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Weekly Flylady Thread 5th July 2010
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Anyone fancy joining me for a HHC 9.30 - 10? I know it's early for a Saturday morning but hey!NST #10 Steps 7K 2/30 10K 2/12 5 a day 3/30 NSD 0/20
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valli he sounds like a very nice man.
Flying wise I have unloaded the airer...Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x0 -
Craftyscholar wrote: »Mmmm - well you really can't do 'don't do as I do, do as I tell you'
Pleased he is concerned about how your kids feel.As the adut dealing with children.. yes you can!!
Otherwise adults would not be allowed ro drive, drink, smoke, have sex, eat ice cream in bed etc.. all those perks of being an adult would be pointless.
'tis a dilemma...FWIW I DO think it's important to set an example of appropriate behaviour because of all the unpleasant things that can go along with promiscuous behaviour. They've always been against smoking, not least because of their infantile asthma. As for eating ice cream in bed :eek: I would NEVER do that but Miss Valli does...reason being SHE likes ice cream and I don't:rotfl:
Valli - FWIW - I think you're making the right decision and he sounds like a nice guy.
Jue
trouble is now I'm all nervous...
now...do I say anything to exH or leave it to the Vallikids to blab (because they will). He NEVER told me when he got a new GF and he's living with GF3. Knowing his attitude re strangers (and peedos) he will jump to conclusions (because that's his style) - but I have been expected to allow the Vallikids to spend time with the GFs while knowing VERY little about them. (I only know GF3's surname because she's a friend of DD on Facebook)
Anyway I'll join you Juliejim. Dining room's a mess and I've an example to set. (Everywhere else is fine though;) as I am a good Flylady but that's the RoD with integral hotspots:rotfl:)Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
Janice 1964-2016
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I wouldn't bother saying anything to him Valli - it's none of his business!NST #10 Steps 7K 2/30 10K 2/12 5 a day 3/30 NSD 0/20
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If you respect him, tell him in person. If you don't, let the kids blab...Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x0
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Off we go then Valli!NST #10 Steps 7K 2/30 10K 2/12 5 a day 3/30 NSD 0/20
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I wouldn't bother saying anything to him Valli - it's none of his business!gratefulforhelp wrote: »If you respect him, tell him in person. If you don't, let the kids blab...
If I respected him he would probably NOT be my ex LOL. He has NEVER told me anything I NEEDED to know...I'm keeping schtum then. S'not like OH is moving in
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*goes to get Mr Sheen from bedroom which got an emergency clean LOL*Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily DickinsonJanice 1964-2016
Thank you Honey Bear0 -
Children are not equals.. they are there to learn so we operate a policy of 'do as I say not as I do'.. obviously i do not engage in illegal activities or anything that would harm anyone else.. but quite simply children do not and cannot have the same rights and liberties as adults. They are wild creatures to be civilised.
It is nothing to do with exKH.. so don't say anything. My KH told these OH wasn't interested in me he just wanted to abuse them!!!
I may finish this sleeve I am knitting (8 rows) and then i shall construct a list for today..LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14Hope to be debt free until the day I dieMortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)0 -
morning all
we have rain!!!!
mummyslittleboy your room looks fabulous - it will be easy to keep tidy now because you will love the way it looks - have an easy weekend and recover.
Valli I think its excellent that OH is concerned about the childrens feelings -once DD gets used to him being there then it wont be such a huge step to him being in your bed. Hope you have a lovely weekend. ETA stuff exH - you are under no obligation to tell him anything - if the kids do then thats fine - dont let him be a part of this happy partnership - dont tell him (IMHO!!)
Helen J thanks but its the remote control cable so will need to find an electrician - hope you feel better later:D
catch you later
toots xxPeace will be mine
could do better - must try harder
Live each day as if its your last
DFW Nerd #1000 Proud to be dealing with my debts
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If I respected him he would probably NOT be my ex LOL. He has NEVER told me anything I NEEDED to know...I'm keeping schtum then. S'not like OH is moving in;);):o
There have to be advantages to divorce, you don't have to tell him anything!It is nothing to do with exKH.. so don't say anything. My KH told these OH wasn't interested in me he just wanted to abuse them!!!
Thats pretty sick of him.Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x0
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