We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

MSE Parents Club Part 13

13183193213233241110

Comments

  • hammyhunter
    hammyhunter Posts: 694 Forumite
    Also has anyone any experience of the intensive driving courses? I need to learn to drive, I feel like I am missing out on so much (cant ever make meets for example) and we are getting some money from In laws after GIL died and I thought maybe I would take a driving company up on their 5 lessons for £60 offer then do a weeks intensive course?

    I did an intensive driving course - 20 lessons within 2 weeks. I only actually used 16 lessons to pass 1st time :D (I used the other 4 to practise motorway driving after!)

    Becles - I hope things improve for you soon. I like the idea of practising at red lights!

    Searchie - I would def be up for a meet in Birmingham :j. I can't believe that you will find out I am a builder called Dave :rotfl:

    3 Are you packed and ready to go?
    The one thing children wear out faster than shoes is parents ;):o:D
  • Hammy how are David's pox today? Is he on the mend?
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
    Proud Mummy to the gorgeous Benjamin John born 14 March 2009, 8lbs 14oz
    A new little seedling on the way, due 30 September 2012
  • hammyhunter
    hammyhunter Posts: 694 Forumite
    His pox looks loads better today, thanks MFD. His spots are healing nicely so fingers crossed, I don't think he will have any scars :j
    The one thing children wear out faster than shoes is parents ;):o:D
  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Oops sorry Susan i hadn't checked my emails - i will read it again soon i need to go out - thanks :D
  • got-it-spend-it
    got-it-spend-it Posts: 5,016 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker

    Oh - and I wouldn't class 5am as being 'night' my mum would just get up at that time!

    Totally agree with this! My MIL actually quite likes it if H wakes up in the night and she has to settle him.
    Becles wrote: »
    Didn't get on very well at the doctors. I've got a very weak pelvic floor muscle a possible slight prolapse which is why I'm needing to wee all the time and sometimes leaking. I'm being referred to physio to strengthen the floor muscles. Hopefully that will work and everything should pop back to normal, but if not they can do surgical stuff to tighten everything back up again. I have to do pelvic floor muscle exercises in the mean time until the physio appointment comes through and go back urgently if I get any dragging pains or anything protruding down there.

    Remember to squeeze regular ladies :D

    My step mum had that surgical procedure and it is pretty untraumatic and it helped her loads!


    FBB- Please thank your super efficient fairies. The tutu arrived today.

    Tis scorching here today. I have been helping out for the NCT at a family fun day today. All very fun except an old 'flame' (or should I say f**k buddy) was there running another stall :eek:! Haven't seen him for years but I just couldn't look him in the eye, much less make small talk across the breastfeeding advice posters! Oh home times have changed! Oh well, at least I straightened my hair and put some slap on this morning!

    Tara- I was wondering whether to try and stay over for the Brum meet. If you find any bargain hotels let me know. I think it's just about doable in a day for me and H, butwould probably be more fun over two days.
    :DYummy mummy, runner, baker and procrastinator :p
  • Evansangel
    Evansangel Posts: 6,791 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Photogenic Combo Breaker
    I have no phone for a week :( Its been sent off for repair :j

    I went to baby group today, its the first one i've ever been to. Lily was a bit wary at first but she soon loved it.
    She spent ages just licking one of the toys :rotfl:

    We did some hand and footprints in this clay type thing, its currently drying in the spare room.

    And Lily and our neighbours baby (Ted) finally met. He gave Lily a hug (on her head haha) and she took his dummy out of his mouth :rotfl: Then she squeaked at him for a while. I think she fancies him.. :rotfl:
    ea im not giving up on you ... i need to meet your hyper self and lovely lily :) ...

    I really would love to do a meet :D Just worried about Lily as she's only ever been in a car for about 20mins max.

    I got my new credit card today, i changed my name so they had to replace it. Its very pretty :D
    Shame i wont be using it, it will just stay in my purse as a nice addition :D
  • ajaney
    ajaney Posts: 250 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts
    Hello!

    My lo arrived 4 weeks early by C-section & is 3 weeks 3 days old. I am breastfeeding (very MSE!).

    He sleeps nearly all the time, apart from waking for feeds every 2-3 hours. I feed him, burp him, change him if required, offer the other 'side' if he is still awake, burp him. 95% of the time he falls asleep at the breast. In the day, I put him in his buggy or bouncy chair. At night, he's in his cot in our room.

    Does this sound normal? Everytime someone comes round to see him, he is invaribly asleep & if he wakes, he is rooting. Well-meaning relatives are telling me I am feeding him too much & should give him a dummy instead of feeding him everytime. They also make comment about him sleeping too much so now I am developing a complex about it! Some relatives are in danger of having their visiting rights revoked........

    Its a lot harder than I thought it would be!
    SOA = Statement of Affairs (to find a SOA Calculator, google 'make sense of cards' & click on calculators tab > Statement of Affairs)
  • SusanC_2
    SusanC_2 Posts: 5,344 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Beenie's council is rubbish: My complaint acknowledgement claims it took two days for my e-mail to arrive from when I sent it. Do they really expect me to believe it was lost in cyberspace for two days.
    Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.
    2 Samuel 12:23 Romans 8:28 Psalm 30:5
    "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die"
  • jennynoo
    jennynoo Posts: 1,516 Forumite
    ajaney wrote: »
    Hello!

    My lo arrived 4 weeks early by C-section & is 3 weeks 3 days old. I am breastfeeding (very MSE!).

    He sleeps nearly all the time, apart from waking for feeds every 2-3 hours. I feed him, burp him, change him if required, offer the other 'side' if he is still awake, burp him. 95% of the time he falls asleep at the breast. In the day, I put him in his buggy or bouncy chair. At night, he's in his cot in our room.

    Does this sound normal? Everytime someone comes round to see him, he is invaribly asleep & if he wakes, he is rooting. Well-meaning relatives are telling me I am feeding him too much & should give him a dummy instead of feeding him everytime. They also make comment about him sleeping too much so now I am developing a complex about it! Some relatives are in danger of having their visiting rights revoked........

    Its a lot harder than I thought it would be!

    Welcome Ajaney, sounds totally normal to me, they hardly keep their eyes open in the first few weeks but it soon changes. Your health visitor will be able to tell you if the weight gain is normal but feeding all the time is fine, when bf you can't feed too much :)
    :heart:Mum to DD born Oct 2009 :heart:
    :j DS born April 2013 :j
    Breastfeeding peer supporter with the breastfeeding network. National breastfeeding helpline 0300 100 0212.
    :question: Ask me if you have any baby feeding questions :question:
  • Evansangel
    Evansangel Posts: 6,791 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Photogenic Combo Breaker
    Lily was just sat with my laptop typing :D

    This is what she wrote..

    gfhtdrqxz\\S3XX FFFFFFFF GGTG YT H ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ'UJJJJJJJJH BBUIJHHHHHHHHHHHHHKKJJ UYJH VNUYYNB IU BIUJ BUKI5T3WBIU B554GJ 5DC5TTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT UYJY ]BPO5OLK';/K..P['OKII;;PL,I

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.5K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.2K Spending & Discounts
  • 245K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 600.6K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.4K Life & Family
  • 258.7K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.2K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.