MSE Parents Club Part 13

r.mac_2

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

*sigh*
Was having a text chat this morning with hubby, asking him if he had a good time yesterday and laughing asking if he missed his lovely wifey...he replied that he missed his wifey and child so now I am in a grump with him - I can't express why but does anybody understand? Am I being stupid?

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

He called me beautiful actually! Nah it is him bringing the baby into the conversation like that makes me react all 'meh'

I totally get that and feel like this too. hubby is really bad at replying to a question/statement along those lines with LO first - sometimes he does it to wind me up - othertimes its just because he did miss both of us. But it does bother me sometimes too.

Having a bad start to the morning. I'm in a bad mood though not entirely sure why.

I did feel at all rested after my night away - I left in a hurry with a screaming baby and a husband making me feel really guilty to come home less than 24hrs later to a a house full on in-laws chaos and a child who couldn't wait to see me as well as a huge handful of guilt that I might have been trying to put myself before LO and husband.

24hours wasn't possibly long enough and has just made me feel more tired, snappy and in need of some time to myself. I feel like crying but not really sure why. Sorry guys

Krystaltips

My La redoute order arrived... I fluffed up the size on the velour sleepsuits and I'm really annoyed with myself now...

Evansangel

What was the La Redoute offer?

r.mac_2

aw krystal - too big or too small? could you return them or swap them or ebay them or recycle gift them?

My_Fathers_Daughter

((HUGS)) MacSmiler - I am sure that both our husbands are thinking that if they don't say anything about the children then they would not be appreciating that we are at home with them.

Sounds like you could do with a break hun, not long until your holiday now xx

r.mac_2

yes - I am looking forward to it and I know I'm lucky - I just feel that I also work really hard and its not always recognised because it hasn't got a salary attached to it, and people take avantage of that.

i do feel better for my hug though thanks!

My_Fathers_Daughter

r.mac wrote: »

yes - I am looking forward to it and I know I'm lucky - I just feel that I also work really hard and its not always recognised because it hasn't got a salary attached to it, and people take avantage of that.

i do feel better for my hug though thanks!

You get a wonderful little person rather than a wage packet though

Ha ha - as 'main breadwinner' and 'main caregiver' (well if you don't count CM ) I feel like I am holding up the roof for my little lot!

Still, these things are sent to try us - we are women and we are strong enough to cope, as long as we are not too proud to ask for a little help here and there.

Krystaltips

r.mac wrote: »

aw krystal - too big or too small? could you return them or swap them or ebay them or recycle gift them?

They're too small... Newborn size... I might give them a ring and see if they'll exchange them for the right size... Otherwise I'll try all of the above lol...

Sorry you feel a bit pants about your time away... OH could have made it a lot easier for you but they don't get that... I hope your holiday is nice and relaxing

Evansangel

Krystaltips wrote: »

They're too small... Newborn size... I might give them a ring and see if they'll exchange them for the right size... Otherwise I'll try all of the above lol...

Sorry you feel a bit pants about your time away... OH could have made it a lot easier for you but they don't get that... I hope your holiday is nice and relaxing

Or use for the next newborn coming your way?

Krystaltips

EA, the la redoute offer was a £10 off code with no minimum spend... And I don't have newborn sized children... I give birth to 0-3s lol... (plus they're raspberry coloured, and I could still have a boy... Even though Hubby has now decided he really likes our choice of girl name and he would like a girl...)

Mfd, you are the main caregiver... The CM doesn't count, she's an employee... She'll never love him like his Mama does