to sleep until 2.30am. I've told them both to go upstairs and only come down then they say goodnight. :mad:

    Sal - I had that sort of muck around with my ex once he'd moved away - I'd have DD's ready to go out and he'd phone and say - oh I overslept, I'll be 2 hours yet. Or he'd turn up and say I can only do an hour. Got to the point where we didn't get them ready and didn't plan to do anything whilst they were gone, knowing full well they'd be back within an hour anyway. He'd also bring them back and I'd ask what they'd had for lunch and he'd say - Oh I thought you'd fed them so I didn't bother. :mad:

    This is why he is an ex. (well that and other reasons but I'd get banned if I mentioned everything)

    Made a scrummy pepperoni, yeast free pizza for tea which was lovely. Now off to crochet and veg in front of the telly.
    "Start every day off with a smile and get it over with" - W. C. Field.
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    Pooky I read that as off to crochet veg in front of the telly!

    I'm seriously considering being naughty and going out for carvery for tea. But it costs nearly £4 more on a sunday. Hmm.
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Photogenic Combo Breaker
    sallyx wrote: »
    Yes Its partly my own fault as I should have either said what time you bringing her back or state a time.
    :naughty:

    No, no no.

    Not your fault at all. He agreed to do something and didn't. He is at fault, not you. :kisses3:
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    I agree with BB, he's the one messing you about, not your fault at all.
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.5K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.2K Spending & Discounts
  • 245K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 600.6K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.4K Life & Family
  • 258.8K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.2K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.