MSE Parents Club Part 13

redstararnie76

Aww, I'm sorry Maz, that's rotten!

ManOnTheMoon

Maz - best wishes to William. I hope he feels better soon.

I've not been invited to Birmingham and even if I was, i'm not really a 'meet with people' kinda chap. I'm sure most of you are lovely, but I am fairly private and busy with a handful of youngsters anyway. I'm just not a meet/posting pics/names kind of person, partially as i'm hoping my two ex partners never turn up on here :eek: I'm sure SM's organisation skills are appreciated and that all that do go have a great time. It looks like 9 or 10 of you with children, which is a nice size group.

Not getting impatient, but when does the midwife usually get in touch after going to the GP? It's only been 5 days, but Lucy will be 6 weeks this week and the GP said week 8 or 9 will be the first midwife appointment. With my girls, the GP asked us to make an appointment then and there, but didn't this time.

MadDogWoman_2

Red - my DH doesn't get it either, but he doesn't really get computers anyway, however, he knows the support I gained from another online community when going through fertility treatment and pregnancy.

He's actually come with both times I've met people from here, which helped - would that be an option?

Mazcabs

Krystaltips wrote: »

Maz, is there no way you can get him into the Dr/nurse and get them to say it isn't and take him back to nursery?

OH has managed to wangle getting home before we have to leave for theatre :j and is gonna keep an eye on him and see if he needs to take him to the drs... chicken pox spots dont start off really small like that do they?

redstararnie76

MadDogWoman wrote: »

Red - my DH doesn't get it either, but he doesn't really get computers anyway, however, he knows the support I gained from another online community when going through fertility treatment and pregnancy.

He's actually come with both times I've met people from here, which helped - would that be an option?

Hi MDW, thank-you for your comment. Unfortunately it's not really an option. My husband doesn't really 'mix well with people' (outside of the family, obviously)! He hates socialising and is reluctant to mix, even with people we know quite well. Ironically, he works with computers, but he's really cynical about people who post on forums - he doesn't believe anyone is who they claim to be!
He knows that I find this forum a huge help, so he has no problem with me reading and posting, he just wouldn't want me to meet up in RL .
(I don't mean any offense, because obviously I know you're all lovely!)

tarajayne

Some have explained, and Red thank-you, and yes I hope some do feel bad as I know about the 'pm' messaging that goes on and am very umcomfortable with it. The majority of people are lovely and need not feel bad at all but this thread has got clicky and it's made worse by some, they can feel as bad as they like but they won't. The nasty remarks that get messaged behind the scenes are not nice and quite frankly I'm way too old for it.

It is with tears that I say my goodbyes, you've been amazing and got me through some terrible times, and some very happy ones. SM gets a hard time on here and is ignored by many, I don't always agree with her choices but have always talked to her about it. I'm absolutely sure others don't agree with mine but why should they, they're mine to make. I may post occasionally but don't think it fair to just come on and not keep up to date with others. I have read this thread almost every day for abouth 18mths now so will miss some of you very much. Too upset to type now...

MadDogWoman_2

Maz - when Katie had it last year, they started off quite small which grew and more developed before your eyes.

MOTM - after I got my BFP with Katie, I informed the GP (who teared up!), I then chased round for a midwife appointment, as I couldn't confirm dates plus I needed to know as I was going on a weeks holiday within the week.

It took a week with some ringing round, got the scan on Tuesday flew to Greece on Friday happy in the knowlege I was 10 weeks pg and all was OK.

Tara - I'm so sorry you're upset, and I'm looking forward to meeting you next week.

Krystaltips

Tara, I have no idea what you're going on about hun? You're obviously upset about something but is it worth it?

My_Fathers_Daughter

Apologies Tara - I like and respect you very much but I haven't got the faintest clue what you are talking about so it all looks very bizarre coming from an unbiased and ignorant point of view.

I hope we speak again soon xx

redstararnie76

Tara - I think I've missed something as I don't really know what you're referring to, but speaking for myself, you've been one of the most supportive and friendly people on this thread, so please don't go .
I find this thread a bit too clique-y at times, but everytime I need some help you're all there for me, so I put this down to the fact that I can't keep up that well and I don't post all that consistently or regularly.